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Roobit User ID: 5770306 United States 03/29/2016 05:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 61408441 United Kingdom 03/29/2016 05:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She's playing , but you're not . It happens a lot . They try to get you emotionally attached like the creepy dudes you see on tv who piss their pants whenever their GF leaves the house ..... but when you don't melt for them they get insulted , and bitchy . Use her |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69051304 United States 03/29/2016 05:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Brussel Sprouts are bitter User ID: 69278581 Belgium 03/29/2016 05:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get a REAL girlfriend. |
Dr. 307-10 User ID: 20392175 United States 03/29/2016 05:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She used you for attention and you were a stop-gap while she worked things out with her ex. Now you're of no use to her because they're getting back together. Move on and find a good woman that isn't emotionally troubled. You're better off without this particular woman, because chances are that she was feeding you bullshit about her ex the whole time. I'd bet almost nothing she told you was true. Dr. 307-10 |
ThisIsSparta User ID: 35846219 United States 03/29/2016 05:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why would someone do this?? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46160644 Started seeing a girl. Both of us are divorced. We hit it off, and were in constant contact. Here is where it got weird. Supposedly her ex is playing games with their son, and won't let her see the kids unless they live together as a divorced couple. (Long story as to how he has temporary custody, but not anything bad on her part) So she wants to live with me. Her father also just passed away and she is getting s large inheritance. She wants to buy a home with me. She talks about having kids with me. Then all of a sudden she goes to see her son and the ex who are out of state, and she returns to text me they will work things out. Sorry. At this point I just said "ok good luck". Two hours later she wants to see me. Misses me. Tells me she feels she is making s big mistake with her ex etc. So now for the next couple of weeks she wants to make sure I am her bf. Great sex. Tells me her new plans etc. Then comes Easter and he visits with the kids. She guaranteed she will never go back with him. One minute she was texting me how much she misses me, then literally ten minutes later told me to delete her number, as she is no good for me. I call in a few days and the number is changed. My questions. A. Does this seem like mental illness? B. Why would someone be almost "forcing" these long term plans on me if they are not sure? I mean she could just say lets hang it and have fun for a bit. C. Does she miss me? D. Will she contact me again? E. Why leave in that manner? Not even a call? Email? Nothing. Most likely, she is bi-polar. Hence, most likely why she does not have custody. (Do not believe a damn thing she says about the custody) RUN, RUN like hell. If you allow her/this in your life, you WILL live to regret it!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 61408441 United Kingdom 03/29/2016 05:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69939215 Poland 03/29/2016 05:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | see just not sure where her bread is butteed.. when things look like she is going to be put to the curb, your ranking gets high when the ex get a little closer and forgives and is nice his ranking goes up of course they had kids so he is always no1 on the list |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 69939215 Poland 03/29/2016 05:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | no i can see Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69939215 see just not sure where her bread is butteed.. when things look like she is going to be put to the curb, your ranking gets high when the ex get a little closer and forgives and is nice his ranking goes up of course they had kids so he is always no1 on the list i know its not the AWNERS you looking for but you have this flaw and women see they can use it. so this flaw can be your best weapon, condom free sex. You can use this flaw to find the right women, one with out issues, enjoy |
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RodeHard Putawaywet User ID: 71345460 United States 03/29/2016 05:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why would someone do this?? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46160644 Started seeing a girl. Both of us are divorced. We hit it off, and were in constant contact. Here is where it got weird. Supposedly her ex is playing games with their son, and won't let her see the kids unless they live together as a divorced couple. (Long story as to how he has temporary custody, but not anything bad on her part) So she wants to live with me. Her father also just passed away and she is getting s large inheritance. She wants to buy a home with me. She talks about having kids with me. Then all of a sudden she goes to see her son and the ex who are out of state, and she returns to text me they will work things out. Sorry. At this point I just said "ok good luck". Two hours later she wants to see me. Misses me. Tells me she feels she is making s big mistake with her ex etc. So now for the next couple of weeks she wants to make sure I am her bf. Great sex. Tells me her new plans etc. Then comes Easter and he visits with the kids. She guaranteed she will never go back with him. One minute she was texting me how much she misses me, then literally ten minutes later told me to delete her number, as she is no good for me. I call in a few days and the number is changed. My questions. A. Does this seem like mental illness? B. Why would someone be almost "forcing" these long term plans on me if they are not sure? I mean she could just say lets hang it and have fun for a bit. C. Does she miss me? D. Will she contact me again? E. Why leave in that manner? Not even a call? Email? Nothing. Every time she goes to see her son, she cheats on you. You should have dumped her immediately and refused to talk to her. She's still mentally married to her ex husband. I don't have the time or the crayons to explain this to you. Slake Blake |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71506996 United States 03/29/2016 05:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 46160644 United States 03/29/2016 05:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's odd because she is seemingly confident, together, etc. I guess what irked me is the changing of the number and not even a call or email. If she gets back together with the ex then good for her and maybe they can have a family again. I am pretty laid back, so it's not like I would have went off or something. Is it some way to control? To try and hurt someone? I mean nothing at all. After she was swearing up and down she is single, it's over with him, etc. She was even asking where I want to live, when, where to buy a house, if I needed money for my business, how many kids I want, when etc. she took it to some extreme level. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 61408441 United Kingdom 03/29/2016 05:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's odd because she is seemingly confident, together, etc. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46160644 I guess what irked me is the changing of the number and not even a call or email. If she gets back together with the ex then good for her and maybe they can have a family again. I am pretty laid back, so it's not like I would have went off or something. Is it some way to control? To try and hurt someone? I mean nothing at all. After she was swearing up and down she is single, it's over with him, etc. She was even asking where I want to live, when, where to buy a house, if I needed money for my business, how many kids I want, when etc. she took it to some extreme level. She wants to break you down emotionally . GO GET A NEW WOMAN FFS !!!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 69227391 Netherlands 03/29/2016 05:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 50585702 United States 03/29/2016 05:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | she's nuts, count your blessings she left, and is some other dudes problem and move on. IF you want to drive her crazy. Go to a club, find the hottest woman you can , have her take a selfie kissing you, and put it on your social media and write something like FOUND THE LOVE OF MY LIFE! women love to stalk, this od chic will see that pic and it will drive her insane. If she tries to contact you tell her fuck off. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 65851463 Canada 03/29/2016 05:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 46160644 United States 03/29/2016 05:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes. I can find other women. And it's not like I am losing sleep or not eating. But it does sting. Not sure why she tried her best to "rope me in". I would wake up and she is cleaning my kitchen and cooking breakfast. Telling me anytime I want I could bring home a girl for a threesome. Texting me non stop how I was the best sex ever. Etc etc. How we should get a huge house together and live together happily. Just so bizarre. |
BlueRidge Doom User ID: 69951555 United States 03/29/2016 05:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There used to be a sister site to GLP, where these type of posts were sent to. Have you noticed that we always kill off the good guys and let the demons run amok? But don't worry, don't be afraid, ever, because this is just a ride. Follow God. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 50585702 United States 03/29/2016 06:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes. I can find other women. And it's not like I am losing sleep or not eating. But it does sting. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46160644 Not sure why she tried her best to "rope me in". I would wake up and she is cleaning my kitchen and cooking breakfast. Telling me anytime I want I could bring home a girl for a threesome. Texting me non stop how I was the best sex ever. Etc etc. How we should get a huge house together and live together happily. Just so bizarre. i can guarantee this Nut Job is lurking on all your social media, do the thing i mentioned with taking a selfie with a hot chic kissing you, and write on there you are in love with the woman in the pic. It will drive this nut job insane when she sees it. But for the love of God, dont go fuck this mentally ill woman, or worse give her any kids. the world has enough crazy people |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1954960 United States 03/29/2016 06:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes. I can find other women. And it's not like I am losing sleep or not eating. But it does sting. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46160644 Not sure why she tried her best to "rope me in". I would wake up and she is cleaning my kitchen and cooking breakfast. Telling me anytime I want I could bring home a girl for a threesome. Texting me non stop how I was the best sex ever. Etc etc. How we should get a huge house together and live together happily. Just so bizarre. Sorry OP she is certifiable. No woman who really likes you offers 3somes like that. Sounds like a borderline or socio to me. They're running rampant these days. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71901883 United States 03/29/2016 06:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Dr. 307-10 User ID: 20392175 United States 03/29/2016 06:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes. I can find other women. And it's not like I am losing sleep or not eating. But it does sting. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46160644 Not sure why she tried her best to "rope me in". I would wake up and she is cleaning my kitchen and cooking breakfast. Telling me anytime I want I could bring home a girl for a threesome. Texting me non stop how I was the best sex ever. Etc etc. How we should get a huge house together and live together happily. Just so bizarre. Women always seem to keep their options open these days. She was probably feeling you out to see if you'd take care of her in case things didn't work out with her ex. As soon as her ex took her back, you were no longer needed. I'm sure it stings like hell, but you're better off in the end. Dr. 307-10 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 64805035 Canada 03/29/2016 06:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Why would someone do this?? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 46160644 Started seeing a girl. Both of us are divorced. We hit it off, and were in constant contact. Here is where it got weird. Supposedly her ex is playing games with their son, and won't let her see the kids unless they live together as a divorced couple. (Long story as to how he has temporary custody, but not anything bad on her part) So she wants to live with me. Her father also just passed away and she is getting s large inheritance. She wants to buy a home with me. She talks about having kids with me. Then all of a sudden she goes to see her son and the ex who are out of state, and she returns to text me they will work things out. Sorry. At this point I just said "ok good luck". Two hours later she wants to see me. Misses me. Tells me she feels she is making s big mistake with her ex etc. So now for the next couple of weeks she wants to make sure I am her bf. Great sex. Tells me her new plans etc. Then comes Easter and he visits with the kids. She guaranteed she will never go back with him. One minute she was texting me how much she misses me, then literally ten minutes later told me to delete her number, as she is no good for me. I call in a few days and the number is changed. My questions. A. Does this seem like mental illness? B. Why would someone be almost "forcing" these long term plans on me if they are not sure? I mean she could just say lets hang it and have fun for a bit. C. Does she miss me? D. Will she contact me again? E. Why leave in that manner? Not even a call? Email? Nothing. She probably cares more for the kids than any of you and is being held over a barrel to comply with ex's demands.. Whatever she did or didn't do to not have custody probably isn't good anyways, regardless what she told you. I would move on.. You don't need the headache unless you want it. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 46160644 United States 03/29/2016 06:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She also made a point to leave her jewelry , clothes, personal items at my house and they are still here. These were our lasts two texts "Oh hey you left your jewelry and necklace at my house if you are looking for it " "I know. It's because I am moving in!!" Then 5 minutes later "Delete my number. I know I said I would never do this to you. I am sorry for being so emotional. He is here. I am no good for you " |
Larry D. Croc User ID: 70736097 United States 03/29/2016 06:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'd be glad to be rid of her. She's crazy, period. Move on and don't look back or you'll never get away. "Socialism only works in two places: Heaven where they don't need it and hell, where they already have it." Ronald Reagan The trouble with our liberal friends is not that they're ignorant; it's just that they know so much that isn't so." Ronald Reagan |
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