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Woman I'm seeing will constantly call and not text | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72156645  United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72156645 United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:21 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Mdc61170 User ID: 71318538  United States05/08/2016 08:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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Ohio chic  User ID: 72139300 United States05/08/2016 08:29 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be fortunate that you have someone that wants to communicate with you. Is it so bad? If that is the only complaint you have, count your blessings. NO! My name is NOT spelled wrong. Grab a dictionary. Peace, Love & Prayers God bless America And YES. I am a nurse! SIDE NOTE- I find articles everywhere and post what I think GLP would like to know. I do not necessarily believe or endorse some articles I find. So do not bash the messenger |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72174423 United States05/08/2016 08:30 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Guy on 7 User ID: 72154460 United States05/08/2016 08:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72156645 United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:35 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No but it's a little awkward when I'm in the middle of something or something with my kids but I have to answer a phone call that will go on for hours. I have to put everything on hold to hold a phone up to my ear and even when the conversation dies have to find a way to keep it going, etc. Sometimes it's just easier to text. That's all i'm saying. I'm not used to small talk at all and it's awkward sometimes. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72156645 United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be fortunate that you have someone that wants to communicate with you. Is it so bad? If that is the only complaint you have, count your blessings. Quoting: Ohio chic No it's not so bad and I like her a lot too so that's why it's not a dealbreaker or anything like that. It's something I am willing to tolerate, but it's just that we are exhausting every topic over the phone and then when I actually see her in person there is not much to say because it's already been said in hours of phone calls. |
| IllumiNaughty User ID: 27069898 United States05/08/2016 08:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 70942021  Sweden05/08/2016 08:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No but it's a little awkward when I'm in the middle of something or something with my kids but I have to answer a phone call that will go on for hours. I have to put everything on hold to hold a phone up to my ear and even when the conversation dies have to find a way to keep it going, etc. Sometimes it's just easier to text. That's all i'm saying. I'm not used to small talk at all and it's awkward sometimes. then fking tell her that? or it will start getting very annoying and you will break up |
| Ohio chic User ID: 72139300 United States05/08/2016 08:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No but it's a little awkward when I'm in the middle of something or something with my kids but I have to answer a phone call that will go on for hours. I have to put everything on hold to hold a phone up to my ear and even when the conversation dies have to find a way to keep it going, etc. Sometimes it's just easier to text. That's all i'm saying. I'm not used to small talk at all and it's awkward sometimes. then fking tell her that? or it will start getting very annoying and you will break up Honesty is the best policy if you want this to work out. You can do it in a polite way. NO! My name is NOT spelled wrong. Grab a dictionary. Peace, Love & Prayers God bless America And YES. I am a nurse! SIDE NOTE- I find articles everywhere and post what I think GLP would like to know. I do not necessarily believe or endorse some articles I find. So do not bash the messenger |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72156645 United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No but it's a little awkward when I'm in the middle of something or something with my kids but I have to answer a phone call that will go on for hours. I have to put everything on hold to hold a phone up to my ear and even when the conversation dies have to find a way to keep it going, etc. Sometimes it's just easier to text. That's all i'm saying. I'm not used to small talk at all and it's awkward sometimes. then fking tell her that? or it will start getting very annoying and you will break up Honesty is the best policy if you want this to work out. You can do it in a polite way. But she might take it the wrong way, you know? How on earth can you put something like that in a polite and nice way? |
| Guy on 7 User ID: 72154460 United States05/08/2016 08:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be fortunate that you have someone that wants to communicate with you. Is it so bad? If that is the only complaint you have, count your blessings. Quoting: Ohio chic No it's not so bad and I like her a lot too so that's why it's not a dealbreaker or anything like that. It's something I am willing to tolerate, but it's just that we are exhausting every topic over the phone and then when I actually see her in person there is not much to say because it's already been said in hours of phone calls. Bro...how old are you? Do you hear yourself? I like her a lot too so that's why it's not a dealbreaker or anything like that. It's something I am willing to tolerate. The girl you dig calls you... and you'll tolerate it??? The fuck? Would it be less annoying if she had a dick? Guy on 7 |
| Guy on 7 User ID: 72154460 United States05/08/2016 08:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72156645 United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Be fortunate that you have someone that wants to communicate with you. Is it so bad? If that is the only complaint you have, count your blessings. Quoting: Ohio chic No it's not so bad and I like her a lot too so that's why it's not a dealbreaker or anything like that. It's something I am willing to tolerate, but it's just that we are exhausting every topic over the phone and then when I actually see her in person there is not much to say because it's already been said in hours of phone calls. Bro...how old are you? Do you hear yourself? I like her a lot too so that's why it's not a dealbreaker or anything like that. It's something I am willing to tolerate. The girl you dig calls you... and you'll tolerate it??? The fuck? Would it be less annoying if she had a dick? Well I don't feel the need to small talk and chit chat about every single topic under the sun for hours in phone calls. That's just not the way I am. I prefer to do that sort of thing in person. I don't know any other men who sit on the phone for 1-2 hours chatting to their girl every day at least 3 times a day. Do you? |
| Guy on 7 User ID: 72154460 United States05/08/2016 08:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not trying to be a dick... just man up is all I'm trying to say I guess... Example: you (text) hey just thinking about you miss ya <3 Her (ring) You:hello oh hi baby hey can't talk right now I'm cooking for the kids but text me so we can talk. Opps Guy on 7 |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72156645 United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not trying to be a dick... just man up is all I'm trying to say I guess... Quoting: Guy on 7 Example: you:text: hey just thinking about you miss ya <3 Her:ring: You:hello oh hi baby hey can't talk right now I'm cooking for the kids but text me so we can talk. I have done that exact scenario you just posted but she still continues to call me rather than answer me via text lol |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72141365  South Africa05/08/2016 08:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't get me wrong I don't mind communicating via a phone call instead of text as writing out long text messages is annoying. However this woman will call for every small thing, at least 3 times a day and the phone calls last hours while she goes on and on about everything. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72156645 For instance I will ask her does she want to do something tomorrow and instead of replying with a simple 'yea we'll sort it out tomorrow' I'll get a phone call with her answer as well as an hours worth of chit chatter about nothing in particular. Anyone else ever dealt with a woman who calls you multiple times for hours and doesn't text? I'm used to texting women. I do like phone calls but i can't deal with holding a phone to my ear for over an hour of female-like chit chat. Your issue is not constantly talking to her but rather how you handle the awkwardness when you have nothing to say to each other. Relationships are built on idle chit-chat, you don't have to talk to each other every 5 seconds in order for it to work. If there is a mutual happiness between you two, if she does her thing and you yours without issue you are fine. When you do, do something together enjoy it, as well as the quiet times. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72156645 United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not trying to be a dick... just man up is all I'm trying to say I guess... Quoting: Guy on 7 Example: you (text) hey just thinking about you miss ya <3 Her (ring) You:hello oh hi baby hey can't talk right now I'm cooking for the kids but text me so we can talk. Opps Said she is just old school and prefers calls to texts./ |
| Guy on 7 User ID: 72154460 United States05/08/2016 08:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not trying to be a dick... just man up is all I'm trying to say I guess... Quoting: Guy on 7 Example: you  hey just thinking about you miss ya <3Her  You:hello oh hi baby hey can't talk right now I'm cooking for the kids but text me so we can talk. I have done that exact scenario you just posted but she still continues to call me rather than answer me via text lol Oh well then it's simple she don't have unlimited text lol it cost her 10 cents every time you text here lol Guy on 7 |
| Anonymous Poster User ID: 30353092 United States05/08/2016 08:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Guy on 7 User ID: 72154460 United States05/08/2016 08:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 56867035 United States05/08/2016 08:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Either tell her you gotta go or put phone down and do something else occasionally picking phone back up and saying "uh huh". Or "go on" then walk off again. It's a win-win because you don't have to listen to her blather and she feels she is bonding. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72156645 United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm not trying to be a dick... just man up is all I'm trying to say I guess... Quoting: Guy on 7 Example: you:text: hey just thinking about you miss ya <3 Her:ring: You:hello oh hi baby hey can't talk right now I'm cooking for the kids but text me so we can talk. I have done that exact scenario you just posted but she still continues to call me rather than answer me via text lol Oh well then it's simple she don't have unlimited text lol it cost her 10 cents every time you text here lol She has both unlimited calls and texts. It's not just me she calls for hours though. She chats to her friends and sister for hours at a time too. She's ALWAYS on the phone all day. I dunno I guess i'm just surprised that most women these days seem to text and facebook every communication and I'm not used to one that calls multiple times a day. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72156645 United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Either tell her you gotta go or put phone down and do something else occasionally picking phone back up and saying "uh huh". Or "go on" then walk off again. It's a win-win because you don't have to listen to her blather and she feels she is bonding. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 56867035 Yeah that's what I do already. If I didn't we'd be on the phone all day and night. She NEVER wants to come off the phone lol |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72156645 United Kingdom05/08/2016 08:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Guy on 7 User ID: 72154460 United States05/08/2016 08:54 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Guy on 7 User ID: 72154460 United States05/08/2016 08:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 71428820 United States05/08/2016 09:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do not answer Text that you will talk later If she pouts- she's too clingy and needy and ditch her fast. It will never end. Maybe she doesn't have a text friendly phone- or has an old one with 3 letters on each button. Most women are text crazy- or maybe she can't spell. Tell her you CARE 24/7 but have other responsibilities. Better to get over it sooner than later. Does she have a job? A life? Better get one to be with someone that does! |
| IllumiNaughty User ID: 27069898 United States05/08/2016 09:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you can't/won't set personal boundaries and she can't/won't accept them, it is bad news for the relationship. YOU need to be firm with not having extended conversations if you don't feel like it. Just say something like, "I'd love to talk but I'm in the middle of something, I'll talk to you later, or you can text me." It is perfectly polite and reasonable. See how she reacts after you doing that a few times. The Orignal. Please don't request stalking. I'm just not that into you. |
