My friends warned me...but I didn't listen.

You just married a fake, controlling bitch is all

Apparently so.

Ok sure shill robot sure

Yep, welcome to the married club. The longer your married, the less often it happens. I get all the pussy I want, but a BJ now and then isn't too much to ask.

It's the old joke about why the bride is smiling as she's walking down the aisle, she knows she's given her last bj!!

Fucking evil

I bet she would get on her knees for the hot guy at the gym in a second. That's just woman's biological nature. OP have you turned into the soft, whiny, yes dear, beta husband? If so no wonder she won't blow you.

What's her side of the story? Do you love her?

Kind of. It's hard to work out anymore.

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You lost the moment you committed to a woman mate. The moment you entered a relationship. Now all that's left is for her to have a "girl's night" where they suck off some Chad while you sit cucked at home.

Thanks for the heads up. Not that I needed it. Feminism has corrupted the institution of marriage. I would only marry a humble woman who respected her place in the marriage. Not many of them today sadly so I guess I won't be getting married or maybe not having children. Thanks feminism. You have a lot to answer and the pay back will be a bitch. For all supporters of such a satanic ideology.

Women change when they realize they have You by the balls. The minute You get enslaved to a mortgage and working to support a family that's when they have Your nuts in a bag. The only way You will gain them back is to make Her feel insecure then She will get Her crap together in a heart beat.

Like start to show interest in another girl? Or tell her she's putting some weight on?

If it's under 2 years in most states you can have the marriage annulled

It means there are no divorce proceedings. She takes what she brought into the marriage and you take yours. No alimony or any of that liberal psycho horse shit. You should do it right now. Get out now.

Most men fall into the marriage trap. Welcome to the club.

I haven't had a legit BJ in years.

We have sex a couple times a week and it's so so. I'm longing to bang other chicks but never will because I'm loyal till the end.

I have to deal with way more bullshit and drama now. Sometimes I'm so tired of being around her and sneak off. Then she's says I'm avoiding her.

Or she picks a fight, I annihilate her stupid stance with logic and facts and then she calls me an asshole who's just looking to start shit. The nerve.

Then other times she's great and we're doing good.

Marriage can be a fucked up mixed bag and I know women feel the same. I tell you one thing I'm probably flying solo again once the kids are grown up and out of the house. That's soooo so far away though.......

Look into this, OP.

THIS!

Sounds like my situation.

sounds like it's time for a side piece.

I have a great marriage because I chose a great woman.

She's happy, smart, bubbly, and she loves me.

We still have sex like we're in college. Been together 17 years and nothing has changed.

Before that thought I dated hundreds of women. At least 350. And I banged 99% of them. Women are strange creatures. You can't remain happy and think of them as normal people because they are not. They are subject to emotions and hormones and crazy shit. Think of them as complicated pets and you will become more patient.

One thing though is trust. If you can't trust her and if she is not loyal, then kick her fat ass to the curb pronto. If she flirts with dudes then she is a closet slut cheater. No question about it and you can NEVER listen to her side of the story because remember, she is a complicated pet.

Do not judge her by the standards that you hold yourself to.

If you see any signs of disloyalty or whatever then get the fuck out right now. Don't make excuses. Just divorce her now. Life is very short. Set your feelings and loyalties aside. You can't be loyal to a back stabber.

I have a rule if you don't suck get the fuck out my truck. That goes tk my wife too

Mine too.

Only, she threw me out 5 months ago.

Weight loss surgery also made her crazy, and it only escalated for 3 years until she had enough. She was getting older every day, 36, and knew this would be her one chance to make a break for it and try her life with another dude.

That, my friends, is what 15 years of marriage, a house, 4 cars I bought for her, 2 kids, never having to work one day while married and being there to support all of HER hopes and dreams gets you.

If any of you ever even think of marriage, ask a person who is divorced.

I should mention, she never gave me a bj in YEARS.

But had no problem bragging and trying to hurt me that she blew the first guy that came around.

Damn, that's rough man. What an utter cunt.

Well aren't you Mr Charming. .does your wife know that you regard her as a house pet?

Great advice. You gotta be The Man!

If she didn't give them to you then chances are she doesn't like giving them. I think it's 50/50 on whether she sucked another guy when she told you but if she did then take it as flattery as it was to "get back at you" or to "hurt you" and it had nothing to do with you physically which those stupid women fail to realize is what we really care about the most at the end of the day.

So in summary, fuck her and be happy that she's slutting around to "show you". It means you're under her skin and her choices have hurt her more than you.

Always remember, married men may live longer, but they are also more willing to die.