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curry nosher User ID: 74924633 Nepal 05/19/2017 07:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Damn op, i feel bad for you mate. Not an easy thing to go through i am sure and probably the best solution for your sanity! With any luck she will grow out of this bs phase and settle down etc, i have known girls like this as friends and they all got through it and settled down and have families etc (in uk). Good luck mate |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 74546020 United States 05/19/2017 07:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is what college parties turn a person into... That's why it could be awful to send a child to college nowadays... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74924826 No, they (women) are like that way before college. Gotta remember, pretty much all girls turn sexual pros by the age of 16. They've been there done that by age 16, I'm not joking College just exemplifies and puts their existing attitude in the public eye. I say that because an incel going to college isn't going to get him laid, in fact, as many incels can prove, it will only exemplify their inceldom, lonliness, ugliness, etc... Lot of depression and frustration develops then |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71469907 Canada 05/19/2017 07:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is what college parties turn a person into... That's why it could be awful to send a child to college nowadays... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74924826 No, they (women) are like that way before college. Gotta remember, pretty much all girls turn sexual pros by the age of 16. They've been there done that by age 16, I'm not joking College just exemplifies and puts their existing attitude in the public eye. I say that because an incel going to college isn't going to get him laid, in fact, as many incels can prove, it will only exemplify their inceldom, lonliness, ugliness, etc... Lot of depression and frustration develops then LEGIT^^^^^^ Story of my fucking life |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 74921034 United States 05/19/2017 07:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You love her no matter what you fucking judgmental asshole. What. Are you jealous? Because if it was you and two hot bitches your mouth would be shut. She lives with you and yet Cannot live? Go fucking kick sand hypocritical sunnaof... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 8330345 United Kingdom 05/19/2017 07:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is what college parties turn a person into... That's why it could be awful to send a child to college nowadays... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74924826 No, they (women) are like that way before college. Gotta remember, pretty much all girls turn sexual pros by the age of 16. They've been there done that by age 16, I'm not joking College just exemplifies and puts their existing attitude in the public eye. I say that because an incel going to college isn't going to get him laid, in fact, as many incels can prove, it will only exemplify their inceldom, lonliness, ugliness, etc... Lot of depression and frustration develops then LEGIT^^^^^^ Story of my fucking life Me too. College was a horrible experience for me. I was so depressed I was really hoping a comet or planet would wipe us all out in 2012 LOL. If you're living a miserable life, college will just magnify your patheticness tenfold. You're struggling to just have a good conversation with a girl yet an average girl (I'm assuming she's average OP) is getting gangbanged by 20 mothafukken CHADS |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71517325 United States 05/19/2017 07:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You love her no matter what you fucking judgmental asshole. Quoting: Vespertopia1818 What. Are you jealous? Because if it was you and two hot bitches your mouth would be shut. She lives with you and yet Cannot live? Go fucking kick sand hypocritical sunnaof... I doubt she pays rent. OP is probably paying for everything else too. She is well into adulthood so if OP disapproves of her behavior then he has a right to tell her to GTFO. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 73311656 United States 05/19/2017 07:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is what college parties turn a person into... That's why it could be awful to send a child to college nowadays... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74924826 No, they (women) are like that way before college. Gotta remember, pretty much all girls turn sexual pros by the age of 16. They've been there done that by age 16, I'm not joking College just exemplifies and puts their existing attitude in the public eye. I say that because an incel going to college isn't going to get him laid, in fact, as many incels can prove, it will only exemplify their inceldom, lonliness, ugliness, etc... Lot of depression and frustration develops then Give any 10 you 12 year old "tweener" girl a Smartphone and see how quick she's sexting and sending naked pics of herself to strangers. Its bad out there. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71517325 United States 05/19/2017 07:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know that some people will think it's wrong but I don't know how else to handle this situation. Ever since my first child was born I've done my best to create an open environment where my children able to talk to me about anything, free of judgement (for the most part). Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever. I wanted them to be able to come to me if they ever had a problem. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72738889 Now to the point of the post: Ever since my daughter started at university she has been sleeping around a lot. In the last year she has had sex with at least 13 different guys and that's just the one's that I know about. On top of that she often goes out to parties and doesn't come home until the next day so it's likely much more than that. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just tells me to stay out of her life and stop judging her. It came to a head yesterday morning when I went into her room to find her asleep in her bed, naked, with two guys. I've tried so hard to be tolerant of whatever she wants to do but I will not have my daughter acting this way; certainly not in my house. I told her to pack her bags and move out - I don't care where. Maybe it makes me a bad dad but she is an adult now. If she wants to act this way then she can pay her own way. Maybe that's the problem. Maybe no boundaries were established. |
curry nosher User ID: 74924633 Nepal 05/19/2017 07:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So she's a free spirit so what. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 71181729 What are you, a fucking saint? It's your duty to care for her no matter what, you brought her to this life. Fucking religiotard. Yeah but care while she lives in her own place. you think her bringing guys back for 3somes is acceptable?? What kind of bs message is that gonna send to siblings etc? I am sorry but i dont know any parent that would allow their daughter 3somes in their home! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1458950 United States 05/19/2017 07:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know that some people will think it's wrong but I don't know how else to handle this situation. Ever since my first child was born I've done my best to create an open environment where my children able to talk to me about anything, free of judgement (for the most part). Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever. I wanted them to be able to come to me if they ever had a problem. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72738889 Now to the point of the post: Ever since my daughter started at university she has been sleeping around a lot. In the last year she has had sex with at least 13 different guys and that's just the one's that I know about. On top of that she often goes out to parties and doesn't come home until the next day so it's likely much more than that. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just tells me to stay out of her life and stop judging her. It came to a head yesterday morning when I went into her room to find her asleep in her bed, naked, with two guys. I've tried so hard to be tolerant of whatever she wants to do but I will not have my daughter acting this way; certainly not in my house. I told her to pack her bags and move out - I don't care where. Maybe it makes me a bad dad but she is an adult now. If she wants to act this way then she can pay her own way. She may be hypersexual which is a symptom of a mental disorder. Have you given her at least a decent amount of freedom and trust? I know some girls may do this because their dad babies and restricts them (be back before 9, no guys, etc) and that makes them want to do the complete opposite. Yeah that is insanely bad...she probably needs your help but yet you threw her out. If you were truly caring and trusting, this isn't something you'd do. She probably has some issue going on but instead of talking about it, you just showed her you'd throw her away like a piece of trash. Now she'll never talk to you about anything. You created her, you have to be there for her. 18 isn't a magic number where she's suddenly no longer your daughter. She's inevitably going to have sex. I mean, I bet you masturbate to women on video, so why hold her back? Just tell her to be responsible and remind her to make the right decision. You guys keep guarding your daughters virginity like it's the most valuable thing about her. It's creepy. And creates weird issues in your daughters lives. (Like op's post) |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71517325 United States 05/19/2017 08:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is what college parties turn a person into... That's why it could be awful to send a child to college nowadays... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74924826 It isn't college parties it's one of two things. Extreme liberal parenting where everything is okay and the kid can do no wrong. or Extreme repressive conservative parenting (often of religious or immigrant nature) that causes the kid to flip their shit as soon as they get an inch of freedom. Unfortunately these two "parenting" strategies are the most common ones in Amerika today. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 71517325 United States 05/19/2017 08:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know that some people will think it's wrong but I don't know how else to handle this situation. Ever since my first child was born I've done my best to create an open environment where my children able to talk to me about anything, free of judgement (for the most part). Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever. I wanted them to be able to come to me if they ever had a problem. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72738889 Now to the point of the post: Ever since my daughter started at university she has been sleeping around a lot. In the last year she has had sex with at least 13 different guys and that's just the one's that I know about. On top of that she often goes out to parties and doesn't come home until the next day so it's likely much more than that. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just tells me to stay out of her life and stop judging her. It came to a head yesterday morning when I went into her room to find her asleep in her bed, naked, with two guys. I've tried so hard to be tolerant of whatever she wants to do but I will not have my daughter acting this way; certainly not in my house. I told her to pack her bags and move out - I don't care where. Maybe it makes me a bad dad but she is an adult now. If she wants to act this way then she can pay her own way. She may be hypersexual which is a symptom of a mental disorder. Have you given her at least a decent amount of freedom and trust? I know some girls may do this because their dad babies and restricts them (be back before 9, no guys, etc) and that makes them want to do the complete opposite. Yeah that is insanely bad...she probably needs your help but yet you threw her out. If you were truly caring and trusting, this isn't something you'd do. She probably has some issue going on but instead of talking about it, you just showed her you'd throw her away like a piece of trash. Now she'll never talk to you about anything. You created her, you have to be there for her. 18 isn't a magic number where she's suddenly no longer your daughter. She's inevitably going to have sex. I mean, I bet you masturbate to women on video, so why hold her back? Just tell her to be responsible and remind her to make the right decision. You guys keep guarding your daughters virginity like it's the most valuable thing about her. It's creepy. And creates weird issues in your daughters lives. (Like op's post) Clearly OP has given her TOO MUCH freedom and trust, which has the exact same effect. She had no foundation or boundaries. I have seen this firsthand. The female children of extreme liberals and conservatives end up the exact same way. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 35933988 United States 05/19/2017 08:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I know that some people will think it's wrong but I don't know how else to handle this situation. Ever since my first child was born I've done my best to create an open environment where my children able to talk to me about anything, free of judgement (for the most part). Sex, drugs, alcohol, whatever. I wanted them to be able to come to me if they ever had a problem. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72738889 Now to the point of the post: Ever since my daughter started at university she has been sleeping around a lot. In the last year she has had sex with at least 13 different guys and that's just the one's that I know about. On top of that she often goes out to parties and doesn't come home until the next day so it's likely much more than that. I've tried to talk to her about it but she just tells me to stay out of her life and stop judging her. It came to a head yesterday morning when I went into her room to find her asleep in her bed, naked, with two guys. I've tried so hard to be tolerant of whatever she wants to do but I will not have my daughter acting this way; certainly not in my house. I told her to pack her bags and move out - I don't care where. Maybe it makes me a bad dad but she is an adult now. If she wants to act this way then she can pay her own way. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 74912880 United Kingdom 05/19/2017 08:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sounds like borderline personality disorder. Did you abuse her? I'll bet you did. But of course you probably have a personality disorder yourself, so you'll never be able to accept responsibility for your actions. I know your type. |
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