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I'm a (Female) Virgin and I have to ask: Is Sex Enjoyable for Women? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 73733285  Australia05/19/2017 11:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74822712  Canada05/19/2017 11:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ive so many scary virginity stories...popping the hymen, and blood coming out everywhere...ughh lol Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45976105 but you aint a woman, just a guy in mothers basement with doritos trying to talk to glp men Clearly. Like there's a woman alive not used to vaginal pain and spurting blood out her snatch. Fucking larpers |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74561869  United States05/19/2017 11:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women get aroused mentally before they do physically. Men get aroused visually. It's only enjoyable if you find someone who knows what they are doing and is actually dedicated towards pleasing you and making sure that you are experiencing the same pleasure as they are, maybe more. Men who are only concerned with their own orgasm and turn sex into a competition rather than a sensual and romantic gesture will make it an absolutely miserable experience. If you ever decide to lose your virginity, make sure that it is with someone who you are sexually attracted to and hold feelings for. If you are sexually attracted to the man then it will make you get aroused extremely easily and you will enjoy the sex because it is someone you want to experience it with. Otherwise, it won't be too great. Don't be afraid to practice. If you explore your body then you'll know what will get you to climax. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74561869 United States05/19/2017 11:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | sad.. Quoting: Grove Street if you are young. i guess i've been blessed. first long term girlfriend when we were young took awhile to get in her zone. i would assume most women should be in that zone by age 25 max. geez. can't keep the 30 and 40 year olds from making a mess of the sheets has been my experience. demand what you want women, and don't hang out with minute men. Men's sexual peak is from 18-25, performance levels drop by 30-35. Women's sexual peak begins at 30 and usually ends in the late 50's. Older women experience sex differently than younger ones. |
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Berf Snurple  User ID: 7301917 United States05/20/2017 12:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You are not a female virgin. You are a male shill. Last Edited by Berf Snurple on 05/20/2017 12:10 AM |
| ChrisTheImpaler User ID: 72456936  United Kingdom05/20/2017 12:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Christ on a toadstool! An obvious guy posts a click bait thread and you are all like flies round shit. Bloody depressing for two reasons: 1. Some people actually treated it as a serious thread. 2. This thread actually exists on GLP. Don't believe everything you see on TV or read on the internet. - Sir Isaac Newton |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74925577 Australia05/20/2017 12:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, it isn't enjoyable. Good thing they were being honest with you rather than falsely getting your hopes up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74561869 When you lose your virginity it is going to hurt like hell, it's going to bleed, it's going to be awkward and it will not feel pleasurable at all. In fact I can guarantee that you will not even come close to feeling like you're about to have an orgasm. The man will be having the time of his like, though. It sucks, I know. It has to do with our anatomy. Women only receive sexual pleasure if their g-spot/nerves are being hit. Most of the time this does not occur. Men on the other hand just need friction in order to feel pleasure. You won't feel any physical pleasure from sex, you're going to have to mentally convince yourself into thinking that it feels good. Basically you're going to have to trick your brain into assuming that because the man is enjoying it that you must be enjoying it too. Sex is a mental game for women, for men it's all physical arousing. That's why they get aroused easier and faster than women. Don't waste your time. Just masturbate. It will guarantee you an orgasm and you won't have to worry about pregnancy, STDs, getting humped for a grand total of two minutes, etc. Obviously these women have never been fucked by a man who knows what he is doing. Its easy to hit the g spot. Its all about angle and pressure. My wife always ends up screaming in uncontrollable pleasure every time. Because...i KNOW what I am doing. But then I do have an advantage. My mother was a nurse and I read all her medical journals and know exactly where the g spot is and exactly how to hit it. So you guys out there...study up. Get the angle right. Dont just shove it in and expect results. You have to WORK it just right. Honestly, you're wife could very easily be faking those "uncontrollable screams". It isn't that hard to fake a moan. She's could be just trying to make you feel better about your performance or she's trying to get you to hurry up and climax. The main reason that women fake their orgasms is to boost the man's ego, and also because they aren't getting any pleasure out of it but want to make it seem like they are. And most men don't know what they are doing when it comes to female pleasure and arousal. Men stick it up and gyrate. They don't give a shit about "angles" they just want to get an orgasm for themselves. Women do not experience sex like men do, men have to put in the work, effort, and find out what positions or things will get their women aroused. Women aren't stimulated nearly as easily as men are. There are actual physical signs which indicate an orgasm. The nipples suddenly become darker and very hard...the face and neck flushes a differnt shade...the breathing becomes erratic...the toes and feet curl..fingers claw uncontrollqbly...the whole body shakes with epileptic like spasm that dont stop till the orgasm ends...and you cant fake all that shit any more than a man can fake an orgasm. Iys just your average millenifuck fag these days has NO damn idea what to do or look for and neither do they give a shit about the womans pleasure...only their own. Useless fucks all of them. No wonder women are so fucken high strung and frustrated these days. Useless males. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74561869 United States05/20/2017 12:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, it isn't enjoyable. Good thing they were being honest with you rather than falsely getting your hopes up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74561869 When you lose your virginity it is going to hurt like hell, it's going to bleed, it's going to be awkward and it will not feel pleasurable at all. In fact I can guarantee that you will not even come close to feeling like you're about to have an orgasm. The man will be having the time of his like, though. It sucks, I know. It has to do with our anatomy. Women only receive sexual pleasure if their g-spot/nerves are being hit. Most of the time this does not occur. Men on the other hand just need friction in order to feel pleasure. You won't feel any physical pleasure from sex, you're going to have to mentally convince yourself into thinking that it feels good. Basically you're going to have to trick your brain into assuming that because the man is enjoying it that you must be enjoying it too. Sex is a mental game for women, for men it's all physical arousing. That's why they get aroused easier and faster than women. Don't waste your time. Just masturbate. It will guarantee you an orgasm and you won't have to worry about pregnancy, STDs, getting humped for a grand total of two minutes, etc. Obviously these women have never been fucked by a man who knows what he is doing. Its easy to hit the g spot. Its all about angle and pressure. My wife always ends up screaming in uncontrollable pleasure every time. Because...i KNOW what I am doing. But then I do have an advantage. My mother was a nurse and I read all her medical journals and know exactly where the g spot is and exactly how to hit it. So you guys out there...study up. Get the angle right. Dont just shove it in and expect results. You have to WORK it just right. Honestly, you're wife could very easily be faking those "uncontrollable screams". It isn't that hard to fake a moan. She's could be just trying to make you feel better about your performance or she's trying to get you to hurry up and climax. The main reason that women fake their orgasms is to boost the man's ego, and also because they aren't getting any pleasure out of it but want to make it seem like they are. And most men don't know what they are doing when it comes to female pleasure and arousal. Men stick it up and gyrate. They don't give a shit about "angles" they just want to get an orgasm for themselves. Women do not experience sex like men do, men have to put in the work, effort, and find out what positions or things will get their women aroused. Women aren't stimulated nearly as easily as men are. There are actual physical signs which indicate an orgasm. The nipples suddenly become darker and very hard...the face and neck flushes a differnt shade...the breathing becomes erratic...the toes and feet curl..fingers claw uncontrollqbly...the whole body shakes with epileptic like spasm that dont stop till the orgasm ends...and you cant fake all that shit any more than a man can fake an orgasm. Yep, but unfortunately many men do not take the time out to provide their women with an orgasm. Many are sexually frustrated because of this. Believe it or not there are women out there who have never experienced any of what you've described above because they're with men who are only in it to please themselves. Sex will only be enjoyable, especially for a virgin, if it is with someone who knows what they are doing and values female arousal. |
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| Pilgrim001 User ID: 74910322 United States05/20/2017 12:32 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74822712 Well for one, stop faking it. How is your partner going to learn? Show him your effective spots. Maybe take the lead and find a position that stimulates the right areas. Also, you can't fake an orgasm with a man who knows what he's doing. You can make noise and buck around a lot but you can't fake the cascade of muscle contractions or the extra burst of wetness. I don't know why you're having the experience you are, probably because more people these days are too chickenshit to give their kids a proper sex talk and their kids are trying to learn how to have sex by watching porn, not realizing it's just meant to look good to a camera and generally isn't all that enjoyable for the actors. Just my theory. Ah well. Move to Canada I guess. Well who says the men know what they are doing? Again, most women fake their orgasms, so clearly the men dont know what they're doing, but by hearing the women fake their orgams the men get an ego boost and assume that they are giving her pleasure when really they arent. Most women do not fake their orgasms. You cannot fake an orgasm. A woman will contract over and over again as she orgasms. You cannot fake an orgasm. Um you definitely can fake an orgasm. Just moan Um if I have my fingers on your clitorus and my dick in your pussy, believe me, I'll know about where you are. You won't be able to fake much. I don't have the time or the crayons to explain this to you. Slake Blake |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 73638518 United States05/20/2017 01:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Nearly all women can orgasm through both clitoral stimulation and g-spot stimulation. Many can orgasm through labial stimulation alone. Some can even orgasm through anal or aureola stimulation. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74822712 Foreplay with vagina will get women into enjoying sex and later orgasm. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74895319 United States05/20/2017 01:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It can be the greatest thing ever, if it is done right. Find someone that is kind and gentle, but adventurous, and you will never regret it. Quoting: Epic Beard Guy -just don't expect an orgasm. What??? don't expect an orgasm?? Like hell!! Ifl you love someone, and really want to have a sexual experience with them then you should certainly expect an orgasm!!!!! Damn!! It feels so good you won't believe it at first////11 Get a good man who knows whatl he's doing and relax and enjoy the experience!! Sooooo good you won;t believe it!!!!@!@ |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 73343436 United States05/20/2017 01:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No, it isn't enjoyable. Good thing they were being honest with you rather than falsely getting your hopes up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74561869 When you lose your virginity it is going to hurt like hell, it's going to bleed, it's going to be awkward and it will not feel pleasurable at all. In fact I can guarantee that you will not even come close to feeling like you're about to have an orgasm. The man will be having the time of his like, though. It sucks, I know. It has to do with our anatomy. Women only receive sexual pleasure if their g-spot/nerves are being hit. Most of the time this does not occur. Men on the other hand just need friction in order to feel pleasure. You won't feel any physical pleasure from sex, you're going to have to mentally convince yourself into thinking that it feels good. Basically you're going to have to trick your brain into assuming that because the man is enjoying it that you must be enjoying it too. Sex is a mental game for women, for men it's all physical arousing. That's why they get aroused easier and faster than women. Don't waste your time. Just masturbate. It will guarantee you an orgasm and you won't have to worry about pregnancy, STDs, getting humped for a grand total of two minutes, etc. You sound like a real cunt |
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| So I Am User ID: 69947748 United States05/20/2017 03:31 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sex is great when you are with the right person. Losing your virginity is exciting too, although painful, still feels good though, again with the right person. So wait. Some women just are not with the right person. They are blocked. In fact women can have orgasm without even having sex if she is super turned on by the man or the idea. We can orgasm over and over again too. Don't believe me, go the y tube and search orgasmic hypnosis. Seriously, it more in your mind than you know. |
| So I Am User ID: 69947748 United States05/20/2017 03:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Jesus Fucking Christ. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 74822712 What scares me is not OP being a troll (he is, and I abide by 'he') but that there are women who actually wonder. Nearly all women can orgasm through both clitoral stimulation and g-spot stimulation. Many can orgasm through labial stimulation alone. Some can even orgasm through anal or aureola stimulation. I'd estimate less than 1% of women are physically incapable of orgasm. Consider that you may be doing it wrong, and spend however much time you require with a phallic implement to figure out the particulars of your body. Not trolling, Ive heard from most of my friends that they dont orgasm during sex. They have to finish it off themselves. If orgasms were as common for women as youre saying then why do most women have to fake their orgasms the entire time??? I have heard the snowflake generation is the most sexually suppressed generation ever like in 100 years. I don't know if it is the environment, toxins or liberal indoctrination pitting women against men, the teaching to fear sex in general. Something is not working right in the brains of the young. Sex is good , fun, and natural with the right person. But, it is OK to be A sexual too, if physical relationships bother you too much. Just know why it is you fear sex so much or if it is rally just not something for you... it is OK. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 73991561 United States05/20/2017 03:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Just massage/vib the cli-t while doing the bang bang. So easy! Oh, don't smoke - it messes with your acetylcholine receptors and kills your big-O. Oh, don't take SSRI anti depressants - it messes with your serotonin receptors and kills your big-O. Cannabis can and will make it easier, but they banned that, to too bad for you. Lack of sleep will kill your big-O. Middle age will kill your big-O because of too little testosterone (women have about 3% of the amount in men, but it makes a huge difference.) You can remedy that with DHEA and D-Aspartic acid supplements. Good luck virgin females! |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1020100 United Kingdom05/20/2017 03:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I learned a sexual technique years ago which guarantees the woman to orgasm. When in missionary position, I push forward with my tip toes, then my pubic bone presses against her clitoris and stimulates it as I'm moving back and forth. My first GF orgasmed like crazy from this technique, and it's worked with every other woman since. |
| So I Am User ID: 69947748 United States05/20/2017 04:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't want to waste my time ever trying to discover what sex feels like if it isn't enjoyable for us. Long story short, a bunch of my coworkers were telling me in the lounge how they never have orgasms with their husbands (only have them via masturbation) so they have to fake their orgasms so that their husbands can hurry up and finish. I guess its pretty much just the sensation of something gyrating inside of you, but there isnt any actual pleasure to it (maybe because of where the g spot is located? idk) Men on the other hand, from what I heard, experience pleasure and orgasms from sex no matter what, and it doesnt take them very much to get aroused and ready to go. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 45976105 So my question for the other women on this site is: Is sex actually enjoyable for you most of the time? I've been hearing all of my life about how pretty much all women fake their orgasms and don't enjoy sex nearly as much as the man. Do you get any pleasure from it physically? Well, if your girlfriends are Muslims there is a good chance that they don't enjoy sex because they have undergone Female Genital Mutilation, FGM. The Muslim religion prescribes the cutting off of a women's cliteris as so they will never enjoy sex and become whores. It is cruel and does cause a lot of harm in Islamic relationship, thus the men want more wives, and women often get restitched up after everytime she has a baby, so it like being virgin after every child birth, but never the enjoyment of sex. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 966987 United States05/20/2017 04:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | No it hurts every time. I'm allergic to latex but I don't tell the partner the pain of me walking bowlegged after sex gives him the impression that he's bigger than life. M to F trans here. For such a question of pervosity, maybe you should just find out for yourself instead of perving around GLP. OH MY GAWD 1/3 RD OF THE INTERNET IS FULL OF PORN AND YOU ASK HERE. THE STUPID CARD YOU HAVE EARNED IT. Before I spit out my drink, I think you're oversharing again. You have a really good way of writing your paragraphs for an expression to a live audience on a stage. You're not hiding. |
