Why do men cheat on good women?

So it's not a serious thread and I don't have to get all worked up?

Excitement disappears- age sets in and women start nagging they lose their femininity.

That's why almost all divorce happens, men recapture the femininity in younger women.

Basically as women age they turn into men. It's hormonal.

That would be correct...doing the opposite of another I guess a so called "serious" thread!!

Men will be men. Things get tiring. In the long run, men will eventualy cheat.

OK but I'll take it seriously for a minute - because it is really a mystery.


You can be the most beautiful and loving woman under the sun, and still have that happen.


But I'm not a man and can't say why.

Blowjobs....Man is in constant search of the perfect blowjob.

They won't do anal.

Exactly, which is why none of you should complain about a lack of good women who just want 'Chads'. Liars and cheats who can't control bodily functions get what they get. This is not meant as an offense, just commentary on reality. Life is a two way street.

Really??

Not even that. A significant portion are asexual.

Here's my idea. So men cheat because they lose interest in their spouses or they treat their spouse so crappy that they start to feel guilty.
They cannot think it their fault so they find another woman to "please" only till that relationship starts to get crappy again. Because the mask might fall off . It could never be them.

Married 3 times and cheated on none. Homey dont roll that way.
Helps if you love your woman rather than lust her.
Buried two of them and the world is a darker place for it.

Yes, I'm sorry on behalf of all men.

That is so pathetic.

Maybe they arent men but narcissistic boys.

PORN! Along with a lot of selfishness. Women don't just change with age, so do men. You think a woman doesn't look at younger men in their prime, muscular, full of testosterone and wish they had something like that to ramp up the bedroom? Let me help you in case you porn addicts don't know, They Do. Only MOST of them love their husband enough to never act on it. Besides, the only young girls that want older men are the ones who want their money. Or, ones molested by older men as children. Keep in mind one thing, I'm seeing people pass this serious issue by with phrases like "men will be men", but adultery is a very serious sin and a sin God himself has commended us not to do. A sin that can and will cost you your soul. Women are beautiful, I get it, but lust is deadly and has life changing consequences. Many men have made the mistake of falling victim to this sin only to have their entire life changed and wish they had never made the decision to cheat. Remember, every woman you've had starts off the same way. But it never last. Beauty fades, love is eternal.


This all coming from a married man with two kids,


God bless you all.

For men sex is like eating.. they are able to seperate sex from love.. they can cheat their wifes and still be perfectly love with their wifes.. a little snack on the side isn't as big of a deal for them then it is for women.

But if you read the above post *it has life changing consequences*.

That is so true.

And it becomes a really *big deal*.

Human beings are animals. Aside from that, most human beings are extremely self centered. Few rise above. I was a good man, maybe I still am, hard to say these days. I fought hard and tried to give my wife the best life I could. I made every day special, I cooked the dinners, I tried to make every holiday special. Every day I told her how pretty she was and how much she meant to me. And yet still, she had a horrendous affair on me and my life was left in ruins. It's not just men. It's human beings who, once again, are self centered animals. Good luck finding anyone who isn't.

Infidelity begins in the mind. The genital stimulation is just a byproduct of the vulgar, burning lust that has infected a diseased mind..

Some people are more animal than others. Slay the beast, imitate the minds of the gods; hence the ancient phrase: choose thy god-head.

Sometimes if you are too good they dont feel worthy or something. Not exciting enough maybe.

They are "invested" in their wife so "love" her LOL
You just described a narcissistic personality right there Hans.

Where are these "good" women?

Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

No, not really. Some of us are loyal.

I figured. :)

Men that don't know Jesus will cheat, lie & steal. As they age, many men encounter sexual problems, while for women it just gets better. They try to recapture their youth with a younger spouse, but in reality women should seek the younger spouse for a better match. Those that ruin a marriage with adultery will know the wrath of God. Moving on into another marriage after destroying the first with adultery, also brings the new spouse into an adulterous marriage. The only way to REPENT is to dissolve the second marriage & turn away from the sin. Churches don't teach about the wrath of God or Hell much these days... They prefer the money a large congregation brings. Heaven & Hell are real, therefore there is nothing funny about destroying what God has gifted in the first marriage. If a man can't control himself, He will know specific torments after this life ends. This applies to women too.

Usually it's because she's not putting out.