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Why do people get so angry when someone owes them money? | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 73733207  United Kingdom07/03/2017 01:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75049490  United States07/03/2017 01:45 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I leant a guy I know $20 at a bar and he said he would pay me back on payday. I waited and waited and watched him break 50's playing pull tabs (gambling). I pissed on his tires, that didn't work but when I told him I as going to tell his wife about his affair I got my 20 back. I can understand when someone is in a tight spot but there are douchebags out there too just to rip people off. |
wisconsin  User ID: 75130045 United States07/03/2017 01:58 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | . ... when money is not paid back it is stealing ... . . Our family celebrates The Lord's Feasts: [link to www.grafted-promise.net] Fools and the dead don't change their minds. Fools won't and the dead can't. When you tear out a man's tongue, you are not proving him a liar. You are only telling the world that you fear what he might say. Quoting: CountryWise Amos 5:13 - Therefore at such a time the prudent person keeps silent, for it is an evil time. |
| SocialEnigma User ID: 70522087  Canada07/03/2017 02:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ganster culture. [/youtube] [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] Plus a lot of people like to mistake kindness as weakness. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 69160624 United States07/03/2017 02:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And if you lend to them of whom you hope to receive, what GRACE have you? For sinners also lend to sinners, to receive as much again. Luke 6:34 Notice the system we have in place. Against grace...we assign a number to a person to determine if they are "worthy" of being lent to.... |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74662577 United States07/03/2017 02:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Presumably at the time the guy you borrowed the money to was struggling and you were comfortable enough to help him out without putting yourself out of pocket. Yet a week later you all of a sudden expect the guy to be doing okay financially and immediately be able to pay you back? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73733207 When i lend someone money i do it with the expectation that i probably won't get the money back and i lean more towards *giving* the person the money and helping them rather than just EXPECTING it back. Usually they offer to give it back anyway but i say i don't mind and let them keep it if it's only a small amount. I don't constantly harass the person and hurry them up to pay me back a small amount of money because if i needed the money back that badly i would not give it out in the first place. If someone is blatantly trying to rip you off it's one thing, but i don't understand why people get so irate when someone owes them a small bit of money and doesn't give it to them on an exact specific date. Because they are SELFISH people that's why. They LACK compassion for their fellow man, they are materialistic and self centered. Period. They want to make things HARDER for their fellow human being rather than make it easy. Money is paper not backed by anything with any value and only serves to perpetuate the work debt slavery we are all under. period. It's all a big illusion like a dangling carrot for the specific purpose of keeping us under stress, making interest off of us, and keeping us all in a LOW vibration. |
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| Big Daddy D Chaotic Constitutionalist User ID: 72405800 United States07/03/2017 02:23 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 70488657  Bulgaria07/03/2017 02:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 70833409 United States07/03/2017 02:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 75134869 United States07/03/2017 02:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And if you lend to them of whom you hope to receive, what GRACE have you? For sinners also lend to sinners, to receive as much again. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69160624 Luke 6:34 Notice the system we have in place. Against grace...we assign a number to a person to determine if they are "worthy" of being lent to.... very true. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 70833409 United States07/03/2017 02:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | its the shit rolls downhill effect...they know how stressed and terrified they get when being abused by one their creditors and they wish to share the fear on someone they now have the "legal" right to abuse..plus if they can paid buy those that owe them they can get the wolves off of their own asses Quoting: Anonymous Coward 70833409 its also a sign they are more decent people than those that lead..see a banker comes to collect even when they don't need the money...the regular person loans money it doesnt have and desperately needs for themselves |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 7064086 United States07/03/2017 02:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When you are a child, you are forced to go to school, where they mostly waste your time with nonsense. Then you are urged to take on massive debts to attend college, so you will be obliged to keep working for employers who profit from your labor while you pay your debts, and you are encouraged to buy a house for a massively inflated price, so the bank can profit from your labor while you are obliged to pay more debts. You accumulate obligations to pay debts while others collect the fruits of your labor. People in debt are being cheated in a massive systematic way and they know it. Even a tiny debt is enough to remind them of it - that they have yet another obligation eating up their future and cutting into their present. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 73002047 United States07/03/2017 03:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In my case, I go between having money and then being broke. Like one time I did good at the casino and a co worker asked for $20 for a bus pass. I obliged. Worked there a few more months before I was let go, but I came in sometimes to see if he had my money yet. Even tried to get the manager to buy the debt for $10, since he would see the guy more and was more respected and could get the $20 from him. But now the guy moved away so im stuck for the $20. And now I'm broke again. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 55162687 United States07/03/2017 04:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Presumably at the time the guy you borrowed the money to was struggling and you were comfortable enough to help him out without putting yourself out of pocket. Yet a week later you all of a sudden expect the guy to be doing okay financially and immediately be able to pay you back? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73733207 When i lend someone money i do it with the expectation that i probably won't get the money back and i lean more towards *giving* the person the money and helping them rather than just EXPECTING it back. Usually they offer to give it back anyway but i say i don't mind and let them keep it if it's only a small amount. I don't constantly harass the person and hurry them up to pay me back a small amount of money because if i needed the money back that badly i would not give it out in the first place. If someone is blatantly trying to rip you off it's one thing, but i don't understand why people get so irate when someone owes them a small bit of money and doesn't give it to them on an exact specific date. many sacrifice to lend to those in need. then they themselves are in need due to that. when those you've helped dont return favor feels like visceral betrayal. money=survival. its primal |
