Has it ever occurred to you that attraction can be very subjective? What's "ugly" to you might be attractive to another. I, for example, don't care so much for "pretty boys." As long as the guy is tall and in decent shape, his face doesn't have to be that gorgeous..in fact I prefer the more masculine, non-pretty faces on guys. And I'm only talking about the physical part. Personality, intelligence, confidence, sense of humork, and how he acts with me are also a part of attraction. So...it's complex.