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Message Subject Male egos, and strong, independant women...
Poster Handle Jake101
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If I had a giant ego...I'd be famous by now...:P

The only reason my thoughts go to money, is because it is thrown in my face.
I don't have a problem dating men with or without money...
It's not the wallet that attracts me to them...it's who they are as people.
It just seems that at some point, either the money, or my Creative nature/ability causes problems somewhere down the line.
Could you be with someone that was bothered by you being a musicain, and tried to keep you from playing music?
All I ask of them, is let me be who I am, let me create, and be there to share my joy when and if I succeed. Is that so much to ask of a partner?

I really don't try to pick men that feel inferior to me, or have low self esteem..
I'd rather not have to keep failing, really.
But, I also won't be controlled by a man either...
All the wealthy men I've ever dated, at some point, have tried to use their money to control me...and I just won't do it.
I don't care about their money enough to buckle down to thier wishes to get it.
If I could ever meet a wealthy man that didn't do that...and we got along , had common interests, I'd snatch him up in an instant.
 Quoting: Woodsprite


My wife of 15 years has typically made more money than me. It's never been an issue for her or for me. When we first started dating she would pay to take me out because I was 18 in music school and she was a little older, already working in her profession. We just enjoyed each other, so even at the outset, there was no weirdness from either side about if she was paying for something. Being together meant more than the means.

You come off like money is a big deal to you. You go on about how you don't need a man. I must say, the NEED that that I have for my wife has nothing to do with money... And she would say the same for me. Forget about what you make, and meet someone who you truly need in your life. You might have to lay your ego aside, but it's worth it.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1262182



Hell, if I had a woman that so much as wanted to split checks I'd be thrilled! Honestly, I wouldn't be bothered with a woman making more money than me, so long as the other preconceived notions went out the window, too (The guy paying for everything :P)
 
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