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| sonia User ID: 28992326  United Kingdom12/03/2012 10:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28786416  United States12/03/2012 10:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
Being Mindful  User ID: 14221488 United States12/03/2012 10:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i think my husband is in denial that he has a drinking problem, it has got really out of hand these past 3 years & when it started effecting our girls i told him he had to get professional help, at first he agraed & cut down but then he turned round & told me he doesn't love me anymore [says he was only drinking to "get out ov it" because he didn't want to be with me? & realised this while he wasn't drinking vodka [cider instead] then he left us the next day [i really don't believe he doesn't love me] but i am so confused ;'( Quoting: sonia 28992326 I understand your story very well, but try and truly authentically love him from the heart, a very dear friend shared that with me. I have tried everything myself, but there was one thing that I didn't even compliments were givin. But until you really love him and look past all the defects, you will see the change happen. Good luck. truly love the one your with, it will help him evolve. When that is experienced, God will have more experineces for us. No greater lesson as to service in loving. www.heavenletters.org |
| Being Mindful User ID: 14221488 United States12/03/2012 10:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 28980906 United Kingdom12/03/2012 10:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let him do what he feels is right. He is either ashamed or genuine about his feelings. He is using alcohol to de-stress from something which is on his mind, the best thing you can do is let him go, because if he comes running back you will know it was a cry for help, if not he means what he said. Reverse psychology. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 19398438 United States12/03/2012 11:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i think my husband is in denial that he has a drinking problem, it has got really out of hand these past 3 years & when it started effecting our girls i told him he had to get professional help, at first he agraed & cut down but then he turned round & told me he doesn't love me anymore [says he was only drinking to "get out ov it" because he didn't want to be with me? & realised this while he wasn't drinking vodka [cider instead] then he left us the next day [i really don't believe he doesn't love me] but i am so confused ;'( Quoting: sonia 28992326 OP, there is a LOT of emphasis put on 'staying together' but that is the last thing you should do. Just bail. |
