With all due respect to your faith, I think this is a bit of a cop-out. You're in charge here. You cannot be selfish & thoughtless of other people's feelings & then blow it all off with a 'it was God's will!' You need to put in some serious introspection - pray & meditate on it if you think in those terms - & be honest with yourself & your feelings.

It isn't fair to your 'friends' or your BF to shove the consequences of YOUR actions onto 'God's will.'