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Girlfriend moved in with me: Need help!! | |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72960083  United States03/14/2017 10:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 74281072 United States03/14/2017 10:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 2. Since I don't ejaculate, the expectation of sex is really really draining. Ejaculating drains me, I don't care if you think its dumb, I feel most alive and creative when I save my vital fluid. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72960083 Dude, if you don't cum, your body just absorbs the excess. Ya think you got a big ole bag of jiz in there?  |
| SoberLife User ID: 72154645 United States03/14/2017 10:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Change is not easy. Its a transition. You either commit and adjust, or stay at the place you were at before she moved in. What you are experiencing is a form of growth. Living with someone is a commitment to them, a commitment to both of you. This is just another step of growth, and the discomfort you feel is in ways temporary. This experience will make you a batter person because it'll provide you more life experience, whether it works out or not - it always works out because of the wisdom gained through the experience, even when it fails to meet your expectations (which is always). Accept your position, and ask yourself how you can do it better. Ask yourself how you can help her. Helping others is helping yourself. |
| JIK User ID: 73267622 United States03/14/2017 10:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | New relationship...you're already limiting sex...you won't finish.... Quoting: Dace ....just dump her and go suck a cock...that's where you're headed. Last Edited by JIK on 03/14/2017 10:55 PM |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 73526810  Canada03/14/2017 10:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a 24 year old Youtuber who lives a sort of introverted, spirtual life: I try not to ejaculate, I eat vegan, I don't "go out" to clubs or bars, and I make Youtube videos about spiritual awakening. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72960083 I recently just had my girlfriend move in and I am already experiencing issues. She doesn't have a job because she works from her laptop just like I do. Here are my 3 main concerns: 1. The lack of alone time and mental space is killing me already. I didn't think it would be bad, because I love her, but sometimes I need to veg out and harness my own energy. I always used to talk to myself, give myself pep talks, and keep track of my goals out loud. I would run around my apartment and dance naked. Poop with the door open. You know, man stuff. These things I can't do now because I feel "under surveillance" 2. Since I don't ejaculate, the expectation of sex is really really draining. Ejaculating drains me, I don't care if you think its dumb, I feel most alive and creative when I save my vital fluid. She wants to have sex all the time, and even though I'm limiting it to twice a week I already feel more drained than I usually do. We would see each other once a week beforehand and that was enough for me. 3. I don't want to have to be quiet while she's sleeping. Before she moved in, I would get up and JUMP out of bed, making noise, putting food on the stove, take a hit of weed, and generally do whatever the fuck I want. She is amazing. In many ways I love her being here. She's been cleaning and giving me space when I tell her to. She has that 1950's housewife attitude so I know I have a great girl I don't want to lose (and she's totally AGAINST feminism which is amazing) PLEASE I NEED HELP AND ADVICE. This is the first time I've lived with anyone other than my family and its already draining me after 5 days. Maybe I just have o get used to it. On one hand, I've been way more productive since I feel like I can't "fuck around" as much. ...Any advice is appreciated. Thanks for reading. So based on your first paragraph, does your parents know you're gay or are you still in closet denial? |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 12057459 United States03/14/2017 10:59 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | New relationship...you're already limiting sex...you won't finish.... Quoting: Dace ....just dump her and go suck a cock...that's where you're headed. Yeah dude, you're definitely not enough man for this woman, who sounds like a sweetheart. She needs a real man, not some beta male wimp who can't give her the loving she deserves. Why did you go from seeing each other once a week, to living together? You sound like a loner, army man type who usually lives with mommy into his 50s and beyond, then takes over moms house or apartment and lives alone. You don't sound like husband material, so why pretend domesticity? |
| *<3sugar&spice<3* User ID: 49797725 United States03/14/2017 11:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | New relationship...you're already limiting sex...you won't finish.... Quoting: Dace ....just dump her and go suck a cock...that's where you're headed. This. No offense OP, but really? If she is cleaning and doing things for you and you are complaining after five days, she deserves better. I moved in with my now husband after dating for only four months. Engaged after 8. We have been together now for almost 15 years. Its worked because we give each other space when needed but also make time for each others needs, even with 3 kids now....3 boys. If you really need that much alone time, and have that little interest in sex, maybe you are better off alone. Hell even after all these years once a day at least is a must for me. "Live each day like it's your last, love like you've never been hurt, and dance like no one is watching." GO PATS!! :Go Patriots!: |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 52551790 Canada03/14/2017 11:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a 24 year old Youtuber who lives a sort of introverted, spirtual life: I try not to ejaculate, I eat vegan, I don't "go out" to clubs or bars, and I make Youtube videos about spiritual awakening. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72960083 I recently just had my girlfriend move in and I am already experiencing issues. She doesn't have a job because she works from her laptop just like I do. Here are my 3 main concerns: 1. The lack of alone time and mental space is killing me already. I didn't think it would be bad, because I love her, but sometimes I need to veg out and harness my own energy. I always used to talk to myself, give myself pep talks, and keep track of my goals out loud. I would run around my apartment and dance naked. Poop with the door open. You know, man stuff. These things I can't do now because I feel "under surveillance" 2. Since I don't ejaculate, the expectation of sex is really really draining. Ejaculating drains me, I don't care if you think its dumb, I feel most alive and creative when I save my vital fluid. She wants to have sex all the time, and even though I'm limiting it to twice a week I already feel more drained than I usually do. We would see each other once a week beforehand and that was enough for me. 3. I don't want to have to be quiet while she's sleeping. Before she moved in, I would get up and JUMP out of bed, making noise, putting food on the stove, take a hit of weed, and generally do whatever the fuck I want. She is amazing. In many ways I love her being here. She's been cleaning and giving me space when I tell her to. She has that 1950's housewife attitude so I know I have a great girl I don't want to lose (and she's totally AGAINST feminism which is amazing) PLEASE I NEED HELP AND ADVICE. This is the first time I've lived with anyone other than my family and its already draining me after 5 days. Maybe I just have o get used to it. On one hand, I've been way more productive since I feel like I can't "fuck around" as much. ...Any advice is appreciated. Thanks for reading. heres a nylon rope you know what to do |
| Blowing in the Wind User ID: 74461334 United States03/14/2017 11:03 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Either get married or end it but don't use her. Quoting: Psalm119 Your both living in sin as it is. God is NOT GOING TO BLESS THIS ARRANGEMENT. SORRY BUDDY. THIS WILL NOT END WELL. in this life or the next. I am not sure how spritual it is to be acting like man and wife when you have not asked for God's blessing on the relationship. I don't mean to criticize but this never worked for me. The relationships always failed. As for the more personal details of your sex life, I just don't understand. I think you are missing something. The other things aren't too bad. Why should you change who you are? Talk to yourself, dance in the nude. Now shutting the door when you poop, that you should do. |
| Carnac User ID: 31587129 United States03/14/2017 11:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So you want a relationship but you do not want to have to compromise in any way shape or form? Millennials.... ME ME ME ME ME ME I I I I I I... Grow-up you immature dumbass. Sounds like she is right for you - but you are not right for her. If you were smart, which you are not, you would do whatever you had to do to make it work. Have a nice day = GFY. GFY = Go Fuck Yourself. If this offends you then have a nice day. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 52551790 Canada03/14/2017 11:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a 24 year old Youtuber who lives a sort of introverted, spirtual life: I try not to ejaculate, I eat vegan, I don't "go out" to clubs or bars, and I make Youtube videos about spiritual awakening. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72960083 I recently just had my girlfriend move in and I am already experiencing issues. She doesn't have a job because she works from her laptop just like I do. Here are my 3 main concerns: 1. The lack of alone time and mental space is killing me already. I didn't think it would be bad, because I love her, but sometimes I need to veg out and harness my own energy. I always used to talk to myself, give myself pep talks, and keep track of my goals out loud. I would run around my apartment and dance naked. Poop with the door open. You know, man stuff. These things I can't do now because I feel "under surveillance" 2. Since I don't ejaculate, the expectation of sex is really really draining. Ejaculating drains me, I don't care if you think its dumb, I feel most alive and creative when I save my vital fluid. She wants to have sex all the time, and even though I'm limiting it to twice a week I already feel more drained than I usually do. We would see each other once a week beforehand and that was enough for me. 3. I don't want to have to be quiet while she's sleeping. Before she moved in, I would get up and JUMP out of bed, making noise, putting food on the stove, take a hit of weed, and generally do whatever the fuck I want. She is amazing. In many ways I love her being here. She's been cleaning and giving me space when I tell her to. She has that 1950's housewife attitude so I know I have a great girl I don't want to lose (and she's totally AGAINST feminism which is amazing) PLEASE I NEED HELP AND ADVICE. This is the first time I've lived with anyone other than my family and its already draining me after 5 days. Maybe I just have o get used to it. On one hand, I've been way more productive since I feel like I can't "fuck around" as much. ...Any advice is appreciated. Thanks for reading. ITS DRAINING YOU FUCKING LIL PUSSY BECAUSE YOU DONT EAT MEAT |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 72393564 United States03/14/2017 11:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | New relationship...you're already limiting sex...you won't finish.... Quoting: Dace ....just dump her and go suck a cock...that's where you're headed. This. No offense OP, but really? If she is cleaning and doing things for you and you are complaining after five days, she deserves better. I moved in with my now husband after dating for only four months. Engaged after 8. We have been together now for almost 15 years. Its worked because we give each other space when needed but also make time for each others needs, even with 3 kids now....3 boys. If you really need that much alone time, and have that little interest in sex, maybe you are better off alone. Hell even after all these years once a day at least is a must for me. This is impressive. Having sex daily after 15 years of marriage and 3 kids is not the norm. It's practically freakish. OP, you two are both young and can learn from this post. Doesn't have to be daily but you've got to keep the sex going. And keep it hot. Change it up. Make that pussy squirt and she won't look at Tyrone's crotch when she's alone with him in the elevator at your complex. |
| Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 72960083 United States03/14/2017 11:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This situation isn't that unheard of you know...going from tons of alone time to practically none in one's own apartment--I'm pretty sure anybody would need to adjust and mourn the loss of their alone time. Me being concerned about this isn't being "beta" its having to deal with the swift change. Especially when we both are here 24 hours a day, in a small apartment mind you. |
| Deadpool Loves You User ID: 73168454 United States03/14/2017 11:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You have bigger problems to deal with first. It's like telling us your boat is on fire in the middle of shark infested waters, and you want to know a good recipe for beef wellington. The universe is basically an animal. It grazes on the ordinary. It creates infinite idiots just to eat them. The Rickest Rick Sanchez comments are meant for entertainment purposes only and should not be construed to reflect the feelings and opinions, implied or expressed, of the author. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1403508 United States03/14/2017 11:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Im an introvert too. And it became a problem with my ex. When I went in to my own world or just was quiet she would take it like i didnt want to..... I dunno like I didnt like her anymore or something. which wasnt true at all. I just like alone time and not " need " to talk all the time. |
| DARTH SILIOUS Abrasive Fuck User ID: 70524770 United States03/14/2017 11:07 PM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | New relationship...you're already limiting sex...you won't finish.... Quoting: Dace ....just dump her and go suck a cock...that's where you're headed. Could not have said it better myself. Peace is a lie, there is only passion. Through passion, I gain strength. Through strength, I gain power. Through power, I gain victory. Through victory, my chains are broken. The Force shall free me. Or something |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 17693804 United States03/14/2017 11:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am a 24 year old Youtuber who lives a sort of introverted, spirtual life: I try not to ejaculate, I eat vegan, I don't "go out" to clubs or bars, and I make Youtube videos about spiritual awakening. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72960083 I recently just had my girlfriend move in and I am already experiencing issues. She doesn't have a job because she works from her laptop just like I do. Here are my 3 main concerns: 1. The lack of alone time and mental space is killing me already. I didn't think it would be bad, because I love her, but sometimes I need to veg out and harness my own energy. I always used to talk to myself, give myself pep talks, and keep track of my goals out loud. I would run around my apartment and dance naked. Poop with the door open. You know, man stuff. These things I can't do now because I feel "under surveillance" 2. Since I don't ejaculate, the expectation of sex is really really draining. Ejaculating drains me, I don't care if you think its dumb, I feel most alive and creative when I save my vital fluid. She wants to have sex all the time, and even though I'm limiting it to twice a week I already feel more drained than I usually do. We would see each other once a week beforehand and that was enough for me. 3. I don't want to have to be quiet while she's sleeping. Before she moved in, I would get up and JUMP out of bed, making noise, putting food on the stove, take a hit of weed, and generally do whatever the fuck I want. She is amazing. In many ways I love her being here. She's been cleaning and giving me space when I tell her to. She has that 1950's housewife attitude so I know I have a great girl I don't want to lose (and she's totally AGAINST feminism which is amazing) PLEASE I NEED HELP AND ADVICE. This is the first time I've lived with anyone other than my family and its already draining me after 5 days. Maybe I just have o get used to it. On one hand, I've been way more productive since I feel like I can't "fuck around" as much. ...Any advice is appreciated. Thanks for reading. Solutions: 1. You are already under surveillance by the CIA + if you can't be yourself around her, why are you with her? 2. Learn how to fuck and fap without ejaculating. It's possible and actually recommended. Hold them microscopic swimmers in when you orgasm. 3. Refer to solution 1 pt 2 |
| DARTH SILIOUS Abrasive Fuck User ID: 70524770 United States03/14/2017 11:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This situation isn't that unheard of you know...going from tons of alone time to practically none in one's own apartment--I'm pretty sure anybody would need to adjust and mourn the loss of their alone time. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 72960083 Me being concerned about this isn't being "beta" its having to deal with the swift change. Especially when we both are here 24 hours a day, in a small apartment mind you. Yup we know. There's plenty of gay guys who haven't admitted it to themselves yet. It's ok fruitcake, just be you. Peace is a lie, there is only passion. Through passion, I gain strength. Through strength, I gain power. Through power, I gain victory. Through victory, my chains are broken. The Force shall free me. Or something |
| defiantpatriot User ID: 45925645 United States03/14/2017 11:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you are really drained and stressed this much over a slight change at 24 years old you will not make it to 40. You need to change your diet or take quality supplements. Something is NOT right. You may need to see a doctor to sort out your nutritional imbalance. Seriously. Also, working from home has its pluses and minuses. But you need to leave your dwelling at least once a day to do some physical activity. The gym, hiking, running, biking, etc. Maybe do it together as a couple. This is needed as we are humans and are not made to be couped up inside all the time. Good luck. |
