Text regret....what now?

I have some wishy washy friends who always back out of plans on me last minute. I invited the crew over for St Paddy's dinner. All said yes, but slowly they all decided they wanted to go out to a restaurant for festivities. They weren't direct, just kept throwing up obstacles to my party. That passive aggressive stuff makes me nuts. Like you are in middle school...Just say what you mean and stop coming up with a million excuses why dinner at my house won't work....


So I sent the meanest, ugliest text to my closest friend. Basically telling her, I'm done with this friendship and don't text back because I want to sever all ties with you....

Two days later, I feel like a jerk and I regret sending it....
should I call her or just live the consequences?