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I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.

 
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I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
A short quest to discover why some women claim they are "independent women" and what this really is saying about them.

You might have heard this phrase often from women, especially in dating circles. What is the woman trying to tell you by stating she is independent? and what does it mean to any future possible relationships.

To figure it out, let's try this.

Consider the phrase "independent man" and ask yourself why don't you hear that often or at all?

It's not a 'feature' you see men advertising themselves as. So why do some, maybe most, women do this?

What does the phrase "independent women" change in description of a person compared to just "woman".
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12/23/2017 03:50 AM
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
It means she earns her own $$, she can buy her own House, Car, Holidays etc.
She does not " need " a man, she WANTS a man.

But she may not want you and may be alone years until she finds one she truly wants.
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12/23/2017 03:52 AM
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
It means she earns her own $$, she can buy her own House, Car, Holidays etc.
She does not " need " a man, she WANTS a man.

But she may not want you and may be alone years until she finds one she truly wants.
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You just described any single person.
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12/23/2017 03:54 AM
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
It's a sexist way of saying you're a woman that can take care of yourself.

You are not just "normal" like a man would be but have to be called "independent" because you don't rely on a man (e.g., daddy or hubby).
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
It's a sexist way of saying you're a woman that can take care of yourself.

You are not just "normal" like a man would be but have to be called "independent" because you don't rely on a man (e.g., daddy or hubby).
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76024099


Right, you see the redundancy of the phrase then...

It's over affirmation, right?
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
It's a sexist way of saying you're a woman that can take care of yourself.

You are not just "normal" like a man would be but have to be called "independent" because you don't rely on a man (e.g., daddy or hubby).
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76024099


Right, you see the redundancy of the phrase then...

It's over affirmation, right?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52497637


No.

It's a way to label women who don't fall into the "married" or "living with parents" category because that was traditionally out of the norm for women.
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12/23/2017 04:00 AM
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
A short quest to discover why some women claim they are "independent women" and what this really is saying about them.

You might have heard this phrase often from women, especially in dating circles. What is the woman trying to tell you by stating she is independent? and what does it mean to any future possible relationships.

To figure it out, let's try this.

Consider the phrase "independent man" and ask yourself why don't you hear that often or at all?

It's not a 'feature' you see men advertising themselves as. So why do some, maybe most, women do this?

What does the phrase "independent women" change in description of a person compared to just "woman".
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52497637


Some men do advertise it with a certain five letter acronym that starts with m and ends with w.
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
It's a sexist way of saying you're a woman that can take care of yourself.

You are not just "normal" like a man would be but have to be called "independent" because you don't rely on a man (e.g., daddy or hubby).
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76024099


Right, you see the redundancy of the phrase then...

It's over affirmation, right?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52497637


No.

It's a way to label women who don't fall into the "married" or "living with parents" category because that was traditionally out of the norm for women.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76024099


So they are not just "normal" women, after all?
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12/23/2017 04:02 AM
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
It's a sexist way of saying you're a woman that can take care of yourself.

You are not just "normal" like a man would be but have to be called "independent" because you don't rely on a man (e.g., daddy or hubby).
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76024099


Right, you see the redundancy of the phrase then...

It's over affirmation, right?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52497637


No.

It's a way to label women who don't fall into the "married" or "living with parents" category because that was traditionally out of the norm for women.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76024099


So they are not just "normal" women, after all?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52497637


No I don't think society considers it normal even in this day and age.
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12/23/2017 04:06 AM
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
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Right, you see the redundancy of the phrase then...

It's over affirmation, right?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52497637


No.

It's a way to label women who don't fall into the "married" or "living with parents" category because that was traditionally out of the norm for women.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76024099


So they are not just "normal" women, after all?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 52497637


No I don't think society considers it normal even in this day and age.
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I'm going to consider the side effects to this now.
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12/23/2017 04:09 AM
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
It means their irresponsibility.
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12/23/2017 04:26 AM
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
it's a euphemistic way of saying she likes to ride lots of random cocks
men don't use the term because an independent man is just called a man
dependent males are called boys
women who have their shit together are called wives and mothers
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12/23/2017 04:28 AM
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Re: I've been trying to figure out what the phrase "independent woman" really means.
it's a euphemistic way of saying she likes to ride lots of random cocks
men don't use the term because an independent man is just called a man
dependent males are called boys
women who have their shit together are called wives and mothers
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 75867015


would you say that wives and mothers have more value than "independent women"?





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