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My girlfriend [21 F] cheated on me [23 M] with my grandfather [69 M]. Do I cut my granddad off or try to forgive him?

 
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My girlfriend [21 F] cheated on me [23 M] with my grandfather [69 M]. Do I cut my granddad off or try to forgive him?
We have been together for a year.

My girlfriend and grandfather last week set me down to tell me they had a week long affair a couple months ago. They only had sex three times they said, and after the third time they say they both felt extremely guilty and mortified at their actions. They've been wanting to tell me since then but didn't have the hearts. I always knew they got on well, they bonded over many shared interests, but I never saw this coming.
I feel completely sick. I haven't eaten hardly anything since they told me. I haven't officially broken up with her yet, but it is obvious as I haven't responded to any of the texts/calls she's sent. When they first told me and after it had sank in, I left and haven't said a word to anyone outside of work since. I've been a total ghost to my whole family and friend group.

My grandfather and I are very close. For my whole life I have looked up to him. He and my mum divorced when I was a teenager but they have been very friendly to each other which made the process so much easier. I want to forgive my granddad. But if my girlfriend had cheated on me with another person, I would easily cut them both off. And in a weird way my granddad has hurt me so much more by doing this than she has. I could get over a cheating girlfriend. But my relationship with my grandfather, a relationship I cherished, is destroyed. And it's his fault.

My question is this: Should I forgive my grandfather? How can I forgive him? Should I tell my mum or brother? Would I be cruel for completely cutting him off which is what my heart is telling me to do?
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Re: My girlfriend [21 F] cheated on me [23 M] with my grandfather [69 M]. Do I cut my granddad off or try to forgive him?
We have been together for a year.

My girlfriend and grandfather last week set me down to tell me they had a week long affair a couple months ago. They only had sex three times they said, and after the third time they say they both felt extremely guilty and mortified at their actions. They've been wanting to tell me since then but didn't have the hearts. I always knew they got on well, they bonded over many shared interests, but I never saw this coming.
I feel completely sick. I haven't eaten hardly anything since they told me. I haven't officially broken up with her yet, but it is obvious as I haven't responded to any of the texts/calls she's sent. When they first told me and after it had sank in, I left and haven't said a word to anyone outside of work since. I've been a total ghost to my whole family and friend group.

My grandfather and I are very close. For my whole life I have looked up to him. He and my mum divorced when I was a teenager but they have been very friendly to each other which made the process so much easier. I want to forgive my granddad. But if my girlfriend had cheated on me with another person, I would easily cut them both off. And in a weird way my granddad has hurt me so much more by doing this than she has. I could get over a cheating girlfriend. But my relationship with my grandfather, a relationship I cherished, is destroyed. And it's his fault.

My question is this: Should I forgive my grandfather? How can I forgive him? Should I tell my mum or brother? Would I be cruel for completely cutting him off which is what my heart is telling me to do?
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Your grandfather is a master!

to bad you never learned from him
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My grandfather and I are very close. For my whole life I have looked up to him. He and my mum divorced when I was a teenager


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Anyone who challenges their control is deemed a sexist, a racist, a xenophobe and morally deformed , they will attack you they will slander you, they will seek to destroy your career and your family, they will seek to destroy everything about you ,including your reputation they will lie lie lie, they will do whatever is necessary!
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OP is that a typo? Did your grandfather incest your mom?
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Re: My girlfriend [21 F] cheated on me [23 M] with my grandfather [69 M]. Do I cut my granddad off or try to forgive him?
We have been together for a year.

My girlfriend and grandfather last week set me down to tell me they had a week long affair a couple months ago. They only had sex three times they said, and after the third time they say they both felt extremely guilty and mortified at their actions. They've been wanting to tell me since then but didn't have the hearts. I always knew they got on well, they bonded over many shared interests, but I never saw this coming.
I feel completely sick. I haven't eaten hardly anything since they told me. I haven't officially broken up with her yet, but it is obvious as I haven't responded to any of the texts/calls she's sent. When they first told me and after it had sank in, I left and haven't said a word to anyone outside of work since. I've been a total ghost to my whole family and friend group.

My grandfather and I are very close. For my whole life I have looked up to him. He and my mum divorced when I was a teenager but they have been very friendly to each other which made the process so much easier. I want to forgive my granddad. But if my girlfriend had cheated on me with another person, I would easily cut them both off. And in a weird way my granddad has hurt me so much more by doing this than she has. I could get over a cheating girlfriend. But my relationship with my grandfather, a relationship I cherished, is destroyed. And it's his fault.

My question is this: Should I forgive my grandfather? How can I forgive him? Should I tell my mum or brother? Would I be cruel for completely cutting him off which is what my heart is telling me to do?
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So your GF banged your GD who is also your Mom's exhusband. Sounds like an awesome Jerry Springer episode. Or Maury. Maybe Montell?
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OP is that a typo? Did your grandfather incest your mom?
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one fucked up family

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We have been together for a year.

My girlfriend and grandfather last week set me down to tell me they had a week long affair a couple months ago. They only had sex three times they said, and after the third time they say they both felt extremely guilty and mortified at their actions. They've been wanting to tell me since then but didn't have the hearts. I always knew they got on well, they bonded over many shared interests, but I never saw this coming.
I feel completely sick. I haven't eaten hardly anything since they told me. I haven't officially broken up with her yet, but it is obvious as I haven't responded to any of the texts/calls she's sent. When they first told me and after it had sank in, I left and haven't said a word to anyone outside of work since. I've been a total ghost to my whole family and friend group.

My grandfather and I are very close. For my whole life I have looked up to him. He and my mum divorced when I was a teenager but they have been very friendly to each other which made the process so much easier. I want to forgive my granddad. But if my girlfriend had cheated on me with another person, I would easily cut them both off. And in a weird way my granddad has hurt me so much more by doing this than she has. I could get over a cheating girlfriend. But my relationship with my grandfather, a relationship I cherished, is destroyed. And it's his fault.

My question is this: Should I forgive my grandfather? How can I forgive him? Should I tell my mum or brother? Would I be cruel for completely cutting him off which is what my heart is telling me to do?
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Ah hell hook grandpa up.5asideways
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Last Edited by Q33 on 09/27/2018 01:15 AM
Anyone who challenges their control is deemed a sexist, a racist, a xenophobe and morally deformed , they will attack you they will slander you, they will seek to destroy your career and your family, they will seek to destroy everything about you ,including your reputation they will lie lie lie, they will do whatever is necessary!
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so your dad fucked your girlfriend and your mom but he is your grandfather

what a fucking cuck!
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no shit eh !!!


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You said she left you for the fat ginger boss the other day or was that another gf?
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You said she left you for the fat ginger boss the other day or was that another gf?
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You said she left you for the fat ginger boss the other day or was that another gf?
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Yeh, she did, but came back and revealed this shit to me. Not only did she screw the fat ginger boss, but she had an affair with my grandfather.

I feel ill, bro.
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Did they sit you down on the Jerry Springer show?
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I like how you have to put an (M) next to the word grandfather....

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OP is that a typo? Did your grandfather incest your mom?
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I couldn't be bothered inventing and typing my own bullshit, so stole a true story from reddit. Yes, his grandpops divorced his mama. It's apparently legal in glorious nation of Kazakhstan.
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give the man a cigar!
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Last Edited by Q33 on 09/27/2018 01:16 AM
Anyone who challenges their control is deemed a sexist, a racist, a xenophobe and morally deformed , they will attack you they will slander you, they will seek to destroy your career and your family, they will seek to destroy everything about you ,including your reputation they will lie lie lie, they will do whatever is necessary!
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Whatever troll..


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Hi. OP's grandfather here.

Son, you should move on from your cheating girlfriend since she's not family but forgive your grandfather.

Then go out and find another 21 year old girlfriend and bring her by the house.
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Hi. OP's grandfather here.

Son, you should move on from your cheating girlfriend since she's not family but forgive your grandfather.

Then go out and find another 21 year old girlfriend and bring her by the house.
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Hi. OP's grandfather here.

Son, you should move on from your cheating girlfriend since she's not family but forgive your grandfather.

Then go out and find another 21 year old girlfriend and bring her by the house.
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Last Edited by Q33 on 09/27/2018 01:16 AM
Anyone who challenges their control is deemed a sexist, a racist, a xenophobe and morally deformed , they will attack you they will slander you, they will seek to destroy your career and your family, they will seek to destroy everything about you ,including your reputation they will lie lie lie, they will do whatever is necessary!
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Don't be jealous gramps, once u stop crying will go back to fucking u as usual.
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Maybe your Grandfather needs to come to GLP, make a thread, and give some of you guys who can never get laid, a few pointers.
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give the man a cigar!
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Fate whispers to the warrior

"You cannot withstand the storm"

and the warrior whispers back

"I am the storm"

INTJ:
Independent, original, analytical, and determined. Have an exceptional ability to turn theories into solid plans of action. Highly value knowledge, competence, and structure. Driven to derive meaning from their visions. Long-range thinkers. Have very high standards for their performance, and the performance of others. Natural leaders, but will follow if they trust existing leaders.

Life is karma and karma always reflects both past and present circumstance. Our time here is short, so choose carefully and behave well, for all of your tomorrows are presently being decided.

"A fool thinks himself to be wise, but a wise man knows himself to be a fool."
-- William Shakespeare, born April 23, 1564.

Follow. But! Follow only if ye be men of valor! For the entrance to this cave is guarded by a creature so foul, so cruel, that no man yet has fought with it... and lived! BONES of full fifty men lie *strewn* about its lair! So! Brave knights! If you do doubt your courage or your strength, come no further, for death awaits you all with nasty, big, pointy teeth...

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Give that man a High Five!
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Give that man a High Five!
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