The reason for divorce is men just lay down to rot

But men get really pompous about what they provided her. He makes a bold statement that he works 10 hour days to provide for her. That is not what keeps women around. Simply being a basic provider is not even close to enough.

Men lay down to rot because they have their basic needs met. He has food, water, tv, bed and good quality sex. He loses his masculinity and just gets lost in a day to day world of work, eat, sex, sleep, repeat. This is AMAZING to a young wife, but after 5 years of this, she starts to want SO MUCH MORE.

Women are different than men. Women tend to have their most important years between age 22 and 40. After 40, their kids no longer need her to survive. Her lil pipsqueeks could probably survive on their own. She is dealing with a serious shift in thinking. She needs more purpose in her life. This time of change for her comes EXACTLY when her husband starts his serious testosterone decline and lose of ambition.

She is seeking purpose, while he is losing motivation for even the smallest of ambitions like changing light bulbs. She is slowly awakening while he is slowly falling asleep. She gets depressed because she doesn't feel like he is sexy enough for sex. Sex becomes a chore. She doesn't want to just have sex every day and have no direction in life. She wants adventure, she wants to get closer to god, she wants to be with a real man. What is a real man? A real man provides her endless feelings of purpose due to his incredible leadership. He performs amazing innovative maintenance of their lifestyle. He provides her with so much that keeps her intetested and he has so much masculine power that she feels that god has put him in charge of her.

When women dirorce a man, their first reaction is to get ahold of some masculinity. This usually comes in the form of a young strong high testosterone hunk. She yearns to find high testosterone. Sadly, after all the flings ar over, divirced wonen tend to repeat the same processes where she finds a good strong single guy and she watches him lose hos ambition and motivation just like her ex husband, so the cycle of divorce repeats again.

It's very hard for a woman to find that perfect guy who isn't gonna lay down and rot 10 years into a marriage. Those guys tend to get gobbled up really early in life and part of what inspires him to be so strong, so masculine and so motivated is because he has a gorgeous sweet wife. If ypu want your husband to keep getting better in life, you as a woman have to perform maintence too. You have to inspire him in order for him to inspire you.