How do you guys manage when your girlfriend or wife refuses to have sex with you for 5+ years?

5 years? Jeez, Anthony is this you?

Find a side piece and don't tell her about it. Meanwhile, file the divorce papers.

If she's not fucking you she's already fucking someone else.

This is the correct answer.

Spoken like a guy who's a "Richard"...

Forcing a woman isn't the way into her vajay-jay.

Is she depressed? Chronic illness or debilitating physical movement? There could be a serious illness lurking or...

Does she still LIKE you? Are you a human being?

Three reasons women refuse sex...1. your sex is boring, 2.she is getting it from elsewhere. 3. You are gross(bad hygiene or you are a perv). Otherwise she WILL give in.

Maybe your doin it wrong?

You have a point there, the problem is most women in the united states have 50 sex partners before they get married, so you have a lot of competition to keep up with if you are just an average guy she has settled down with. It's hard to keep her entertained if you're an average joe.

This issue should have been raised after 5 weeks, not years years!

It may be a lost cause at this point, but the below may still be worth a try.

Start staying away from home for much longer periods, take up a hobby, hit the gym, start a diet. Ignore your wife and do not reply to her text messages or answer her phone calls. If she presses you for answers, simply respond with mono-syllables, or mention you are busy. Hell, even disappear for a couple weeks. If this doesn't rekindle anything, at least you'll be in shape for moving on!

FIFTY???

What in the holy hell.

Hubby was my first and only.

I'm unusual in that regard though. We're in our fifties, still going strong. At least weekly, sometimes more.

how is that possible? I'm 29 and get absolutely no wahooo :(

too bad virtual reality hook-ups aren't more realistic like that one episode of black mirror lol....

Other than right after the birth of our kids, the longest we've gone "without" is about two weeks. Like if one of us is sick or something.

I don't understand how the relationship is not questioned if such an essential part is missing. Unless there is some huge extenuating circumstance like a health problem, or something.

If the relationship is "broke" why wouldn't you try to fix it?

When I try to talk to her about it she just finds a reason why we can't talk about it, it's like having a conversation with a brick wall

She says I am obsessed with sex, how can I be obsessed with sex if I've been with her for so many years and only 1 half assed blow job?

pisses me off.

Divorce. DNA test yer kids

They'll be a sign for all to see Be sure that it will certain be.
Then love shall die and marriage cease And nations wane as babes decrease.
And wives shall fondle cats and dogs And men live much the same as hogs.

Sorry nobody told you.

come on op,


a) she isn't worth fucking
b) she has been fucking others



go buy one if you can't get it anyway else

Is that as good as a girlfriend?

you talk too much

the problem is, I don't want to do it with anyone but her and I think she is being extremely selfish.

BELT AND YELLING

^THIS

too many divorces over "he's not keeping me happy" etc.

um excuse me, your happiness is your choice

you might draw some extra happy from being with someone
however, that's a benefit not a right

Omg. Men instruct one another in the sulk. You teach each other how to manipulate women. That’s so funny.

If you don’t want to do it with anyone else to save your marriage maybe you are selfish too.

Maybe drop the selfish talk. There’s something going on with her if she never wants sex. Name calling her won’t helo you help her.

Do you love her?

yea

Was it better before?
When did it change?

says the convicted sex offender, now go cry to Chump snowflake

what makes it worse, is she has become devoid of any positive emotions (I wouldn't complain if she were at-least nice to me). She is hateful and nasty 24/7... She act's like she was raped by me or something... I have always been gentle and have NEVER demanded fro her sexually. I believe love making should be free will... It is obvious she married me to just gain social status, have her college paid for and to have a few kids... Nothing more!!

my guess is she is a closet lesbian!