Today is 4 years since my lovely Dad passed away. I miss him every single day! | |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79216750 United States 08/12/2020 05:29 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sorry bro. I know one day I will get the same news, unless I kick it before then myself. Both my parents are in their 70's and I am already feeling the hurt knowing they likely don't have much time left. I try not to dwell on it. :jay: |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 79256660 Poland 08/12/2020 05:34 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sorry bro. Quoting: Osmium76 I know one day I will get the same news, unless I kick it before then myself. Both my parents are in their 70's and I am already feeling the hurt knowing they likely don't have much time left. I try not to dwell on it. :jay: I wish you that this will happen later than sooner. 67 years old - too soon. I always hoped that both of my parents will live to their 90ies.. Well, all I can say that first year after loosing Dad was horrible. I can say that I don't remember much from that time. I was like a ghost, feeling nothing but sadness. Big void in my heart. But day after day... I accepted it. I think about Dad many times and now, after 4 years - all bad memories are gone :) I know that He is in better place. I believe that He is watching me and smiling like He was always doing here on Earth. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 79216750 United States 08/12/2020 05:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sorry bro. Quoting: Osmium76 I know one day I will get the same news, unless I kick it before then myself. Both my parents are in their 70's and I am already feeling the hurt knowing they likely don't have much time left. I try not to dwell on it. :jay: I wish you that this will happen later than sooner. 67 years old - too soon. I always hoped that both of my parents will live to their 90ies.. Well, all I can say that first year after loosing Dad was horrible. I can say that I don't remember much from that time. I was like a ghost, feeling nothing but sadness. Big void in my heart. But day after day... I accepted it. I think about Dad many times and now, after 4 years - all bad memories are gone :) I know that He is in better place. I believe that He is watching me and smiling like He was always doing here on Earth. After two failed relationships and dealing with all that hurt, I feel a bit dead inside. Losing a parent for me at this point will leave me dull and empty, but perhaps my prior losses will help temper that. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71568645 United Kingdom 08/12/2020 06:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Dad passed away exactly 4 years ago. So sudden. 67 years old. He wasn't in bad shape. I remember this day. I was preparing to go with my girlfriend to see soccer match. Then I looked at my cellphone. 3 missed calls from 1 sister, 4 missed calls from second sister, 2 missed calls from third sister. My girlfriend asked me if I have some anniversary or something. At this point I knew that something happened. To my father or to my mother. I waited 1 minute, I prayed. I called my oldest sister. I said first 'Mom or dad?'. She said 'Dad just died.'. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79256660 I knew my world would be much different. I played my Dad's favourite song - The Beatles - In My Life. I said to my girlfriend (now ex-girlfriend) - I won't go to the match. I walked her to bus stop, returned to my home and started crying like never before. My Dad was hero for me. Real hero. He was the most loving and carrying Dad ever. He taught me many things, he taught me to treat women good, to follow the path I want to follow, to listen to good music, to smile. I love Him so much. I miss Him. I have so many great memories! We were watching sports, talking hours about various things, going to concerts. He always knew the answer to every question. He loved my Mom so much, He was telling Her that she loves Her every single day. He had best humour ever. I miss you Dad and I hope that we will meet one day!! He repented and started believing in Jesus Christ in the last years. I believe in Jesus too. I hope we will meet in Heaven one day. I know this! I love you Dad!! That was touching to read in an honest way. From the heart I lost my Dad 6 years in August. He was never a good role model as a parent and he struck me a few times when I was grown up. He used to hit my Mum so I guess I was no different. His only Daughter. I forgave him before he passed away. Still think of him and what he did teach me though. God bless our Dads |
Cleolotus User ID: 78656041 Philippines 08/12/2020 06:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sending you big hugs today. It sounds as though your Dad was very precious and a big influence in your Life. Be glad that you had a great Dad and know that he will be waiting for you with open arms on the other side when it is your turn to leave this Earth. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78819819 Netherlands 08/12/2020 07:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Dad passed away exactly 4 years ago. So sudden. 67 years old. He wasn't in bad shape. I remember this day. I was preparing to go with my girlfriend to see soccer match. Then I looked at my cellphone. 3 missed calls from 1 sister, 4 missed calls from second sister, 2 missed calls from third sister. My girlfriend asked me if I have some anniversary or something. At this point I knew that something happened. To my father or to my mother. I waited 1 minute, I prayed. I called my oldest sister. I said first 'Mom or dad?'. She said 'Dad just died.'. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79256660 I knew my world would be much different. I played my Dad's favourite song - The Beatles - In My Life. I said to my girlfriend (now ex-girlfriend) - I won't go to the match. I walked her to bus stop, returned to my home and started crying like never before. My Dad was hero for me. Real hero. He was the most loving and carrying Dad ever. He taught me many things, he taught me to treat women good, to follow the path I want to follow, to listen to good music, to smile. I love Him so much. I miss Him. I have so many great memories! We were watching sports, talking hours about various things, going to concerts. He always knew the answer to every question. He loved my Mom so much, He was telling Her that she loves Her every single day. He had best humour ever. I miss you Dad and I hope that we will meet one day!! He repented and started believing in Jesus Christ in the last years. I believe in Jesus too. I hope we will meet in Heaven one day. I know this! I love you Dad!! I feel for you.. my dad will be gone 6 yrs this October. He was my best and only real friend. I miss him daily..it gets better in some ways with time..but I don't think it will ever go away. |
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The Wolf Man User ID: 72781224 United States 08/12/2020 08:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Dad passed away exactly 4 years ago. So sudden. 67 years old. He wasn't in bad shape. I remember this day. I was preparing to go with my girlfriend to see soccer match. Then I looked at my cellphone. 3 missed calls from 1 sister, 4 missed calls from second sister, 2 missed calls from third sister. My girlfriend asked me if I have some anniversary or something. At this point I knew that something happened. To my father or to my mother. I waited 1 minute, I prayed. I called my oldest sister. I said first 'Mom or dad?'. She said 'Dad just died.'. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79256660 I knew my world would be much different. I played my Dad's favourite song - The Beatles - In My Life. I said to my girlfriend (now ex-girlfriend) - I won't go to the match. I walked her to bus stop, returned to my home and started crying like never before. My Dad was hero for me. Real hero. He was the most loving and carrying Dad ever. He taught me many things, he taught me to treat women good, to follow the path I want to follow, to listen to good music, to smile. I love Him so much. I miss Him. I have so many great memories! We were watching sports, talking hours about various things, going to concerts. He always knew the answer to every question. He loved my Mom so much, He was telling Her that she loves Her every single day. He had best humour ever. I miss you Dad and I hope that we will meet one day!! He repented and started believing in Jesus Christ in the last years. I believe in Jesus too. I hope we will meet in Heaven one day. I know this! I love you Dad!! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76538212 United States 08/12/2020 09:06 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Op, ((hugs)) Sounds like your dad left a great legacy in you. Try not to be sad, no one lives forever but be happy in the fact that you got to share your life with a great man for a time. Honor him by passing down to others the good values he taught you. You should be more happy & proud to have known him than sad he is gone. I don't think such a good man would want you mourning for him so deeply. |
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Fluffy Pancakes User ID: 75470581 United States 08/12/2020 09:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Bless you and your family today. Lost my father a bit over a year ago. It's difficult. Hugs. Things are bad enough, there is no need to make anything up. ~Fluffy "Never interrupt an enemy in the process of destroying himself." Quercitin and zinc...Get it. Take it. Visit howbad.info...If you took the shot, for sure. |
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mrst User ID: 78684171 United Kingdom 08/12/2020 03:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Dad, my hero, still here.. praise be. I dread the day when he isn't. I call him the Oracle.. anything I need to know he seems to have the answer. I remember my mum telling me when I was young - "If you find someone who is half the man of your father, you'll be a very lucky girl". Well, I'm 45 and still hoping!! Blessings go out to every good Daddy and their lucky offspring. A rare gift indeed these days. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79117487 Germany 08/12/2020 03:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | man your post touched me, my both parents are still both live and fine, in the same age category wouldn't like to think how the world will look like when they're gone god bless your heart and all of you nice people i believe we'll all one day gather and socialize in the garden of Eden prayers and hugs |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77944477 Canada 08/12/2020 04:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | C'mon maaaan, now why'd you have to go and make this 37 yr old guy cry while at my office desk..? I'm so sorry for your loss of what seems to have been such a great loving father.. Now that I too am a father, I am consciously trying my best to embrace every given moment with my 2 little girls and just the thought of them losing me in an untimely manner makes me weep for them as we are so incredibly bonded to one another. I just hope to live until I'm old enough to walk them both down the aisle and to hold my grand-kids one day if God permits. |
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ScouseDee User ID: 77414639 United Kingdom 08/12/2020 04:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My Dad passed away exactly 4 years ago. So sudden. 67 years old. He wasn't in bad shape. I remember this day. I was preparing to go with my girlfriend to see soccer match. Then I looked at my cellphone. 3 missed calls from 1 sister, 4 missed calls from second sister, 2 missed calls from third sister. My girlfriend asked me if I have some anniversary or something. At this point I knew that something happened. To my father or to my mother. I waited 1 minute, I prayed. I called my oldest sister. I said first 'Mom or dad?'. She said 'Dad just died.'. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 79256660 I knew my world would be much different. I played my Dad's favourite song - The Beatles - In My Life. I said to my girlfriend (now ex-girlfriend) - I won't go to the match. I walked her to bus stop, returned to my home and started crying like never before. My Dad was hero for me. Real hero. He was the most loving and carrying Dad ever. He taught me many things, he taught me to treat women good, to follow the path I want to follow, to listen to good music, to smile. I love Him so much. I miss Him. I have so many great memories! We were watching sports, talking hours about various things, going to concerts. He always knew the answer to every question. He loved my Mom so much, He was telling Her that she loves Her every single day. He had best humour ever. I miss you Dad and I hope that we will meet one day!! He repented and started believing in Jesus Christ in the last years. I believe in Jesus too. I hope we will meet in Heaven one day. I know this! I love you Dad!! You'll never stop missing him, OP. My dad died 38 years ago and I still miss him. He taught me so much but the most important thing he taught me was to think critically. The thing about your post that really got to me is that my brother died in May this year, he was 67 and his death was unexpected. I posted exactly the same vid on my facebook page because it was one of his favourites. Well, he did go to the same school as Paul and George, albeit a few years later. God Bless you, OP and be so grateful that you had such a wonderful father. ScouseDee |
mrst User ID: 79259560 United Kingdom 08/12/2020 08:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Whatever love you had towards your dad (and him towards you) still exist because God still exist and He (God) IS Love. Quoting: tcs 30485776 Don't ever doubt God and Love (which are the same!) unless your dad happens to be a criminal psychopath, ty god. I'm saddened to read that. Maybe your next life hey? In terms of what I've read about reincarnation, you work these things out over many lifetimes. Souls stick together, swap roles and whatnot. Here's hoping! Hugs x |
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•Messenger• User ID: 74771131 United States 08/13/2020 04:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So sorry for your loss and pain. Your Dad sounds like an outstanding person and father. I too appreciate all the good music my Dad has introduced me into over the years. What a gift to share beauty in music. I hope your pain lessens, just know you will in fact be reunited and share joy with one another again. It's easy to say, and sometimes hard to accept, seeing our loved ones again. You seem well raised, and that although his day was shortened on this earth, he succeeded in raising a fine young man. I pray for you and your family. May God grant you your hearts desire. Thank you for sharing. Last Edited by Dude with words. on 08/13/2020 04:10 AM Living for true life. |