Guys do you ever fantasize about being Stunningly Handsome and to know what it's like to have women throw themselves at you?

I have known people like that, and it must be nice and all, but generally they are not good people and have lots of issues.
After many failures to find a decent partner I finally at this late stage have a keeper and would and have done everything I possible could for her.
So Im happy, although it would have been nice to get that from the jump instead of at the end, it would have saved me a few million and a river of tears and sorrow.

a real pain in the ass i suspect.
you only need one best friend.

You'll find all of the females drawn to that are vapid and flighty and you will crave actual substance which is a rare gift, maybe only ever pursued and never captured. Nobody has is perfect and we all strive in some manner or another.

you live in 2020, the world is spiraling into a world wide dictatorship and all you can think is being a pretty boy to have bitches looking at you?


what the fuck is wrong with you?? if you were 12...but you are fucking 45

women soon will throw themselves to whoever has canned food.

Exercise and diet.

22 months of exercise and I feel the attention.

I knew a Ken Doll type dude who was an asshole. He got lots of sex yes but he didnt know how to take care of, or keep a woman. He had mental issues too.

He died alone in intensive care, woman and childless.He lived a loveless life. His money went to the humane society though. Thats the only thing he cared about, his cat

its overrated

All that animalistic attraction shit was never my style. I prefer depth over substance. Young people are too shallow.

WHICH W I T C H YA WANT?

It's not as much fun as you would think OP.

I watched DVDs of my parents' Magnum PI show...Now I know why my Mom drooled so much over the man. His smile...just wow.

Yeah, that Higgins was real eye candy. (or so I hear) :)

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This guy gets it, though I do think its 5-10 years down the road.

I look forward to dealing with humbled women instead of feminists.

Women will have to learn to be sweet and kind or they will die, or be used and die.

It is not what you would think or want. I have had women expose their breasts at me in regular bars - not strip clubs. I have had woman at dance clubs literally shimmy their whole front of their body on my back...just as I was walking around the place - not on the dance floor...these are woman I never met nor knew! I have had a bosses fiancee making moves at me- that didn't go well - when I rejected her...she never was "friendly" with me again...I ended up quitting the place. I have had guys's wives make moves at me...tell me I'm hot...whatever. I have had random ladies come up and hand me their phone numbers. I have had a female CTO of a company try to hand feed me at a corporate meeting - completely embarrassing. I have had woman have random guys buy ME drinks...now that is class...they didn't want to pay for it themselves, so they had somebody else buy me drinks. I have had a guys wife call me and tell me that her husband was away on vacation...and what am I doing for dinner. I have been asked to be a personal trainer by married women...with their intentions obvious. It is not what you want. You begin to trust NO ladies. If they are willing to cheat on their boyfriends/husbands then...what will/would they do to me later. You will not trust ladies...and end up alone...I know!

When I was young, I was criminal handsome? Ran that in the ground
Old and funny lookin now. I don't want to have sex with me.

It's embarrassing.
You wouldn't believe the risks women will take.

Yeah they flock around me like pidgins...it’s a living hell....

no need to fantasize

I have had 2 men like this in my long life.

One was in college. I don't think he knew how good looking he was. It was new and surprising for him. But girls threw themselves at him with me sitting there.

The other about broke me. He absolutely did it for me. We had a 5 year relationship which ended with him breaking every boundary and rule you could think of.... and some laws. He was also very smart and didn't think he would get caught, because his path was paved all his life by his good looks. His sister told me he was seduced by a much older woman when he was in high school. I think he was a sociopath and never felt anyone else's pain. And that he was entitled to do things.

What a disaster. I won't relive how horrible it got, but it about ruined my life. My son is actually very good looking and it was unknown to him until he was in his mid twenties. He went along with all the attention and it caused real problems for him in relationships and ultimately his marriage. He's had a lot of counseling and is devoted now.

You get all that love for free and it makes it hard to work for a good relationship.

OP, work on your skills to make someone happy. Then you will be happy too.

dayum!

Hold on, i may elaborate later and offer some incite for op. Gonna take less than an hour. brb.

Its actually a lot of fun, it boosts your ego and your feelgood for the week or a month to the max. The only part that sux is the older you get the less attention. I'm 40 and still get attention from attractive 18-20 year olds, although I noticed I don't understand them anymore as I used to, at time I even get annoyed by them now. And frequency of it dropped and in ten years I imagine attention will stop completely. That's the hardest part of it.

I am one. At first it’s a great ego booster, but it gets to a point where I have to question whether they like me for me or just my looks. The former is what everyone should strive for, because we all get old and ugly eventually

Not entirely odd. Your subconscious mind projects to others what you believe. How is beauty determined? Mostly based upon what we are programmed to see. If you look in mirror and view yourself ugly, you subconsciously project that. If you view yourself creepy or bad with women, things occur to show you that. Only once you accept this “fantasy” is really who you are subconsciously, can you experience what it’s like to have the reality of it. You can look in the mirror and view good looks, just by changing this subconscious programming. You don’t have to be insanely physically good looking, you need to be projected as a man women love. Affirmations do indeed help you get to that point. Improving looks do also gain more attention. But you could also be very good looking and be ignored by women everywhere. There is more subconscious attraction going on than you or anyone realizes.

I am. They do.

I wish I was a little bit taller - than I'd be tall dark and handsome - now I tend to go for gals 5 6' and smaller - would love a nice lovely tall thin blonde or auburn woman

Its my curse,it isnt what you think.