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mlabors User ID: 78224333 United States 04/12/2021 01:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | How do you expect your wishes to be fulfilled, if they are not clearly built up, put together? Quoting: Emerald_Glow 2.0 Lets practice it, RIGHT NOW....: Focus on the RESULT, not on how could it happen. Do this every day from now on. As out there as it sounds, I have this approach to be generally but not always effective in life. You can't always get what you want, but sometimes you get what you need. |
Weyoun User ID: 78625468 United States 04/12/2021 01:19 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Amen this how I have always been. I view every situation as a problem and break it down to troubleshoot. My wide hates that I am always looking for a bright side or positive in any situation. She goes rhe opposite takes a victim mask and focuses on the negative followed by the worst possible outcome every time.. I would like to think my approach is better but you know, happy wife happy life and shit... Quoting: NotSoGentleGiant You complement each other. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. Synergize your strenghts together to overcome individual weaknesses, the way God intended. |
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TlvmmCpoft User ID: 80147252 Spain 04/12/2021 02:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh hell no. I look for the worst-case scenario, then plan for that. That way, I'm always prepared and don't suffer the damage from it. And if anything better than the worst happens, I'm happily surprised. I don't know what lies they told you, but I can promise they were lies. There's a fine line between training, trauma, and torture. |
TlvmmCpoft User ID: 80147252 Spain 04/12/2021 02:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Come to think of it, the only pain I've ever felt in this life was when I expected something better than the worst. I don't know what lies they told you, but I can promise they were lies. There's a fine line between training, trauma, and torture. |
Saint Lance the Odd from BC User ID: 77547432 Canada 04/12/2021 06:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Come to think of it, the only pain I've ever felt in this life was when I expected something better than the worst. Quoting: TlvmmCpoft Yes, pull a j44ish grandmother and always expect the worst. If you are not busy weaving your own magick, you are trapped in anothers spell. “It’s time you realized that you have something in you more powerful and miraculous than the things that affect you and make you dance like a puppet.” – Marcus Aurelius |
TlvmmCpoft User ID: 80147252 Spain 04/12/2021 12:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Come to think of it, the only pain I've ever felt in this life was when I expected something better than the worst. Quoting: TlvmmCpoft Yes, pull a j44ish grandmother and always expect the worst. You mean the generation that actually went through a war and knows they can exist? Interesting. I don't know what lies they told you, but I can promise they were lies. There's a fine line between training, trauma, and torture. |
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Emerald_Glow 2.0 (OP) User ID: 76456970 United States 04/14/2021 09:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh hell no. Quoting: TlvmmCpoft I look for the worst-case scenario, then plan for that. That way, I'm always prepared and don't suffer the damage from it. And if anything better than the worst happens, I'm happily surprised. Can you have one worst and one best? These are scenarios, they are meant to be more of them. Emerald_Glow 2.0 |
Emerald_Glow 2.0 (OP) User ID: 76456970 United States 04/16/2021 03:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The way I do: 1. Suddenly lot of shit happens in my life. 2. "What would be the best to come next from this present situation?". Then I make a list of all the troubles with their best solution. It worked many times in my life. Sometimes I forget what I did, weeks and months come and go, no change. And one day I realize on one of those troubles: "Wow, this is just, as I wished for long ago." Then maybe on another. Emerald_Glow 2.0 |
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