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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78085218 United States 08/16/2021 02:14 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife lost her fight with cancer a few days ago, she was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer of the cervix August 2019. Quoting: Shamanik We threw everything at it ourselves and the med people did a great effort but she deteriorated in the last month and slipped away, I was with her, it was peaceful at the the end but still heartbreaking to watch. She was not religious but was spiritual in a huge way. She would never knowingly harm any life form. The amount of critters and birds she saved and nurtured and released back to nature is humbling. We only got together and married 11 years ago (we are/was both mid 50s) and she was someone I should have met much sooner. She was my rock, my best friend, my soulmate and the best person I have ever known. Im hurting. Prayers to loopy Lou . X I'm so very sorry. I said a heartfelt prayer for you. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80728788 Finland 08/16/2021 02:38 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We only got together and married 11 years ago (we are/was both mid 50s) and she was someone I should have met much sooner. She was my rock, my best friend, my soulmate and the best person I have ever known. Quoting: Shamanik I'm sorry for your loss, but at the same time try to be happy for having had those 11 wonderful years. Every marriage ends either in divorce or death, but not every marriage is happy or even loving. I'm stuck with a bitch who hates me, who is nothing like a friend let alone a soulmate to me, she just wants me to do things that she orders, she wants me to buy her stuff, and occasionally she wants to have an orgasm. It's all about her-her-her, she is mean to everybody. The day she will die, will be a day of liberation for me - I'll have a huge party, just me alone. The day after, I'll start searching for my soulmate. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80608675 Canada 08/16/2021 02:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Not necessarily. Remember Johnson & Johnson's baby powder (which many women use down there) causes cervical, ovarian and bladder cancer. If OP's wife used that stuff (even if she only used it for a few years and stopped) he might be able to join the class-action lawsuit. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80751188 Romania 08/16/2021 03:01 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife lost her fight with cancer a few days ago, she was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer of the cervix August 2019. Quoting: Shamanik We threw everything at it ourselves and the med people did a great effort but she deteriorated in the last month and slipped away, I was with her, it was peaceful at the the end but still heartbreaking to watch. She was not religious but was spiritual in a huge way. She would never knowingly harm any life form. The amount of critters and birds she saved and nurtured and released back to nature is humbling. We only got together and married 11 years ago (we are/was both mid 50s) and she was someone I should have met much sooner. She was my rock, my best friend, my soulmate and the best person I have ever known. Im hurting. Prayers to loopy Lou . X May God Rest her soul! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75717227 Sweden 08/16/2021 03:02 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | We only got together and married 11 years ago (we are/was both mid 50s) and she was someone I should have met much sooner. She was my rock, my best friend, my soulmate and the best person I have ever known. Quoting: Shamanik I'm sorry for your loss, but at the same time try to be happy for having had those 11 wonderful years. Every marriage ends either in divorce or death, but not every marriage is happy or even loving. I'm stuck with a bitch who hates me, who is nothing like a friend let alone a soulmate to me, she just wants me to do things that she orders, she wants me to buy her stuff, and occasionally she wants to have an orgasm. It's all about her-her-her, she is mean to everybody. The day she will die, will be a day of liberation for me - I'll have a huge party, just me alone. The day after, I'll start searching for my soulmate. Why not start looking right away? There is such a thing as divorce, you know. You don't have to sit and wait for her to die to be free of her. Besides, you'll probably die before her anyway. Rethink this plan. |
Supreme ChugALugging User ID: 12470981 United States 08/16/2021 03:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Romans 6:23 For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. Revelation 20:13 The sea gave up the dead that were in it, and death and Hades gave up the dead that were in them, and each person was judged according to what they had done. 3 With that I heard a loud voice from the throne say: “Look! The tent of God is with mankind, and he will reside with them, and they will be his people. And God himself will be with them. 4 And he will wipe out every tear from their eyes,and death will be no more, neither will mourning nor outcry nor pain be anymore. The former things have passed away.” Romans 14:11 It is written: “‘As surely as I live,’ says the Lord, ‘every knee will bow before me; every tongue will acknowledge God. Revelation 20:15 Anyone whose name was not found written in the book of life was thrown into the lake of fire. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80539672 United States 08/16/2021 03:42 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | NO. It does NOT. I had cervical cancer. I came of age at the dawn of the AIDS epidemic. I was lucky enough to find the love of my life early in college. He was taken in a terrible accident. After several years and a lot of heartache, I met my husband. So that’s it. That’s my “list”. Cancer is a terrible disease and can happen to anyone. Grow up,learn something and don’t be a cruel jackass. For the other jackass who doesn’t believe in chemo. You don’t know until you’re faced with it what path you’re going to take. You don’t get to judge cancer patients on this. It’s a personal decision. OP, my heart is breaking for you. I am so very deeply sorry that you are having to endure this pain. I pray for you and Lou. You have my sincere empathy. |
Green Eggs & Ham User ID: 77311748 United States 08/16/2021 03:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My wife lost her fight with cancer a few days ago, she was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer of the cervix August 2019. Quoting: Shamanik We threw everything at it ourselves and the med people did a great effort but she deteriorated in the last month and slipped away, I was with her, it was peaceful at the the end but still heartbreaking to watch. She was not religious but was spiritual in a huge way. She would never knowingly harm any life form. The amount of critters and birds she saved and nurtured and released back to nature is humbling. We only got together and married 11 years ago (we are/was both mid 50s) and she was someone I should have met much sooner. She was my rock, my best friend, my soulmate and the best person I have ever known. Im hurting. Prayers to loopy Lou . X <3 <hugs> I will pray for your peace of heart. Separation is temporary, but it feels so long, doesn't it. You aren't alone. We're being pecked to death by a duck. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80751248 Czechia 08/16/2021 03:56 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hello Sweet Man, She will be in your mind and once if all is well you will see her again in spirit. I can't promise it but I feel it will all be good. Darkness is there but she reminds you that you have to continue to do whatever it is.. I think you know what. Take care my friend. Love |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80450198 United States 08/16/2021 04:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My heart and prayers go out to you in your loss. She sounds like a beautiful woman, so tragic, so young. I, too, would say lean on your family and friends. Sadly, it is my experience many times people flee from a person and their pain when they lose someone. I hope you have a have a good support system. ~evangeline claire |
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