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BammBamm (OP) User ID: 77610953 United States 09/18/2021 02:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When I rode the school bus, many years ago, the bullying continued daily, until I took my father's advice and sucker punched them as hard and fast as I could in the mouth, after many expulsions, principal meetings and Insistenence by my parents that I could & would be encouraged to defend myself from bullies the bullying magically stopped. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73705174 Bullies want to bully thoose that FEEL they are too weak to fight back, if you fight back, and, maybe even begin to bully them back, even the stupidest bully eventually realizes they messed with the WRONG person. At first I wanted him to fight back. But from what he is telling me the majority are females of all things! Not all are female but the majority. The females start it and then it ends with the males getting into it. Cousins I assume? Some live together but aren’t brother and sister. They didn’t used to act like this. But they would all jump on him at one time, I know they will. BammBamm |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 79831996 United States 09/18/2021 02:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Teach him to fight. I got picked on by joggers because my parents were poor and I grew up near their species. I would get bullied all the time by them. Then I grew up really fast, I was over 6 foot in high school and started whooping anyones ass that said shit to me. My parents taught me not to fight and just 'turn the other cheek' but that didnt work. In the real world sometimes you have to use fists. Learning to fight will give him self-confidence too. Mixed Martial Arts and Krav maga is good. You have to treat people how the treat you sometimes and some 'people' we let into our society have to be treated like animals. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80847987 United Kingdom 09/18/2021 02:55 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Go beat their das up in front of the bully kids. Then tell the little pricks that they are next if they continue on this path. This is what I will do if it ever happens to ANY of my 3 I have taken up ju jitsu in recent years to make sure that this will happen if this scenario ever comes to be. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80888801 United States 09/18/2021 02:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Any possibility you can homeschool or send him to a charter school? Lots of good online/independent study schools are options now too. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80213157 You can't drive him to school yourself or find someone to carpool with? Worse comes to worse, pay someone to drive him to school if you have to stay at the current school. Yes I’m looking into all your ideas. Had to enter lottery for charter school and didn’t make it. As for taking him to school I could, but it will cause a financial issue with gas prices. Even if someone takes him I would need to pay gas money because that would be the right things to do. But I’m financially strapped at the moment. You can't afford gas to drive your kid to school? You have a phone |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76443123 United States 09/18/2021 02:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You know who bullied my son the worst? His fifth grade teacher. She was the biggest ///ever. She made all the children cry. She picked up a child by his neck. The principal lied for her. Her husband was on the school board. She was physically abusive and the union protected her. |
BammBamm (OP) User ID: 77610953 United States 09/18/2021 03:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | In many ways, I am VERY thankful I was bullied in grade, middle, and high school, the few bullies I had taught me to fight and stand up for myself, they, in many ways taught me life was not ever fair, that others will NOT treat me the way I would like to be treated, and generally 'toughened me up' for the real world, with Bosses, Governments, loved ones, and coworkers later in life never being able to get away with 'bullying me' into doing something I did NOT want to do. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 73705174 I owe alot of my strength and resolve to the bully boys that tested me & gave me free 'Trial by fire' metal tempering.. The strongest swords are tempered in fire, I feel very sorry for children that did not recieve this free bullying throughout their formative years, they grow up weak, and falling for Government lies, roll over for political bullies & generally do not know how to fight and stand up for themselves in relationships, work, life & generally will accept many intolerable situations by rolling over and 'taking it' my bullies taught me fight back, they did it until I learned how to be strong & say no to tyrants.. Bullies are preparing you for the 'Tyrants' you will meet and recognize them for what they are... I owe many thanks to my bullies early in lefe at school.. Yes! I went through it as a female. One time I had to go to summer school. One boy constantly made my life a living hell on the school bus that summer. He would throw shit at me, call me names, kick me as I got off the bus. I never told anyone. He was a year under me. The next year he was on my school bus at the normal school. But this time he didn’t have his gang of buddies but all mine were there. This really big kid liked me and I told him about what happened. He loved to fight and was in the slow classes though lol. I mean adult man big kid lol! I pointed the bully out to him,and he took my 3 inch binder and slammed it into his head multiple times, as he told the kid why were you messing with her lol! I will never forget that, and the bully never rode the bus again with me. BammBamm |
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BammBamm (OP) User ID: 77610953 United States 09/18/2021 03:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Any possibility you can homeschool or send him to a charter school? Lots of good online/independent study schools are options now too. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80213157 You can't drive him to school yourself or find someone to carpool with? Worse comes to worse, pay someone to drive him to school if you have to stay at the current school. Yes I’m looking into all your ideas. Had to enter lottery for charter school and didn’t make it. As for taking him to school I could, but it will cause a financial issue with gas prices. Even if someone takes him I would need to pay gas money because that would be the right things to do. But I’m financially strapped at the moment. You can't afford gas to drive your kid to school? You have a phone I know it sounds bad. But gas is extremely high here. It will add up week after week month after month. We are not that close to the school :( BammBamm |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 78185142 United States 09/18/2021 03:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If I had a son, he would be enrolled in martial arts classes after school on most days. He would be able to defend himself and would be confident. Quoting: nobodyspecial8 I don't have a son, but if I did, this would be how I would raise him. This is what my dad did for me... I am an introvert by nature so older kids would fuck with me. Then I learned a bunch of choke holds and submission/grappling and beat the snot out of the kids that were fucking with me. We became best friends afterwards... I had their respect. |
BammBamm (OP) User ID: 77610953 United States 09/18/2021 03:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I brought my son to school every day because I wanted to be sure he had breakfast every morning. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 76443123 You know who bullied my son the worst? His fifth grade teacher. She was the biggest ///ever. She made all the children cry. She picked up a child by his neck. The principal lied for her. Her husband was on the school board. She was physically abusive and the union protected her. I’m so sorry. I have had a teacher hit my son in 3rd grade. The school never did anything I assumed. But the next year she supposedly quit. They do protect each other, that is true! I hope your son is okay now. But that stuff leaves mental scars :( BammBamm |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71214588 United States 09/18/2021 03:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I grew up in a republic where bullying was a norm. I got bullied and beatup. When I went complaining to my mother, she asked me if I expected her to go fight them. My neighbor told me that if anyone is bullying me, I should grab a rock or a stick or whatever I can find and use it to fight back. I sometimes later had to do that. But one thing I learned was that I had to learn how to deal with this issue. I joined wrestling and in a year or so none of the regular bullies wanted to mess with me. |
ScrumpTheTexan Forum Administrator 09/18/2021 03:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | On the bus. Quoting: BammBamm And he’s not the only one. I don’t think the school is taking it seriously. I will save the emails. Not sure what the zero tolerance to bullying means since this is ongoing. One kid took up for himself but he was kicked off the bus for saying the “you know what word”. He's some real advice, op. Start working out with your son at a gym. Get buff together. Make sure he eats enough protein and fat. Bullies will pick on him as long as they think they physically can. Turn him into a man. Sucks to say it but this world isn't nice to the weak. Make him not weak. Its never too young to start. He'll thank you forever once he likes it and his confidence will soar. The low confidence is the real reason bullies pick on him. Bullies can smell it like a shark to blood. ^ This I am a Christian. Christian does not equal doormat or pushover "I Have Sworn upon the Altar of God... Eternal Hostility against every form of Tyranny over the mind of man." -Thomas Jefferson, Sep. 23, 1800 The Election of Donald John Trump: [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] For previous Newsletters, click 'Scrump's News Letters' @ [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] |
BammBamm (OP) User ID: 77610953 United States 09/18/2021 03:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There isn’t a racist bone in my body. Some of the best people I know and have respect for are a different skin color from me. But this is exactly what is happening to my kid. He isn’t raised to see skin color. But what is actually happening to him and the other few kids on the bus may have an impact that I can’t explain away for him. My kid loves to talk to anyone and be anyone’s friend. But this is making changes in how he sees things based on race and I didn’t raise him that way. There is no other reason these few kids are being targeted besides their skin tone. It’s really a sad situation and one I can’t put blinders on and ignore :( BammBamm |
Secretizer User ID: 78467371 United States 09/18/2021 03:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Get your kid some hard core combat training. Buy him some free weights and encourage him to use them. Put some weight on his bones. Get him some assertiveness training. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 80215395 He'll need all of the above moving forward This is the best advice. Bullies don't respect weakness but they fear strength. Use this as an opportunity. |
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TXP User ID: 80383054 United States 09/18/2021 03:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | On the bus. Quoting: BammBamm And he’s not the only one. I don’t think the school is taking it seriously. I will save the emails. Not sure what the zero tolerance to bullying means since this is ongoing. One kid took up for himself but he was kicked off the bus for saying the “you know what word”. THEY bully Him Yes. Not sure why the aggression is so bad this year. . Are you serious?? . . "Stop the lockdown. Stop the masks. Stick your vaccine up your ass." - Tess....AMEN! "What does CENSORSHIP reveal? It reveals FEAR." - Julian Assange . |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80269831 United States 09/18/2021 03:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | On the bus. Quoting: BammBamm And he’s not the only one. I don’t think the school is taking it seriously. I will save the emails. Not sure what the zero tolerance to bullying means since this is ongoing. One kid took up for himself but he was kicked off the bus for saying the “you know what word”. You need to put a stop to it at once. Kids end up killing themselves these days from bullying. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 80889414 United States 09/18/2021 03:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I told the school they need to fix it. Quoting: BammBamm If they don’t fix it I have no other recourse but to take him off the bus and he misses school. momma ? how old is yer kid ? .....miss sk00l ? YOU have no one else to bring him, loan you a car ? c'mon mom huh - anyway get a small voice activated tape recorder,borrow one if you must,set it up in his back pack and let the games begin- there's the proof,take it from there |
nutmeg User ID: 76388104 United States 09/18/2021 03:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When my grandson was in 3rd grade, a fat upperclassman (6th grade) was bullying him in school. They didn't take a bus because the kids walked to school or parents picked them up. Small community. When the bullying didn't stop, despite my daughter reporting it to the principal and teachers, my daughter waited for the bully after school. While he was walking down the sidewalk near the school, she said she picked him up by the collar, looked him in the eye and told him if he lays his hands on my grandson again, she was going to "beat the shit" out of him. OMG! I wish I was there to see it. I smile everytime I think about it. That bully never even looked at my grandson again. lol Last Edited by nutmeg on 09/18/2021 03:24 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 80678115 United States 09/18/2021 03:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I told the school they need to fix it. Quoting: BammBamm If they don’t fix it I have no other recourse but to take him off the bus and he misses school. I am so sick of WEAK A## parents! You want everyone else to fix problems that you can fix yourself. Would you send your son to downtown Chicago at midnight and blame the city for the things that would happen to him? Get him off the bus and out of the war zone known as the public school. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77876249 United States 09/18/2021 03:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Schools now should have an absolute zero tolerance for bullying. Quoting: Uncle Gintel This is not being preachy either. It is in their mandates after the mass shootings that often stem back to bullying. I am really good at navigating school bullshit as both of my parents and step-parents are teachers. Who have you notified so far and I will tell you who to go to next. no one cares your thoughts on this or anything for that matter... When one like you offers advice it has to be ignored. Why? Well when one comes to a site to stir shit and be a general mental case asshole, it taints any advice from said asshole... capiche? |
Remington User ID: 77941542 United States 09/18/2021 03:26 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I think I understand the issue. I’m old but back it the day 30+ years ago same thing. The problem is with African American kids. You can sucker punch one but they come out of the wood work to help their “Brutha”. The best thing at this point is to continue to call the s hook. The bus is an extension of the classroom. When you have gone as far as you can there, call the cops. Document EVERYTHING! Sorry bro Get a lawyer and sue everyone. That is why you document. Sue parents, school board, police if they do nothing. Last Edited by Remington on 09/18/2021 03:28 PM "A man's rights rest in three boxes: the ballot box, the jury box, and the cartridge box." - Frederick Douglas |