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themfgl User ID: 67904014 United States 11/12/2021 03:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ive seen it a bit in the Infantry. A few traffic fatalities but its different in those circumstances because your so busy trying to save and reassure them that you kinda expect it. A few years ago i was staning in my lodge. Having a beer and some shots witha lodge brother. We were shooting the shit. He was yelling me about his plans for retirement in a few weeks. Next thing you know his face lost all expression and he slumped over and fell into me at the bar. I laid him down and me and a few others took turns doing CPR until the ambulance showed up and took over. He was gone though. Never had a heart issue was about 60. I was about 46 and had a triple bypass and 5 stents.....you never know. He felt no pain and from what o could see never knew what hit him.I on the other hand have massively painful heart attacks and suffer greatly while waiting for them to put another stent in. Who knows who is luckier. |
Watchingwaiting User ID: 79892814 United States 11/12/2021 03:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ive seen it a bit in the Infantry. A few traffic fatalities but its different in those circumstances because your so busy trying to save and reassure them that you kinda expect it. A few years ago i was staning in my lodge. Having a beer and some shots witha lodge brother. We were shooting the shit. He was yelling me about his plans for retirement in a few weeks. Next thing you know his face lost all expression and he slumped over and fell into me at the bar. I laid him down and me and a few others took turns doing CPR until the ambulance showed up and took over. He was gone though. Never had a heart issue was about 60. I was about 46 and had a triple bypass and 5 stents.....you never know. He felt no pain and from what o could see never knew what hit him.I on the other hand have massively painful heart attacks and suffer greatly while waiting for them to put another stent in. Who knows who is luckier. Quoting: themfgl Look into nattokinase amd serrapeptase for clearing blockages. Watchingwaiting |
Giselle22 User ID: 80030948 United States 11/12/2021 03:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As told to me by a chaplain commenting that my relative looked at peace. Many are at peace. Some preceding signs are seeing angels. Staring upward in the corners. American culture is programmed with fear, unknowing & closed mindedness when it comes to death. I found this FREE EBOOK. [link to www.buddhanet.net] Worry not it does not have pictures. The book is called THE MANY FACES OF DEATH by Jacqui James. It is a great book. Death can be viewed from different perspectives. I see death as a process. I see death as a bridge to the next chapter. Americans see death in black/white, win/lose, succeed/failure, beginning/ending terms. There is a time to live & a time to die. Maybe we should celebrate death like we celebrate birth. Celebrate one's next chapter. |
*ApPaL* (OP) User ID: 81083061 United Kingdom 11/12/2021 03:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Yes, many people passing with T-E-R-R-O-R on their faces. Quoting: Giselle22 As told to me by a chaplain commenting that my relative looked at peace. Many are at peace. Some preceding signs are seeing angels. Staring upward in the corners. American culture is programmed with fear, unknowing & closed mindedness when it comes to death. I found this FREE EBOOK. [link to www.buddhanet.net] Worry not it does not have pictures. The book is called THE MANY FACES OF DEATH by Jacqui James. It is a great book. Death can be viewed from different perspectives. I see death as a process. I see death as a bridge to the next chapter. Americans see death in black/white, win/lose, succeed/failure, beginning/ending terms. There is a time to live & a time to die. Maybe we should celebrate death like we celebrate birth. Celebrate one's next chapter. I agree Cymru Am Byth. ^. ^ * * ¥ ~~~ A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you’re loved by others. The Wizard of Oz |
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*ApPaL* (OP) User ID: 81083061 United Kingdom 11/12/2021 03:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your brain goes berserk when it shuts down, no different than bad or good dreams. Quoting: Kernunnos Certainly not proof of Arab gods and the Christian fear mongering religion. It shows me that unlike a dream it’s a door we all go through! Some appear ok and others really don’t Cymru Am Byth. ^. ^ * * ¥ ~~~ A heart is not judged by how much you love; but by how much you’re loved by others. The Wizard of Oz |
Giselle22 User ID: 80030948 United States 11/12/2021 04:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Start at 5:20. What we are here participating in is essencially an exam, a SOUL EXAM, and one must be prepared to Face INFINITY WITHOUT FLINCHING stated by Max Igan. Last Edited by Giselle22 on 11/12/2021 04:27 PM |
Giselle22 User ID: 80030948 United States 11/12/2021 04:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 6:43 Find the areas of consciousness that are flawed and filter them out... SOUL PURIFICATION 8:38 No one has AUTHORITY OVER THE VESSEL (my body) that God has provided to have this EXPERIENCE. If we just had this EPHIPANY, the WORLD WOULD CHANGE in 3 seconds. Last Edited by Giselle22 on 11/12/2021 05:02 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 81031376 United States 11/12/2021 04:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where I work I witness people dying. My own Father who was a Christian passed away in a hospice he said “the two lovely ladies are waiting for me” before he passed and looked happy? Quoting: *ApPaL* One lady recently passed away and I was doing checks on her, two minutes, when she suddenly moved I looked up and was startled as she turned her head towards me and screamed “No No No” before passing again? I heard Micheal Landon “little Joe” “pa” little house on the prairie was screaming and scratching at the bed clothes before he passed? I think they know they’re on their way to “the bad place” ? Ut-oh, looks to me like I might need to change my av. I knew not that he died like that. BONANZA, one last ride. |
Verasssisterfromchorley User ID: 79623367 United Kingdom 11/12/2021 05:39 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I worked in a nursing home for 20 years, but 1 death really spooked me. One of the old gents a nice old man, I sat with him the night he passed, he had no family nearby. Suddenly, he started screaming and shouting and pointing towards the wall, and started to kind of struggle and fight with something thrashing out at something, and screaming "no, I dont wont to, I'm not ready no", he really screamed and yelled in horror and really struggled and fought against dying. Really creeped me out, spooked for the rest of the night. GEORGE BERNARD SHAW: "I don't particularly care about homosexuality, providing it's not made compulsory You May Live To See Man-Made Horrors Beyond Your Comprehension - Nikola Tesla. Bitcoin-bc1qtpxfhwrtvgm5rq9duc3jtenu6hex855xajsmx8 |
Sungaze_At_Dawn User ID: 81004338 Canada 11/12/2021 06:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Your brain goes berserk when it shuts down, no different than bad or good dreams. Quoting: Kernunnos Certainly not proof of Arab gods and the Christian fear mongering religion. Actually its a little different, just nde's are different than that. I bought a book after my mother died in the words of the dying. Especially those who are going more slowly, and they transition, sometimes months, certainly days, weeks. And 80%, the majority, have visits and see people from the other side. Sometimes its, who are these people, why is it so crowded, in the hospital. Some staff have witnessed the visitors, and family. They talk about going on a journey a voyage. My mother tried over and over again 2 months and sooner, before her death Feb 6, to get my son to pack up her bags. She was moving to a house on the hill, and she needed all her things packed up. Then she told my son in the late evening, around 9 pm and dark, to go outside and bring the tall blond man with bike in and he can't stay outside. Well she and a deceased friend of hers had been talking to him for hours right through the wall her bedroom. And then she mentioned his name, he was our cousin who had died in his 20's, possibly in the late 80's. Which I told her and she looked confused. The night she died, had this impulse to re-arrange my mint linux to resemble Mac desktop and the most beautiful crocus's and spring flowers, there were all these flowers. I was exhausted, thought it was 11 but it was 1:30 and hurried to bed, heard her talking to herself, not calling for help. Fell into an exhausted deep sleep. She died probably around 2 am. Those wonderful wallpapers that aren't my normal style, were a gift from her. it was a cold spell coming and my son was in the garage which isn't finished being transformed, and suddenly felt my mother, rearrange her room, had to sort out her things, my son was moving in it. Also, the night she died, around 9-10 twice she called me to her room and told me, she had seen my son walk through her room. Now we were both paranoid as he drives 40 min to work and he was working and was waiting for a phone call, and we always pray for his safe travels, so this freaked me out again, she had done that a couple months before as well. She saw him as if he was physically there walking through the room. Well he's in her room. And have had so many experiences of her presence watching over, kind of high management, organizational. The Devil tries to convince everyone he doesn't exist. The state tries to convince everyone they cannot resist. Do not go quietly into the good night. Rage Rage against the dying light! |
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GodspeedOne User ID: 79976708 Romania 11/12/2021 09:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where I work I witness people dying. My own Father who was a Christian passed away in a hospice he said “the two lovely ladies are waiting for me” before he passed and looked happy? Quoting: *ApPaL* One lady recently passed away and I was doing checks on her, two minutes, when she suddenly moved I looked up and was startled as she turned her head towards me and screamed “No No No” before passing again? I heard Micheal Landon “little Joe” “pa” little house on the prairie was screaming and scratching at the bed clothes before he passed? I think they know they’re on their way to “the bad place” ? You have valuable experience few people do, OP. |
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nitebird User ID: 66739048 United States 11/12/2021 09:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My grandfather was on home hospice after refusing cancer treatments. He went out his way, in the home he worked hard for with his family right with him. He seems to be prepared and at peace. He was very much a dad and a responsible man so he had everything in order. We knew the day was coming when he took his car keys out of his pocket and put his wallet on the dresser. The day he passed, he waited until my husband got home from work. I knew it was because he didn't want me to be alone in the house. |
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wkk User ID: 81117719 United States 11/12/2021 09:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | When a husband died, I was shocked. He went peaceably and I was there. There was a kind of a pop sound and I looked at him and suddenly his body almost seemed like it was just a wax figure just laying there. It seemed like the pop was the soul leaving the body. I looked up and said goodbye because I knew the spirit was leaving to go home. When I saw that, I realized that the soul really is what makes us real and once the soul leaves it is different than I expected. I guess I thought it would seem like the dead people in caskets or on tv shows--the same person but that they seem to be only in "deep sleep, lifeless" mode. Instead, the body was like the empty wax figures (at least to me). While I have always been a Christian and believed in life after death, that experience changed me. I realized that we are souls with a body on a whole new level and for that, I am glad. wkk |
442 User ID: 80398352 United States 11/12/2021 10:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This went on for a while.. And it was amazing because she was dying... And she was having a good old time on the phone and was talking like old friends would on the phone. When she hung up we asked who she was talking to. And she said.. Your mother..i was talking to your mother... What is strange is.. My mother died 10 years earlier Last Edited by 442 on 11/12/2021 10:08 PM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 81118395 United States 11/12/2021 10:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There's some nightmare fuel for you guys Don't know whether I believe in an afterlife. Part of me thinks NDEs and seeing things before death is just the brain shutting down, no more no less. But truth be told I WANT to believe in something better than this life.. Only person I've seen die is my grandmother. She was a fine woman. My family and I were gathering around her bedside before she passed. Everyone was quiet and no one said much. Room was dark and some people had their heads down or staring off into space. Myself I was watching my grandmother intently. I saw the moment she passed; don't think anyone else did. Her body seemed... empty somehow. As if she was no longer present there. It's hard to explain exactly. Wouldn't say it was ethereal or anything as I don't wish to exaggerate but it was a bit strange. Took about 2 minutes or so before anyone else realized she was gone. Didn't point it out or mention about how the death certificate had the wrong time. Just didn't feel like my place. Not much of a story I know. But that's the only person I've seen die up close. |
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Alpacalips User ID: 77694187 United States 11/12/2021 10:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Very interesting thread. Allnurses.com has 100s of pages of death and dying accounts. This thread is well over a decade old. It is fascinating. [link to allnurses.com (secure)] May God bless you all. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 81118395 United States 11/12/2021 10:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Very interesting thread. Allnurses.com has 100s of pages of death and dying accounts. This thread is well over a decade old. It is fascinating. Quoting: Alpacalips [link to allnurses.com (secure)] May God bless you all. Thanks for sharing |
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marooned User ID: 70666044 United States 11/12/2021 11:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Very interesting thread. Allnurses.com has 100s of pages of death and dying accounts. This thread is well over a decade old. It is fascinating. Quoting: Alpacalips [link to allnurses.com (secure)] May God bless you all. Very interesting thread. Allnurses.com has 100s of pages of death and dying accounts. This thread is well over a decade old. It is fascinating. Quoting: Alpacalips [link to allnurses.com (secure)] May God bless you all. Thanks for sharing Yes, Thank you. |
Rein20 User ID: 78974241 United States 11/12/2021 11:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My great uncle passed (years ago) after working all morning at his sawmill, he came in the house for lunch, sat at the table, had a glass of iced tea, looked at my great aunt and said “I’m going home”, dropped dead as a door nail. I can’t think of a better way to go. The Lord didn’t bring you into the storm to watch you drown, He brought you into it to teach you how to walk on water. ~ Matthew 14:22-33 Psalm 139:1-24 |
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Foxy Pomeranian User ID: 80830258 United States 11/13/2021 12:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where I work I witness people dying. My own Father who was a Christian passed away in a hospice he said “the two lovely ladies are waiting for me” before he passed and looked happy? Quoting: *ApPaL* One lady recently passed away and I was doing checks on her, two minutes, when she suddenly moved I looked up and was startled as she turned her head towards me and screamed “No No No” before passing again? I heard Micheal Landon “little Joe” “pa” little house on the prairie was screaming and scratching at the bed clothes before he passed? I think they know they’re on their way to “the bad place” ? I agree they know they are on their way to the bad place. Last Edited by Foxy Pomeranian on 11/13/2021 12:26 AM Foxy |
Foxy Pomeranian User ID: 80830258 United States 11/13/2021 12:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Where I work I witness people dying. My own Father who was a Christian passed away in a hospice he said “the two lovely ladies are waiting for me” before he passed and looked happy? Quoting: *ApPaL* One lady recently passed away and I was doing checks on her, two minutes, when she suddenly moved I looked up and was startled as she turned her head towards me and screamed “No No No” before passing again? I heard Micheal Landon “little Joe” “pa” little house on the prairie was screaming and scratching at the bed clothes before he passed? I think they know they’re on their way to “the bad place” ? Last Edited by Foxy Pomeranian on 11/13/2021 12:26 AM Foxy |