Found son is Gay - As a Christian I am broken

You will have a son in law and adopted/surrogate grandkids. You can help ease his life path by not understanding but accepting. It’s what a good parent does.
Now have a stiff drink, swallow your pride and hug your son.

pitcher or catcher ?

Maybe you're not the Christian you though you were.

The enemy attacks those he knows he can eff with.

Your faith is weak.
You're so enamored by money that you lack faith in Him.

You probably though you could "give him all he ever wanted" growing up right?

Or...

"everything you didn't have"

Guess what?

Kids don't want that shizz

Kids want parents.

Your kid is a phagg cuz you weren't a parent.

You're a Fucking failure.

Before you worry for your sons sin you had best think about your own salvation and what faces you.

The Rich Man and Lazarus

19 “There was a rich man who was dressed in purple and fine linen and lived in luxury every day. 20 At his gate was laid a beggar named Lazarus, covered with sores 21 and longing to eat what fell from the rich man’s table. Even the dogs came and licked his sores.

22 “The time came when the beggar died and the angels carried him to Abraham’s side. The rich man also died and was buried. 23 In Hades, where he was in torment, he looked up and saw Abraham far away, with Lazarus by his side. 24 So he called to him, ‘Father Abraham, have pity on me and send Lazarus to dip the tip of his finger in water and cool my tongue, because I am in agony in this fire.’

25 “But Abraham replied, ‘Son, remember that in your lifetime you received your good things, while Lazarus received bad things, but now he is comforted here and you are in agony. 26 And besides all this, between us and you a great chasm has been set in place, so that those who want to go from here to you cannot, nor can anyone cross over from there to us.’

27 “He answered, ‘Then I beg you, father, send Lazarus to my family, 28 for I have five brothers. Let him warn them, so that they will not also come to this place of torment.’

29 “Abraham replied, ‘They have Moses and the Prophets; let them listen to them.’

30 “‘No, father Abraham,’ he said, ‘but if someone from the dead goes to them, they will repent.’

31 “He said to him, ‘If they do not listen to Moses and the Prophets, they will not be convinced even if someone rises from the dead.’”


Matthew 19:24
And again I say unto you, It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter into the kingdom of God.

Should have watched his diet.

Probably fed him to much SOY and GMO.

If you are a xtian, deal with it

My mother had to bury her only son. She would have rather had him gay if given a choice. She wasn't given a choice. Enjoy your time with your child. Love him and forget about the gay stuff. No one cares what goes on in your bedroom. Stop caring about what goes on in others bedrooms.

Your opinion is run of the mill. There has always been homosexuals, from the poorest to the richest, from the ignored to the nurtured. The homosexual is nature’s way of keeping the population growth in check. Keep in mind that when a person is shunned from society due to their sexual proclivities they are one thought away from suicide.

I expect the venom and jokes from glp,

But look at all the positive good advice here for a father!!! I am actually enthusiastic at all the good posts actual advice.

Again as a son who is a drug addict, I know a lot about disappointment from my father, but I’m sitting here watching football with him, and all I can think is that his opinion of me is the only one that matters in my life. And frankly he wants what’s best for me, but mostly for me to have a clean happy life. But it has been a rough road for both of us to get to that realization.

Spend this week explaining to him how much you love him and will always be there for him. I know for a fact that in 5 or ten years, you and him will always be best friends.

Again the hardest thing in my life has been disappointing my dad. And I truly believe that just like drug addiction, homosexuality is most likely caused by genes or abuse…. Either way he has little control, the dice has most likely been cast. Again if he is a good son in every other aspect of his life, well than life is good.

Again have you discussed this with his mother? Both parents should have a united position.

Bend it over & take it like a man. You have the son of a sinner.

Sounds like you have work to do before worrying about your son..you are bragging and this is the proverbial log in your eye to remove before the speck in your sons.

Your son walking the other side is the least of your problems.

Time to reassess your own walk.

It's not a phase. I know because I am one of them! And it's not a choice. I don't know if we're born this way or made this way from childhood abuse, but it's not a choice. I had an abusive alcoholic psychopath father, so there's that. I suspect that is what caused it in me, but I don't know.

I've hated being this all my life. I tried to be hetero, it doesn't work. I've been single all my life. I'm celibate now for many years.

I can't stand "woke" crap. I can't stand most other "gay" men. I can't stand drag queens and effeminate men. But I can't change what I am, unfortunately.

I have no advice for you other than than nothing you or him can do about it. At best he can remain celibate his entire life.

What church is that?

I was not sexually abused as a child, not that I remember anyway. A cold asshole cruel father makes his sons gay, even with no sexual abuse.

My theory is the very young child hates his father so much, that he cannot identify with him. Then he has no male role model to look up to. Then he looks up to and identifies with his mother, which makes him "gay" (I hate that label too).

So maybe you were a horrible father? Maybe a gay son is what you deserved and brought on yourself? Sorry, just speaking the truth from my own experience. And if religious conservatives are so insistent we weren't born this way, then it's on YOU dad.

You have plenty of money.
Take a vacation to Amsterdam with your son where youth sex isn't as illegal as it is in the States.

Hey him a few beers, a fat coffee shop joint and buy him a whore and tell her in advance that he needs his bell rung so well that he won't think about other males anymore.

It might go against your beliefs but don't let him remain gay if he can be turned back to normal.
If he stays gay his chance of dying from AIDS or M+pox is bad.

You could buy an American whore and stay here if you can afford any legal outside about your son's age should you be caught.

I heard that it might be the actual food, the chemicals. As they have found from examples in nature. They started to turn on the own sexes fish too, by the chemicals. It might have some truth. Also something with the actual brain neurons. When that's said quite many that changed too by exorcism.
Prayers do work miracles. It might also be a test. Sometimes God allows for his own reasons. Even suffering. To create holiness or sanctification. It might be. Op, I will pray for you both. Maybe, he can get to the point he doesn't act on it. But what do you know about his faith? I would think that someone of faith would at least not act on it. I heard today, avoid pornography of all costs, because now they have started to curse it, directly. Not that I recommend it anyway of course. But I mean if he's done that, and he's got hooked that way.. It might be an idea to break it

A Christian doesn't behave this way

I don't think you can say that, without any knowledge. You can't just assume.

You probably care for no one and nothing and that means no one will care for you either.

I think another possible cause is drugs or chemicals that the mother injected while pregnant.

Another thing, I was NOT breastfed, ever. My mother used formula from the day I was born. Maybe this caused it? Maybe it was from NOT being breastfed? Maybe it was from chemicals in the formula?

I don't know. But sometimes I wish I had never been born because of it. That said, I still have a strong instinct for survival and I'm a survivor.

I would NEVER have chosen this for myself. NEVER. It's pretty much ruined my life, given this society I grew up in.

What his son chose to do have nothing to do with him, I'm sure most do what they can. We can't just assume the worst when we don't know. These things can happen

GOD condemns that behavior....NOT YOU. You are supposed to be Christ like as a Christian, love and welcome all.

Know your place. You are not God. You are that child's father.

True.

Well you must be kuweer too then…

Sorry man. Pray for him.

All I can do is base it on my experience. That was my experience. My father was HORRIBLE. I hated him from as early as I remember. I was happy when he died (I was about 40). It caused it in me, as far as I know. Had I had a decent father I doubt I would have been this.

I think many of these boys were molested as children, it may have happened, very sad if so.

God will hear your prayers, I know a couple of Men who were gay but found god and they married and have kids, they would not continue to do anything that god hates and we can all do that.
We can do right and teach our own lust and control our own actions. We can love anyone male or female this is about choice no matter who says not!!

It can't be excluded, as animals have shown same behaviour with chemicals. Although not all of them. 8 wasn't breast fed either, and I didn't turn out lesbianism but I'm highly allergic. And I had some unexplained rashes as a baby. That was partly at least because of plastic! And think about what plastic do..

man, are you evil or what? It must suck being you.