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Anonymous Coward User ID: 941031 United States 05/11/2010 12:30 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Damaged people draw damaged people to themselves. It is a love/hate or even hate/hate relationship. They are both getting something out of it and that is why they won't leave each other. When one is really through with the lesson then they will leave or become better in the relationship. Don't ever get involved with anyone's problems. They have them for a reason. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 959187 United States 05/11/2010 12:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Damaged people draw damaged people to themselves. It is a love/hate or even hate/hate relationship. They are both getting something out of it and that is why they won't leave each other. When one is really through with the lesson then they will leave or become better in the relationship. Don't ever get involved with anyone's problems. They have them for a reason. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 941031Well i was about to write them a letter "asking why they're still together and not leaving each other if it's for the better"... But i should maybe stay out of it. It's just annoying hearing them fighting all the time and i don't wanna have my earplugs in all day either. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 941031 United States 05/11/2010 12:41 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Can you move to another apartment? BTW, the only way to ever get involved is if you think they are really going to kill each other. Then you stay put and call the police anonymously. Even police hate these calls because the couple can turn on the police. These people can get like rabid animals. But just keep your distance. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 927572 United States 05/11/2010 12:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Better than living below someone who never leaves his place and listens to your every move. It's bizarre. I was home for a few days after I first moved into the condo, and I was moving stuff around and sweating a lot, so every couple hours I'd run the faucet to get a drink of water or clean something. After maybe the 10th time, I heard my upstairs neighbor scream "I'M BORED, I THINK I'LL GET A GLASS OF WATER!!". Also, about a week later, I was up until 1AM, on the computer and studying, and the next day I overheard him talking to another neighbor telling them that I never sleep and that I don't have a job. Since then, the other neighbor in the complex has started walking her dog past my window everyday and looking in. The neighbor above me never leaves, his car is always in the parking lot, yet he talks shit about me to the other neighbors, and tells them that I don't have a job (which I do). I immediately put it up for sale after that. It was way too weird. I'm taking a $28k loss on the sale of condo, but I don't care at this point. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 959187 United States 05/11/2010 12:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You never really know somebody until you fight them. Besides a big fight creates awesome make up sex! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 673477The thing is they don't ever have sex. Well i don't think i should adjust my lifestyle or even move because of them. I work mostly from home and i don't wanna pay for an external office. So i must hear their bullshit so often and wonder why they don't just break up. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 673477 United States 05/11/2010 12:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You never really know somebody until you fight them. Besides a big fight creates awesome make up sex! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 959187The thing is they don't ever have sex. Well i don't think i should adjust my lifestyle or even move because of them. I work mostly from home and i don't wanna pay for an external office. So i must hear their bullshit so often and wonder why they don't just break up. I understand your dilemna...but take into account that hell to one person is heaven to another... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 955500 United States 05/11/2010 12:56 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Better than living below someone who never leaves his place and listens to your every move. It's bizarre. I was home for a few days after I first moved into the condo, and I was moving stuff around and sweating a lot, so every couple hours I'd run the faucet to get a drink of water or clean something. After maybe the 10th time, I heard my upstairs neighbor scream "I'M BORED, I THINK I'LL GET A GLASS OF WATER!!". Also, about a week later, I was up until 1AM, on the computer and studying, and the next day I overheard him talking to another neighbor telling them that I never sleep and that I don't have a job. Since then, the other neighbor in the complex has started walking her dog past my window everyday and looking in. The neighbor above me never leaves, his car is always in the parking lot, yet he talks shit about me to the other neighbors, and tells them that I don't have a job (which I do). I immediately put it up for sale after that. It was way too weird. I'm taking a $28k loss on the sale of condo, but I don't care at this point. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 927572What a violation of individual sovereignty and alarming lack of privacy is this!? I have the same occurrence! After I was forced to return an apartment complex, I made it absolutely clear to management that I am a private researcher and will not have my privacy violated by anyone. I concern myself with my own affairs and expect those around me to do the same. When I arrive home, I do not run up the stairs or slam my door, I close the door gently. It is curious to observe my next door neighbors do the same. Confirming they were observing my behavioral patterns. The only dispute I have is with the those below me - they spy and engage in covert/stealth like information gathering. Eavesdropping, synchronizing the times of departure and return, etc. Being that I have Asperger's syndrome and high functioning intellect, these subtleties I recognize immediately. It is sickening, I may involve the police if it escalates. Another consequence of living in a city. I miss my house! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 941031 United States 05/11/2010 12:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You never really know somebody until you fight them. Besides a big fight creates awesome make up sex! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 959187The thing is they don't ever have sex. Well i don't think i should adjust my lifestyle or even move because of them. I work mostly from home and i don't wanna pay for an external office. So i must hear their bullshit so often and wonder why they don't just break up. Well, people have to adjust their lives all the time because of other people. People move houses and jobs because of others. If you can't find a way to tolerate them then it is you who must deal with it since there is nothing you can do to them. That is a fact. No fun but it is what it is. And maybe they don't have enough money to break up. That is very true in this economy. But the real fact is they are getting something from this fighting. Many people are mentally and emotionally damaged and get into relationships with the same types of people. Don't try to understand it because it really isn't worth it and is a waste of time. Since you have an apartment make plans to move when your lease is up and hopefully you will get better neighbors. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 941031 United States 05/11/2010 01:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Better than living below someone who never leaves his place and listens to your every move. It's bizarre. I was home for a few days after I first moved into the condo, and I was moving stuff around and sweating a lot, so every couple hours I'd run the faucet to get a drink of water or clean something. After maybe the 10th time, I heard my upstairs neighbor scream "I'M BORED, I THINK I'LL GET A GLASS OF WATER!!". Also, about a week later, I was up until 1AM, on the computer and studying, and the next day I overheard him talking to another neighbor telling them that I never sleep and that I don't have a job. Since then, the other neighbor in the complex has started walking her dog past my window everyday and looking in. The neighbor above me never leaves, his car is always in the parking lot, yet he talks shit about me to the other neighbors, and tells them that I don't have a job (which I do). I immediately put it up for sale after that. It was way too weird. I'm taking a $28k loss on the sale of condo, but I don't care at this point. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 927572If I was in this situation with neighbors(who are not a threat or hostile) I would have gone outside and had a chat with them. Confronted the busy bodies with what they think they know and set them straight. This usually takes care of the gossiping and shames them. Sometimes they can even end up being friendly. If they got worse then I would think about moving. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 955500 United States 05/11/2010 01:03 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You never really know somebody until you fight them. Besides a big fight creates awesome make up sex! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 941031The thing is they don't ever have sex. Well i don't think i should adjust my lifestyle or even move because of them. I work mostly from home and i don't wanna pay for an external office. So i must hear their bullshit so often and wonder why they don't just break up. Well, people have to adjust their lives all the time because of other people. People move houses and jobs because of others. If you can't find a way to tolerate them then it is you who must deal with it since there is nothing you can do to them. That is a fact. No fun but it is what it is. And maybe they don't have enough money to break up. That is very true in this economy. But the real fact is they are getting something from this fighting. Many people are mentally and emotionally damaged and get into relationships with the same types of people. Don't try to understand it because it really isn't worth it and is a waste of time. Since you have an apartment make plans to move when your lease is up and hopefully you will get better neighbors. The general public are intellectually impoverished, emotionally dimmed, spiritually absent, mind-controlled, and KGB brainwashed. That is an APT description. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 941031 United States 05/11/2010 01:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You never really know somebody until you fight them. Besides a big fight creates awesome make up sex! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 955500The thing is they don't ever have sex. Well i don't think i should adjust my lifestyle or even move because of them. I work mostly from home and i don't wanna pay for an external office. So i must hear their bullshit so often and wonder why they don't just break up. Well, people have to adjust their lives all the time because of other people. People move houses and jobs because of others. If you can't find a way to tolerate them then it is you who must deal with it since there is nothing you can do to them. That is a fact. No fun but it is what it is. And maybe they don't have enough money to break up. That is very true in this economy. But the real fact is they are getting something from this fighting. Many people are mentally and emotionally damaged and get into relationships with the same types of people. Don't try to understand it because it really isn't worth it and is a waste of time. Since you have an apartment make plans to move when your lease is up and hopefully you will get better neighbors. The general public are intellectually impoverished, emotionally dimmed, spiritually absent, mind-controlled, and KGB brainwashed. That is an APT description. What is APT? Anyway, they got the description right and many of my neighbors are like this but we have space between each other. Always drama going on though. |
Hillcrest User ID: 392015 United States 05/11/2010 01:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | sexual tension Quoting: Anonymous Coward 673477someone wants it more than the other one does Familiar with this are you? Now tell me why is it that you didn't want it as much as he did? If it was you that wanted it more often...are ya single? Water always wins. :sun: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 955500 United States 05/11/2010 01:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You never really know somebody until you fight them. Besides a big fight creates awesome make up sex! Quoting: Anonymous Coward 941031The thing is they don't ever have sex. Well i don't think i should adjust my lifestyle or even move because of them. I work mostly from home and i don't wanna pay for an external office. So i must hear their bullshit so often and wonder why they don't just break up. Well, people have to adjust their lives all the time because of other people. People move houses and jobs because of others. If you can't find a way to tolerate them then it is you who must deal with it since there is nothing you can do to them. That is a fact. No fun but it is what it is. And maybe they don't have enough money to break up. That is very true in this economy. But the real fact is they are getting something from this fighting. Many people are mentally and emotionally damaged and get into relationships with the same types of people. Don't try to understand it because it really isn't worth it and is a waste of time. Since you have an apartment make plans to move when your lease is up and hopefully you will get better neighbors. The general public are intellectually impoverished, emotionally dimmed, spiritually absent, mind-controlled, and KGB brainwashed. That is an APT description. What is APT? Anyway, they got the description right and many of my neighbors are like this but we have space between each other. Always drama going on though. They? I wrote that description, did you not understand what I wrote? APT - –adjective 1. inclined; disposed; given; prone: too apt to slander others. 2. likely: Am I apt to find him at home? 3. unusually intelligent; able to learn quickly and easily: an apt pupil. 4. suited to the purpose or occasion; appropriate: an apt metaphor; a few apt remarks on world peace. 5. Archaic . prepared; ready; willing. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 903601 United States 05/11/2010 01:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's unbelievable. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 959187Since like 1-2 years my neighbors in the apartment next to me are fighting like all the time. I can hear them scream at each other like every second day if not every day. I really don't understand why they're still together. What's the point? It's constant hate they're throwing against each other. Do they rather fear of leaving each other than fighting all the time? You know, you can call your manager and complain and they will investigate and if founded, they will ask them to vacate. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 955500 United States 05/11/2010 01:15 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | there is a neighbors from hell website that is actually a comic relief-look it up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 914473it's horrible the lack of courtesy, manners, consideration for others so many display. anyway, i visited that site and laughed 'till i cried the humanity! Where is this website? Please share. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 903601 United States 05/11/2010 01:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | there is a neighbors from hell website that is actually a comic relief-look it up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 955500it's horrible the lack of courtesy, manners, consideration for others so many display. anyway, i visited that site and laughed 'till i cried the humanity! Where is this website? Please share. [link to www.theneighborsfromhell.com] |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 955500 United States 05/11/2010 01:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My old neighbors did that too. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 877784Once they were yell at each other outside and I yell back "HEY THANKS FOR REMINDING ME WHY I AM SINGLE STFU" That was humorous - although I would have never restored to sophomoric sarcasm, a stoic stare from my asperger face and militaristic countenance would keep them at bay. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 955500 United States 05/11/2010 01:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | there is a neighbors from hell website that is actually a comic relief-look it up. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 903601it's horrible the lack of courtesy, manners, consideration for others so many display. anyway, i visited that site and laughed 'till i cried the humanity! Where is this website? Please share. [link to www.theneighborsfromhell.com] I gave the website a quick examination and this.....this is disconcerting. I added the behavioral patterns observed by others to my mind to discern if this is indeed in play in my circumstances here. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 250359 Canada 05/11/2010 01:24 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Better than living below someone who never leaves his place and listens to your every move. It's bizarre. I was home for a few days after I first moved into the condo, and I was moving stuff around and sweating a lot, so every couple hours I'd run the faucet to get a drink of water or clean something. After maybe the 10th time, I heard my upstairs neighbor scream "I'M BORED, I THINK I'LL GET A GLASS OF WATER!!". Also, about a week later, I was up until 1AM, on the computer and studying, and the next day I overheard him talking to another neighbor telling them that I never sleep and that I don't have a job. Since then, the other neighbor in the complex has started walking her dog past my window everyday and looking in. The neighbor above me never leaves, his car is always in the parking lot, yet he talks shit about me to the other neighbors, and tells them that I don't have a job (which I do). I immediately put it up for sale after that. It was way too weird. I'm taking a $28k loss on the sale of condo, but I don't care at this point. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 955500What a violation of individual sovereignty and alarming lack of privacy is this!? I have the same occurrence! After I was forced to return an apartment complex, I made it absolutely clear to management that I am a private researcher and will not have my privacy violated by anyone. I concern myself with my own affairs and expect those around me to do the same. When I arrive home, I do not run up the stairs or slam my door, I close the door gently. It is curious to observe my next door neighbors do the same. Confirming they were observing my behavioral patterns. The only dispute I have is with the those below me - they spy and engage in covert/stealth like information gathering. Eavesdropping, synchronizing the times of departure and return, etc. Being that I have Asperger's syndrome and high functioning intellect, these subtleties I recognize immediately. It is sickening, I may involve the police if it escalates. Another consequence of living in a city. I miss my house! living that right now,, it's coordinated and typical of provacateurs trying to elicit a response... even if i sniffle or make a mere shuffle of a chair, somebody upstairs is bound to respond with like sound, or if i run the tap for a sec or two,, the same,,,, CONDOS SUCK and i am sure they go in and out whenever you're not there,, they've made LAME excuses to barge in late at night due to phony leaks, yet neglected to simply listen to my spot on explanation of a REAL leak caused by their manufacturing deficiencies... phony window problems as pretext for building-wide scrutiny, monthly fire tests for building-wide scrutiny, i'm talking about the fancy schmancy surveilled ones with elec door sensors, cams, intercom sys ++plus it's even worse when you get mixed owners vs renters,,, y even bother i ask myself,, it's disgusting how many freaks and weirdos even act freakishly in elevators,, they always face my profile whereas i'm the type to leave be, so let me me as well,,, nvr encouraging eye contact from strangers as a matter of courtesy, not antisocial tendencies which i have none,, but these operators, they gawk, stare, scrutinise, follow, suddenly bang walls and/ or drop boulders onto my concrete ceiling,,, sickening i'm convinced it's a hub-building for various agencies to train really shitty nub operatives |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 941031 United States 05/11/2010 01:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's unbelievable. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 903601Since like 1-2 years my neighbors in the apartment next to me are fighting like all the time. I can hear them scream at each other like every second day if not every day. I really don't understand why they're still together. What's the point? It's constant hate they're throwing against each other. Do they rather fear of leaving each other than fighting all the time? You know, you can call your manager and complain and they will investigate and if founded, they will ask them to vacate. If you can trust the management to not let the neighbors know who complained then do it. But if the neighbors start questioning or ask you point blank be prepared to answer. They could then put their troubles aside to form a front to somehow get you. These types of people are crazy but can be very smart and conniving and it is you who will somehow get the blame. Time and time again I have seen this. I would run away if possible. |
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