HOW TO HAVE REALLY A WONDERFULL SEX-LIFE AND BE HAPPY WITH YOUR PARTNER, YOUR LOVE FOREVER.............:)

This was my post in a thread where it was the question if a man has to "deserve"
sex from his wife........:)


I think I post this answer here for you................


"Dearest OP

I think it is really sad what they made out of sex. A not really soul-full-thing.

But I can tell you if you get to know the really whole story about sex, it will

bring you into knowledge and feelings, that you would never have expected

ever. What is it??? Tantra! Do not think of just origin far eastern-way of tantra.

There exists books now, and yes if one want also teaching lessons, about

tantra to be practicised from people in our western-countrys. And I can just

say this. This is a great thing, A wonderfull thing, it is inspiring, heartfull, full

of Love, there are a 1000 possibilitys to make Love together then, and I tell

You that a couple practicing tantra-sex, which is just that you have to learn

some more things about sex, then you already knew before, like this a couple

will not be finished in 100 years to have a great time in bed together. It is

absolutely amazing and fantastic. There exists even books, where couple

restarted their sex-life, after there happened nothing anymore for years, and

they started with the things that they learned. Also specially, to get to know

each other even better inside and outside, there will be things coming to you

You would be so surprised. And then this couple started with having sex even

every day, just to practice again, and like this they started. And they even

say that a couple should have sex with each-other like eating and drinking

it makes the body and the soul and the mind happy. It has to be shared

together though, as trust is very important. So do get books from the shop,

I found them in a good positiv esoteric-shop. They have as I said for

more western-countrys. Some with pictures just in natural beautifull style,

some just written. Some are specific about the womens-body. I do

recommand to read several of theme, as in each one you'll find even more

informations. And yes the G-point exists. And also the G-point for the men.

And how it is possible to even more intensivy the orgasme for women and

men. Tantra like this can be practice also if you are not a fan of far-eastern-

traditions. It is like this just so full of respect and Love, as it should be

actually!!! Your marriage will be and stay happy like this. I do recommand

it really to all.


And second, even you are married and live together, and maybe even

have children together, it is very very important that man and woman

do go out together alone as a couple. I would recommand 1xper month

or if not possible 1xin 2 months to go really out for the weekend and

spend the night in the hotel or in another romantic beautifull plac (can

also be on the camp-ground, or in the castle or wherever nice), do go

away from the daily-business as often as you can. You will always get to

know more interesting things about each-other. And do take your wife

out to do nice things in the evening from time to time. Do give her the

feeling that she is special. Like this she will be waiting to have sex with

you when you come home in the evening. Do still date each-other.

I do not like Heidi Klum too much, I just read about this couple, she and

her husband Seal, that they also meet for sex during the week, like

sex-appointments, this even they have 4 children. And the thing is

they said, that even they have kids, the couple comes first in their eyes,

so, when the husband returns from work in the evening he kisses and

hugs first the wife and then the couple come and are important. But the

Husband-wife, the Love-couple-relationship has to come first. So the

kids then will profit from a happy mother and a happy father for long

and I wish for you and all reading this - for always.


So I let You all with this, do really get informations about Tantra, it is

the most wonderfull thing. Sex with more knowledge combined with

the great heart and Love and respect!!!



With lot's of good and great Wishes to You and that You may stay happily

married with your lovely wife for the next 100 years and enjoy LOVE....."







PS: There is a thread out about tantra from the last 2 months. Tantra can
be practiced as a highly uplifting spiritual thing. But does not have to be
this, the western tantra part is just for the good ordenary normal
person too. And it is GREAT!!! :)




and here is the link to the Tantra-thread for more informations........


Thread: SHALL I DARE TO WRITE HERE ABOUT TANTRA...........YES I DO !!!!



WITH LOT'S OF LOVE AND ALL GOOD WISHES TO YOU ALL!!!