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Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?

 
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Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.
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08/24/2012 01:59 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
Break up.

That's all I can say.
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08/24/2012 02:00 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
Oh

My

God.

Dump his ass and move on. That's creepy and inappropriate.
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08/24/2012 02:01 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
meanwhile I'm single...you people get exactly what you deserve, that's all I'll say....even me.
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08/24/2012 02:01 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
As a 26 year old Irish Native American dude from Boston.

Fuck no, what is he a pervert or power hungry?.. or both?
Anonymous Coward
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08/24/2012 02:04 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
Break up.

That's all I can say.
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Oh

My

God.

Dump his ass and move on. That's creepy and inappropriate.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 6383062





Your question has been answered, OP. You need to dump this loser. Quick.
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08/24/2012 02:09 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
do you need to post this BS on GLP?
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08/24/2012 02:12 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
This is what I would call investing into the future.
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08/24/2012 02:12 PM
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Under 18?

Report that Mofo
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08/24/2012 02:12 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
do you need to post this BS on GLP?
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Some people have no where else to turn brother.

Calm down. It will be nothing by tomorrow.
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08/24/2012 02:14 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
Make him close his FB account. It is the acct OR u?


Let him choose.
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08/24/2012 02:16 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.
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If he insist on not closing the account, run to the hills, because obviously he has other "things" on his mind.
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19520489




If he insist on not closing the account, run to the hills, because obviously he has other "things" on his mind.
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08/24/2012 02:17 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
I think you're upset about the wrong things OP. Teen porn is likely 18 and 19 year olds. That really has nothing to do with this. That being said it really makes a difference if they are older teenagers like 17 18 19 or younger ones that he is adding on facebook. You hinted that they were younger but as a typical woman you beat around the bush and never just say it.

I'm going to assume they were younger and in that case its very unprofessional of him to do this. It makes people suspicious regardless of if anything is happening and should be avoided.

Its not pedophilia or anything unless he's attracted to them pre-puberty. If they are developed then it is normal for a man to be attracted to them.

But you asked him about it and he got defensive. That should tell you somethings up regardless of their age and thats what you should be mad about. Just my two cents.
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08/24/2012 02:18 PM
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You are teh ghey.
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08/24/2012 02:22 PM
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Someone who truly cares about you would not talk to you in such a way. Your just a crutch for him that he takes for granted. You got your wake up call and should thank him and move on. Any stress from this point forward is your own fault, learn to respect yourself before getting into another relationship, there is no reason for you to take such abuse.
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08/24/2012 02:23 PM

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I'm guessing you are a troll. Any rational person wouldn't have to ask what to do.
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08/24/2012 02:25 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
I cannot believe you put this on this forum.. We are done. get your shit out of my place and never come back... Stop being such a psycho and stop stalking every move i make.. Goddamn its just facebook..
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08/24/2012 02:26 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19520489


Leave the looser and never date another person how has a face book account
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08/24/2012 02:28 PM
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Odds are if someone tells you to fuck off and not talk to him in any circumstance they are done with the relationship. Move on.
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08/24/2012 02:30 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
This is what porn does to men.

I'd leave the chump - you don't need a boy.

I'm 26, and I wouldn't want to talk to someone under 23, they all seem so stupid.
...Mind you, some people who are 32 + are pretty stupid.

But at the end of the day, I wouldn't want someone who wasn't on my level.
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08/24/2012 02:34 PM
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Tell him to haul ass already!
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08/24/2012 02:35 PM
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If you have to ask you're in serios trouble. Why would y0u put up with his BS? He DOESN'T make you feel like anything. You choose to let yourself be bullshitted by him and buy onto his garbage. Find some damn boundaries! He's a bully and you let him. Dump his sorry ass.

It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19520489
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
It's been a ongoing problem, for me. I cannot stand to see him scrolling through facebook on a daily basis and have half of his posts be from teenage girls. Mind you... swimsuit pics, pics with their friends, self photos, all dolled up in makeup (trying to get boyfriends their age I would presume). It makes me sick to know this is the majority of information he takes in especially knowing he enjoys teen porn.

He works in a facility attended by children. The age range of kids he works with is under the age of 12, and male. But, occasionally these teenage girls who also attend will add him, and he accepts.

I asked him to delete a certain person today and he said "fuck off, leave and don't talk to me" then sent a text to my phone and said don't talk to me for the rest of the day. After I spent 2 hours cleaning and making lunch for him in time to get home from work.

Am I way out of line? Because the way he makes me feel like a piece of shit for asking him to clean up his friends list has gotten too old. Also something to take into consideration, I deleted my facebook over 2 years ago.

I am sick and tired of this. FUck.

I know this is not a relationship forum, but I hope we can all agree here that facebook is nothing but trouble and unnecessary drama.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 19520489


Leave the looser and never date another person how has a face book account
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 10705336


Anybody here male single, straight, 21-30? who doesn't have a facebook bahaha :P
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08/24/2012 02:37 PM
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08/24/2012 02:37 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
As a 26 year old Irish Native American dude from Boston.

Fuck no, what is he a pervert or power hungry?.. or both?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18861101


Power hungry yes, pervert I believe not. But you never know, I guess. He doesn't communicate with these people, that is why am I am confused as to why he wont delete them.
Anonymous Coward (OP)
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08/24/2012 02:38 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
do you need to post this BS on GLP?
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Reddit did not give me the assurance I needed. So yeah.
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08/24/2012 02:39 PM
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
do you need to post this BS on GLP?
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Some people have no where else to turn brother.

Calm down. It will be nothing by tomorrow.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 18861101


Thank you <3
Sarah Langley

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08/24/2012 02:41 PM
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Why aren't you already gone?

By the way, he's probably having sex with at least one of them.
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Re: Does my 30 year old boyfriend need to be friends with girls under the age of 18 on facebook?
Someone who truly cares about you would not talk to you in such a way. Your just a crutch for him that he takes for granted. You got your wake up call and should thank him and move on. Any stress from this point forward is your own fault, learn to respect yourself before getting into another relationship, there is no reason for you to take such abuse.
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This is some reassuring advice. Thank you. I probably do need to think about myself more instead of worrying about him.
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You need to stop stalking and move the fuck out..





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