Another Facebook Suicide Girl (15 YO) at Subway in Staten Island | |
Philligan (OP) in rainbows User ID: 2530194 United States 10/26/2012 08:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Felicia Garcia Suicide jumped to death in front of train after football players bragged about sexual conquests, say police The teen, who on Monday: 'I cant. im done. I give up.' The same day she posted photographs of herself on Instagram where she appears beaten and bruised, with her lips seemingly cut or sewn together. She added the hashtag 'beatup.' Pray for Us Sinners Now and at the Hour of our Death |
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BZB User ID: 1331320 United States 10/26/2012 09:04 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is not fucking bullying. I am tired of the bullshit ultra lib asses who are trying to redefine shit. This is rumors and reputation. Had she kept her shit in her pants she would still be here today. Most of these socalled bullying suicide victims are what gender? FEMALE. SHouldnt that tell you something?!?! And most of them have been socalled bullied, by rumors! Reputation aint bullying! I am so fucking pissed as I am a one time genuine bullied victim. This fucking crap cheapens what i went through! Last Edited by BZB on 10/26/2012 09:07 AM |
BZB User ID: 1331320 United States 10/26/2012 09:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Felicia Garcia Suicide jumped to death in front of train after football players bragged about sexual conquests, say police Quoting: Philligan The teen, who on Monday: 'I cant. im done. I give up.' The same day she posted photographs of herself on Instagram where she appears beaten and bruised, with her lips seemingly cut or sewn together. She added the hashtag 'beatup.' Last Edited by BZB on 10/26/2012 09:06 AM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 7061022 United States 10/26/2012 09:08 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is not fucking bullying. I am tired of the bullshit ultra lib asses who are trying to redefine shit. This is rumors and reputation. Had she kept her shit in her pants she would still be here today. Most of these socalled bullying suicide victims are what gender? FEMALE. SHouldnt that tell you something?!?! Quoting: BZB And most of them have been socalled bullied, by rumors! Reputation aint bullying! I am so fucking pissed as a one time genuine bullied victim. This fucking crap cheapens what i went through! Probably responses like yours pushed her over the edge. The girl was obviously looking for sympathy but people like you just make it worse. I have been around people like you, and yes what you say does hurt, very much. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 21427537 United States 10/26/2012 09:17 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Felicia Garcia, 15, a Staten Island teenager fell to her death by falling backwards at a train station on Wednesday. The crying teenager put down her book bag before committing suicide due, to bullying and rumors, at the Huguenot Staten Island Railway station platform in Huguenot, Staten Island, New York. Quoting: Philligan No matter the cause death is a terrible thing! She was just a child with her whole life ahead of her...why cant people learn to be encouraging and supporting of each other instead of judging, being mean and ridiculing others. We need to teach kids all throughout school that this behavior is not ok! |
BZB User ID: 1331320 United States 10/26/2012 09:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | are you on drugs or something?! DO you know what it feels to come to school looking forward to getting your head smashed in and lunch money taken nearly every day for 4 yrs?!?! Do you know what kind of undeserving torment is that?!?! It is people like YOU who cheapens what I went though by comparing a deserving reputation to an underserving physical assault! YOU GET THE ROYAL FUCK YOU! This is not fucking bullying. I am tired of the bullshit ultra lib asses who are trying to redefine shit. This is rumors and reputation. Had she kept her shit in her pants she would still be here today. Most of these socalled bullying suicide victims are what gender? FEMALE. SHouldnt that tell you something?!?! Quoting: BZB And most of them have been socalled bullied, by rumors! Reputation aint bullying! I am so fucking pissed as a one time genuine bullied victim. This fucking crap cheapens what i went through! Probably responses like yours pushed her over the edge. The girl was obviously looking for sympathy but people like you just make it worse. I have been around people like you, and yes what you say does hurt, very much. Last Edited by BZB on 10/26/2012 09:19 AM |
BZB User ID: 1331320 United States 10/26/2012 09:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Felicia Garcia, 15, a Staten Island teenager fell to her death by falling backwards at a train station on Wednesday. The crying teenager put down her book bag before committing suicide due, to bullying and rumors, at the Huguenot Staten Island Railway station platform in Huguenot, Staten Island, New York. Quoting: Philligan No matter the cause death is a terrible thing! She was just a child with her whole life ahead of her...why cant people learn to be encouraging and supporting of each other instead of judging, being mean and ridiculing others. We need to teach kids all throughout school that this behavior is not ok! Yes it is terrible that she ended her life. but it is equally tragic to try and hide her psychological issues behind the false pretense of bullying. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 6798869 Australia 10/26/2012 09:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Felicia Garcia, 15, a Staten Island teenager fell to her death by falling backwards at a train station on Wednesday. The crying teenager put down her book bag before committing suicide due, to bullying and rumors, at the Huguenot Staten Island Railway station platform in Huguenot, Staten Island, New York. Quoting: Philligan why cant people learn to be encouraging and supporting of each other instead of judging, being mean and ridiculing others Blame the system.. |
BZB User ID: 1331320 United States 10/26/2012 09:27 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | fuck that! she was called out for being a whore. Instead of dealing with the issue she chose the punk way. Keep it fucking real! Plus, you are on a fucking website which prides itself on denegrading and ridiculing Blacks. Where was your fucking protest, hypocrite! Last Edited by BZB on 10/26/2012 09:27 AM |
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BZB User ID: 1331320 United States 10/26/2012 09:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | GEEZ! The whole "your entire life is online" just amplifies everything these days Quoting: Philligan Its bad enough to get bullied at school, now its on the damn internet for EVERYONE to see Last Edited by BZB on 10/26/2012 09:28 AM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26281445 Canada 10/26/2012 11:33 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is not fucking bullying. I am tired of the bullshit ultra lib asses who are trying to redefine shit. This is rumors and reputation. Had she kept her shit in her pants she would still be here today. Most of these socalled bullying suicide victims are what gender? FEMALE. SHouldnt that tell you something?!?! Quoting: BZB And most of them have been socalled bullied, by rumors! Reputation aint bullying! I am so fucking pissed as I am a one time genuine bullied victim. This fucking crap cheapens what i went through! Wow I'm genuinely sorry for what you went through in high school. Your obviously still very angry about it and you totally have reason to be. My hope for you is that you will somehow be able to put it in it's place for your own piece of mind. Being angry/scared is exhausting. On that note, the extent that this girl was driven to that would prompt her to take her own life was without a doubt, her own kind of hell. She was a real person that by the sounds of it, was someone that you would have probably liked if you had had a chance to know her. Whether or not she had made some mistakes, which incidentally, I didn't glean from this report, she has DIED because of the torment inflicted upon her by other people. I agree, it isn't "bullying" just as what happened to you wasn't bullying so much as a prolonged and repeated physical and psychological assault. Unlike you, she didn't make it. But I'm sure you understand the impulse that drove her to do what she did. For that she deserves your empathy, not your scorn. The way I see it you can let your anger dictate the rest of your life or you can somehow as I suggested, put it in it's place and find a way to work through it. You can't change what happened or how it has impacted your life, you can only change what you do with it from here on out. Time is short my friend. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 16213681 United States 10/26/2012 12:14 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is not fucking bullying. I am tired of the bullshit ultra lib asses who are trying to redefine shit. This is rumors and reputation. Had she kept her shit in her pants she would still be here today. Most of these socalled bullying suicide victims are what gender? FEMALE. SHouldnt that tell you something?!?! Quoting: BZB And most of them have been socalled bullied, by rumors! Reputation aint bullying! I am so fucking pissed as I am a one time genuine bullied victim. This fucking crap cheapens what i went through! Wow I'm genuinely sorry for what you went through in high school. Your obviously still very angry about it and you totally have reason to be. My hope for you is that you will somehow be able to put it in it's place for your own piece of mind. Being angry/scared is exhausting. On that note, the extent that this girl was driven to that would prompt her to take her own life was without a doubt, her own kind of hell. She was a real person that by the sounds of it, was someone that you would have probably liked if you had had a chance to know her. Whether or not she had made some mistakes, which incidentally, I didn't glean from this report, she has DIED because of the torment inflicted upon her by other people. I agree, it isn't "bullying" just as what happened to you wasn't bullying so much as a prolonged and repeated physical and psychological assault. Unlike you, she didn't make it. But I'm sure you understand the impulse that drove her to do what she did. For that she deserves your empathy, not your scorn. The way I see it you can let your anger dictate the rest of your life or you can somehow as I suggested, put it in it's place and find a way to work through it. You can't change what happened or how it has impacted your life, you can only change what you do with it from here on out. Time is short my friend. ^^^^THIS is how to survive with your mind and heart as one. Apparently this girl is in foster care because both of her parents have died. And 15 is an age of shakey unformed identity. Kids are cruel to one another. I was bullied, my son was bullied, who wasn't bullied. No protection. But now 'social' networks are used to hound kids and publicly humiliate and demoralize them at a point in their lives when social acceptance is everything. Walking a mile in someone else's moccasins can change unkind judgement into empathy instantly if you could experience their pain directly and understood the facts. I have made it a point to use my own experiences, however painful to prevent harm happening to others, to express love through protecting others. Use your suffering to spare others through non-judgemental sharing. |
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Pharista User ID: 25924230 10/26/2012 12:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This poor girl had already endured the loss of her parents at such a young age, she was vulnerable. Kids can be so cruel and they need so much guidance as well as strong modelling of healthy behaviours. They need to be taught how to set personal boundaries with those trying to stomp over them. For this they need a safety net and that is where we are failing them, parents, carers, educators, social workers, counsellors - we all need to educate ourselves, deepen our own compassion and empathy and start supporting and guiding these children. Here is a man who really walks his talk and he doesn't have any arms or legs! It has become the subject matter of fiction writing too - this book is a best seller and some say it should be mandatory reading for all high school students:- [link to www.thirteenreasonswhy.com] Last Edited by Pharista on 10/26/2012 01:07 PM 100 personality disordered behaviours [link to www.outofthefog.net] Taking back self control from disordered energy thieves [link to www.outofthefog.net] How to spot a psychopath [link to aftermath-surviving-psychopathy.org] A brief introduction to 'The Shadow' [link to home.earthlink.net] Hunting for Power, Toltec Wisdom for Spiritual Warriors [link to 209.85.122.83] Message from the Kogi [link to www.alunathemovie.com] Thread: Spiritual Preparedness - simple practices and meditations to increase self-awareness Thread: The Wetiko Disease - a psychological parasite Thread: Breaking the chains of the past - facing & healing toxic conditioning & false belief systems Support for parents of bullied children - [link to epicinschools.spam] ~ "You never change things by fighting the existing reality. To change something, build a new model that makes the existing obsolete." ~ Buckminster Fuller |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 24643310 Czechia 10/26/2012 01:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It's cause your culture is drenched with ma-schism and hierarchical behavior. Your highschool cultures are rotten with kids being judged on their parents income, by the way they dress (cause of that income) and how good they are at sports. Nobody in Europe gives a crap about sports in relationship to school (afaik) so there's not some weird jock culture. Most Hollywood movies glamorize the "cool kids" and in many case extremely rude or violent behavior is justified in those movies. Of course there are a lot of movies trying to counter those movies but it's not influencing kids cause they prefer to see "cool things".. a little bullying is than accepted. This culture is slowly infiltrating Europe as well but hasn't reached the East that much. When I talk to people my age here (I'm not from Czech) they didn't have fights in school or did they have any class difference because Mikey got the latest Nikes every quarter but Billy was wearing his cousins 5 year old adidas... I'm not saying I blame the US citizens per se but it would be interesting to see when this started in the US. |
*Evan* User ID: 21948600 United States 10/26/2012 01:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | This is not fucking bullying. I am tired of the bullshit ultra lib asses who are trying to redefine shit. This is rumors and reputation. Had she kept her shit in her pants she would still be here today. Most of these socalled bullying suicide victims are what gender? FEMALE. SHouldnt that tell you something?!?! Quoting: BZB And most of them have been socalled bullied, by rumors! Reputation aint bullying! I am so fucking pissed as I am a one time genuine bullied victim. This fucking crap cheapens what i went through! Wow, that's pretty aweful dude. Try this little thing we call empathy. You are really sounding like an @zzhole. I bet you wouldn't have the balls to say these things to her parents, or family members. |