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Is rejection or regret worst?

 
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Regret, worst feeling ever.
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Rejection.... from a parent. Being given up for adoption......pain so deep it is darkness. Abandonment
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50 No's and 1 Yes, mean yes!

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I regret that i couldn't reject more...



But i'm 42 , so there's still enough time.



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That double post worked on a page change!!
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Pretty cool yeah, therefore i do not regret my double post.

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12/02/2012 07:48 PM

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Rejection.... from a parent. Being given up for adoption......pain so deep it is darkness. Abandonment
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12/02/2012 07:51 PM
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Regret....least you got something to laugh about later with rejection :P
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12/02/2012 07:51 PM
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Regret! Far, far worse
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Regret
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12/02/2012 08:01 PM
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One always leads to another.

Funny how that works.
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12/02/2012 08:47 PM
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Re: Is rejection or regret worst?
So can regret ruin a might as well normal, dull life? Eats you up at night?
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One always leads to another.

Funny how that works.
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That's what it seems.

It's like things should just happen, but for others, effort is needed to be put into it.

So what's the right or wrong way to live?
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So can regret ruin a might as well normal, dull life? Eats you up at night?
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Yep. Exactly! Regret can consume you. And if this really is about a girl or a guy, then go for it. Like I said before, the answer is always no if you don't ask. :-)
"Don't look back, you're not going that way."

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12/02/2012 08:58 PM
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Re: Is rejection or regret worst?
REGRET.
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Re: Is rejection or regret worst?
One always leads to another.

Funny how that works.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28944490


That's what it seems.

It's like things should just happen, but for others, effort is needed to be put into it.

So what's the right or wrong way to live?
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With honesty. To thine own self be true.
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One always leads to another.

Funny how that works.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28944490


That's what it seems.

It's like things should just happen, but for others, effort is needed to be put into it.

So what's the right or wrong way to live?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


With honesty. To thine own self be true.
 Quoting: allisaTX


Never force yourself to love or want something or to stay because you believe you should for others. etc.

It sounds selfish, but it is the most loving you can be to those who cross your path in life.
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One always leads to another.

Funny how that works.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 28944490


That's what it seems.

It's like things should just happen, but for others, effort is needed to be put into it.

So what's the right or wrong way to live?
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


With honesty. To thine own self be true.
 Quoting: allisaTX


Never force yourself to love or want something or to stay because you believe you should for others. etc.

It sounds selfish, but it is the most loving you can be to those who cross your path in life.
 Quoting: allisaTX


And never hold tightly to what is rejecting you, you must get through the pain and let go and understand that that person had no choice but to reject for the sake of both of you. The rejector is in pain also but is a step ahead in understanding "to thine own self be true". Good luck and surround yourself with friends and never lose touch with a friend over the years by the way.
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Patchouli
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Dear LuciusErstwhile, (always wanted to say that) Patchouli, while certainly thought of as an aphrodisiac in hippie circles, is not really the topic. Did you read what the poster said?

BTW, Italy rocks.
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lol Thans for that!
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Re: Is rejection or regret worst?
Perhaps better to regret something that you have done, than to regret something that you haven't.
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Just wondering for those who have lived and learned.

What is worst to live with in the long run?
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regret is worse.. I'd rather feel hurt than guilty.
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Erection?
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So many seem to have regret. I am a situation where I am regretting not doing something, but there's really no possible way for me to have my feelings stated. The person I want to say something to is taken, not married, but in a relationship.

I won't say anything, since that is wrong. They are with the one they love.


I feel like I am in a prison.

I guess it's a regret, a pain, I must live with. I rather live right than do something wrong.
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Re: Is rejection or regret worst?
absolutely regret is worse. rejection is a clear "no." regret is an endless series of "what ifs."
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So many seem to have regret. I am a situation where I am regretting not doing something, but there's really no possible way for me to have my feelings stated. The person I want to say something to is taken, not married, but in a relationship.

I won't say anything, since that is wrong. They are with the one they love.


I feel like I am in a prison.

I guess it's a regret, a pain, I must live with. I rather live right than do something wrong.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


Saying something will only make matters worse.....Wait and see maybe, this person will not be in a relationship long :)
Don't wait around to long. Or maybe it was never meant to be, and that their could be someone else waiting for you.hugs
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So many seem to have regret. I am a situation where I am regretting not doing something, but there's really no possible way for me to have my feelings stated. The person I want to say something to is taken, not married, but in a relationship.

I won't say anything, since that is wrong. They are with the one they love.


I feel like I am in a prison.

I guess it's a regret, a pain, I must live with. I rather live right than do something wrong.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


Saying something will only make matters worse.....Wait and see maybe, this person will not be in a relationship long :)
Don't wait around to long. Or maybe it was never meant to be, and that their could be someone else waiting for you.hugs
 Quoting: Blue Skies


It's a very very bothersome place to be. I wish I didn't catch feelings.

I don't want to wait around, but all the other guys I've met don't hold a candle to him.
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So many seem to have regret. I am a situation where I am regretting not doing something, but there's really no possible way for me to have my feelings stated. The person I want to say something to is taken, not married, but in a relationship.

I won't say anything, since that is wrong. They are with the one they love.


I feel like I am in a prison.

I guess it's a regret, a pain, I must live with. I rather live right than do something wrong.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


Saying something will only make matters worse.....Wait and see maybe, this person will not be in a relationship long :)
Don't wait around to long. Or maybe it was never meant to be, and that their could be someone else waiting for you.hugs
 Quoting: Blue Skies


Also, thank you for your kindness.
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So many seem to have regret. I am a situation where I am regretting not doing something, but there's really no possible way for me to have my feelings stated. The person I want to say something to is taken, not married, but in a relationship.

I won't say anything, since that is wrong. They are with the one they love.


I feel like I am in a prison.

I guess it's a regret, a pain, I must live with. I rather live right than do something wrong.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


Saying something will only make matters worse.....Wait and see maybe, this person will not be in a relationship long :)
Don't wait around to long. Or maybe it was never meant to be, and that their could be someone else waiting for you.hugs
 Quoting: Blue Skies


Also, thank you for your kindness.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322

You are very welcome :)
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So many seem to have regret. I am a situation where I am regretting not doing something, but there's really no possible way for me to have my feelings stated. The person I want to say something to is taken, not married, but in a relationship.

I won't say anything, since that is wrong. They are with the one they love.


I feel like I am in a prison.

I guess it's a regret, a pain, I must live with. I rather live right than do something wrong.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


The regret my be terrible, but since the person is in a relationship, the best thing to do is wait. I would hate if if I were in a relationship and another woman did that. :-(

On the flip side, though, there may be no harm in saying to that person how you feel as long as you're clear that you have no expectations. Tell them that you respect their relationship, and you would never cross that line, but that you had to tell 'em how you feel...

Sometimes things are not as they seem, and sometimes they are exactly what they seem...

Good luck with whatever you decide.
"Don't look back, you're not going that way."

"As for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.”
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So many seem to have regret. I am a situation where I am regretting not doing something, but there's really no possible way for me to have my feelings stated. The person I want to say something to is taken, not married, but in a relationship.

I won't say anything, since that is wrong. They are with the one they love.


I feel like I am in a prison.

I guess it's a regret, a pain, I must live with. I rather live right than do something wrong.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


The regret my be terrible, but since the person is in a relationship, the best thing to do is wait. I would hate if if I were in a relationship and another woman did that. :-(

On the flip side, though, there may be no harm in saying to that person how you feel as long as you're clear that you have no expectations. Tell them that you respect their relationship, and you would never cross that line, but that you had to tell 'em how you feel...

Sometimes things are not as they seem, and sometimes they are exactly what they seem...

Good luck with whatever you decide.
 Quoting: StormeyGoddess


What do you say your feelings without hindering the fact they are in a relationship?

I feel like telling them is a bad idea, but it would help get it off my chest. I could let it be rejection, instead of this dreading regret...but how does one word it?

It seems sketchy....but regret is horrible.
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So many seem to have regret. I am a situation where I am regretting not doing something, but there's really no possible way for me to have my feelings stated. The person I want to say something to is taken, not married, but in a relationship.

I won't say anything, since that is wrong. They are with the one they love.


I feel like I am in a prison.

I guess it's a regret, a pain, I must live with. I rather live right than do something wrong.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


The regret my be terrible, but since the person is in a relationship, the best thing to do is wait. I would hate if if I were in a relationship and another woman did that. :-(

On the flip side, though, there may be no harm in saying to that person how you feel as long as you're clear that you have no expectations. Tell them that you respect their relationship, and you would never cross that line, but that you had to tell 'em how you feel...

Sometimes things are not as they seem, and sometimes they are exactly what they seem...

Good luck with whatever you decide.
 Quoting: StormeyGoddess


What do you say your feelings without hindering the fact they are in a relationship?

I feel like telling them is a bad idea, but it would help get it off my chest. I could let it be rejection, instead of this dreading regret...but how does one word it?

It seems sketchy....but regret is horrible.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


How you word it is up to you. Write it down first...How do you feel? Are you in love with him or is it infatuation?

Just say, hey, can I talk to you, and confess...but please, please, please acknowledge that he's in a relationship. He may not be as happy as you think he is. Or he may be happier than you think he is.

If he rejects you, you just say, that is a-okay, i just needed you to know.

I understand what you're going through, although, it was the opposite for me, kind of...long story, but I have closure, he has closure and it took 20 years to get it...Neither of us got the outcome we wanted, lol, but we put all of our cards on the table and it has been freeing, to us both...

To keep tormenting yourself with "what if's" is the same as poisoning yourself...Just get it out, and take what comes.

Best of luck...
"Don't look back, you're not going that way."

"As for me and my family, we will serve the Lord.”
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So many seem to have regret. I am a situation where I am regretting not doing something, but there's really no possible way for me to have my feelings stated. The person I want to say something to is taken, not married, but in a relationship.

I won't say anything, since that is wrong. They are with the one they love.


I feel like I am in a prison.

I guess it's a regret, a pain, I must live with. I rather live right than do something wrong.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


The regret my be terrible, but since the person is in a relationship, the best thing to do is wait. I would hate if if I were in a relationship and another woman did that. :-(

On the flip side, though, there may be no harm in saying to that person how you feel as long as you're clear that you have no expectations. Tell them that you respect their relationship, and you would never cross that line, but that you had to tell 'em how you feel...

Sometimes things are not as they seem, and sometimes they are exactly what they seem...

Good luck with whatever you decide.
 Quoting: StormeyGoddess


What do you say your feelings without hindering the fact they are in a relationship?

I feel like telling them is a bad idea, but it would help get it off my chest. I could let it be rejection, instead of this dreading regret...but how does one word it?

It seems sketchy....but regret is horrible.
 Quoting: Anonymous Coward 24512322


How you word it is up to you. Write it down first...How do you feel? Are you in love with him or is it infatuation?

Just say, hey, can I talk to you, and confess...but please, please, please acknowledge that he's in a relationship. He may not be as happy as you think he is. Or he may be happier than you think he is.

If he rejects you, you just say, that is a-okay, i just needed you to know.

I understand what you're going through, although, it was the opposite for me, kind of...long story, but I have closure, he has closure and it took 20 years to get it...Neither of us got the outcome we wanted, lol, but we put all of our cards on the table and it has been freeing, to us both...

To keep tormenting yourself with "what if's" is the same as poisoning yourself...Just get it out, and take what comes.

Best of luck...
 Quoting: StormeyGoddess


I have yet to see him alone where I can talk to him. I want to so badly just ask why he keeps looking at me, what is his deal. He's in a relationship, but acts so interested in me. It feels so wrong...and everyone outside the situation thinks he's a horrible person. But those closest think I never showed I liked him back.

I wish I was patient, but it's not fair to myself to wait for him. Or maybe it's just bad timing, or not meant to be.

I am in a world of what if. Or maybe it's best we stay away from each other. I have no idea. I never felt so attracted to someone, on multiply levels.

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