I need some help about this pregnancy scare

You have to take the morning after pill...the morning after. It is equivalent to taking 4 birth control pills at once to stop her from releasing an egg, and if she has it will keep the fertilized egg from implanting. But it has to be done within the first 72 hour after the sex. It wouldn't do her any good by now.

The other option actually causes your body to reject the implanted egg or fetus instead of just blocking the release of the egg or implantation so it can be more dangerous to your body-and it is considered an abortion (for those concerned for religious or moral purposes). There is also a difference in price; plan B is around $50 and the abortion pill is around $300. Condoms are around $1. And she could get on the pill if you think this lapse in judgement may happen again.

I think every young person has to go through the pregnancy scare thing. These feelings will stick with you (hopefully) for many years to come and will cause you to be more responsible (again, hopefully).

Just always think about how terrified and worried you are at this very moment the next time you consider not wearing a condom. 2 minutes of bliss isn't worth a month of worrying yourself sick.

Eggs can be released at anytime, its not an exact kind of process. It all depends on hormone fluctuations in her body. Plus I read an article about a hormone in men's saliva that can trigger a woman to release an egg at any time of the month. I'll look for a link..

Plan B is effective up to 5 days after the unfortunate timing. This is something I think both male and female should have on hand for those "just in case" moments. It's not hard to get, Planned Parenthood should be somewhere close by and I think it should be over the counter at all drug stores.

Maybe, maybe not. Everyone is different. I'm pregnant right now & Disney really have symptoms until 7 weeks.

Very, very highly unlikely. Her 31 day cycles first of all make it horribly unlikely. Second, even if she ovulated that early as a fluke, that would be a very hostile environment for sperm. So many conditions have to be right. Strange things do happen, but I believe e vast majority of stories you hear are just that,..stories made up so the person doesn't look stupid.

Ad she wouldn't likely have symptoms yet. Some people have incredibly early symptoms, but not most. And implantation spotting doesn't haopen for everyone.

what about the endometrium?

she's shedding that thing, the blastocyst can't implant

Dude, if she is knocked up, just do what your relatives do and send her over the fence to have an anchor baby. Think of all the free shit you will be able to get from uncle Sam!

yes i've read sperm can't and won't survive in blood, she kept bleeding all the remaining 3 days, very heavy flow, so i think it just pushed down the sperm


thanks

lol

talk about generalizing

Here's the article about the hormone in sperm that can trigger ovulation;

[link to www.psychologytoday.com]

thanks good article

it's talking about llamas though, doesn't say about humans.

well i'll have to wait then

thank you all for your great inputs

Exactly. And you're welcome.
I know more about this subject than I care to. It actually averages 6 months for a healthy couple with perfect timing to become pregnant. If more people knew how perfect the conditions needed to be they would realize what a miracle every child is. I don't say that as an excuse for people to be careless (I don't even believe people should be having pre-marital sex anyway!), but just as a scientific fact. It sounds like you will stand up and take responsibility no matter the outcome, which I commend. Now think twice next time. ;)

Like Maury says, You are the father !!!!

yes i know i was dumb and careless, you just get locked in the heat of the moment and you start rationalizing about 5 minute after.
Won't happen anytime soon.

Thank you

Do not stress about this man. Its not like one nut equals a baby. A lot of things have to go right to procreate. I speak from experience. Considering she was on her rag, dont sweat it.: