so my gf talks to some guy friend on my phone and deletes the texts,... but i read one

She lives in my house and has no car.. her new man probally doesn't either, its going to be so akward..

Its like a stick of dynamite, the longer you wait the closer to destruction you get.

If you break up with her all the truth will just come flowing out

"YOUR A TERRIBLE LOVER"

"I HATE YOU AND NEVER LIKED YOU"

"YOUR SUCH A WIMP"

Blah blah blah.

Get out now. If I were you Id break up with her right now.

The only reason your here asking for help is because you need support.

Do it. Amputate this part out of your life before the infection spreads to you and your soul and kills you.

Cheating made me a bitter fucking man. Your don't need to be a bitter man.

You honestly think your in control here?

She can easily find someone else to live with.

Fuck her. Get a new GF.

dont let it get to you, relationships are a joke these days, just get whatever sex you can out of it until she breaks up with you for this other guy, then find someone else to have sex with...emotions and "love" just make things harder, the only fun part is sex anyways everything else just leads to stress and grief....be safe dont get her pregnant, that also sucks, ive heard std's suck too, who woulda thunk it?

You deserve better... Tell her you're moving on to find someone who will be faithful and respectful.

She's no lady - that much is obvious. Get rid of her ASAP. You don't need someone who'll cheat on you so casually and then hide it, too! Such women used to be called "sluts" or "tramps". What's the modern term for them?

Thanks for all the responses, I just know she's going to try and hang on, fuck this, its not Ok.. I'm Gona sign off for a bit.. later

Why try to sugarcoat something for a lying cheating wench?
Call it like it is, and what it is.


What are you....in the friendzone of something?
Grow some balls.

Don't think of what to say.

Just go with the moment. But don't loose your cool.

I say don't loose your cool because It will hurt her more then If you get angry.

If you get angry your just justifying her position on leaving you.

No offense intended, honestly, but I just get the feeling, OP, that if you caught them in bed, naked and sweaty, you'd be like "well, just tell me if you are cheating please dear".

And make sure to warn the new guy of what to expect (via text).

I don't totally agree with this response, but I agree with it more than any of the other responses.

Live life and enjoy yourself. Let the chips fall where they may, learn from that, and engage life smarter next time around.

dude make it simple, tell her that you do not need her no more...end the conversation right there, and walk away...

forget and stay away, you will feel better, this will come easier if it happens again. and you will know more about yourself, you understand after the fact that you will not put up with shit...

move on, and enjoy the freedom to be able...
some day you will have a wife and kids, and not have this option...
and hopefully will not need to make this kind of decision when married...
that is why you do it now, learn from it and move to the next one...

simple very simple....keep the stress out, learn from the stress, keep the mistakes out, learn from the mistakes, makes life much easoer in the future...

good luck

That's HER (and HIS) problem.

Don't forget it.

Ok folks this AC is gonna step up and tell us everything he knows about Canada and Canadians! This should be very educational.

Text him and pretend you are her, see what he says.....

She'll be so happy to get away from you. But then he'll suck and she'll be sorry. Do it!

Talk with her and see what's up.

dump the bimbo.. and make it hurt.

get her in bed one last time, bruise her tits and cum all over her face.. get it in her hair and send her packing... out the door 30 seconds later.

any of you real ladies out there.. don't take offense, she deserves it and you know it.

honestly when i has a galaxy phone the deleted texts still existed....if you feel doubt, just try to look for the backup files or get a new phone (i have no idea about iphone, if someone knows please tell me so i could pass info onto a friend)but beware she may know to delete those as well. make sure after she uses phone to hurry up and "NEED" it....then search the puppy! is she missing for unexplained amounts of time? do you feel like she's unfaithful? sometimes our gut instinct is right....

quite sure you can get a copy of all you're incoming and outgoing messages from you're carrier.

Perfect for those in a less-than-trusting relationship, this gadget can retrieve deleted text messages.

The USB stick - called the iRecovery Stick - is designed to recover information that has been wiped from an Apple iPhone.
It can also retrieve deleted contact details and even mapping solutions, which show the destinations that the phone user has visited.


Read more: [link to www.dailymail.co.uk]

No-one deserves sexual assault. You are a sick and depraved person.

Just leave her alone. Give her the silent treatment. She will start feeling like shit, that is when you come home from the bar with a chick and bang her in the living room loud enough for your gf to her all of this and come investigate. Then you just look at her while you bang the brains out of said drunk chick with an evil "revenge" smile on your face. Then bust your nut like a boss and say get out. Let the drunk chick stay and give your new ex gf $5 for cab fare :)

I truly hope you don't follow any of these suggestions here OP. These are very childish and very immature ways to deal with this situation...which could quite literally mean nothing. Actually BE an adult and don't just look it because of your age.

Wow it's amazing how people think infidelity justifies sexual assault. Fuck her hard? Unless a woman requests more enthused action clearly, that makes you a sicko rapist.

It would be so lulzy if she was just planning a Bday present for him lol

do not do this, i did this, and she turned out to be a slut and then a lesbian...now she is fat and married with one kid, who looks mal nutritioned...

just tell her its over, and end it at that...be careful with revenge, karmas a bitch....

Even more so, that there is still no proof of infidelity. But that one little text is enough to make many people do some very wicked, infantile things.