so my gf talks to some guy friend on my phone and deletes the texts,... but i read one

i'm like "GET BACK IN THE KITCHEN BITCH AND MAKE MY DINNER.!1!!"

Check with your cell phone provider. I can get a list of all text messages online. You probably can too.

I still think you should go with your gut feeling.

There's no such thing as a 'guy friend'. Many people will avoid reality and spit venom at this fact but it still remains a fact that there is no such thing as a true and genuine guy friend for any female.

I've posted threads on this before. The highest echelon social study groups in the US have thoroughly researched this topic on multiple different occasions and each of the studies showed conclusively and without any doubt that there is ALWAYS SEXUAL TENSION BETWEEN MALES AND FEMALES REGARDLESS IF THEIR RELATIONSHIP IS WORK, acquaintance, or friend. One or the other or BOTH, ALWAYS exhibit sexual tension or desire, whether admitted or not, in 100% of the cases, therefore completely negating the platonic definition of "friendship" entirely.

THUS! People engaging in opposite sex "friendships", if they are genuinely honest and forthright people, must refer to these relationships as something other than a "friendship", such as 'the person I use to alleviate my insecurities' or perhaps 'the person who wants to sleep with me whom I string along like a puppy for my own narcissistic desires', or something like that. Just don't call it a friend.

So Op, in short, your 'GF' is engaging in a mental courtship and/or an emotional AFFAIR with another man. That is called cheating on many subtle levels. And of course, the dude is just trying to fuck her. Obviously. And being a typical female she confuses a man's lust for true love.

Advice: There are a billion eligable women out there. Women who are straight forward and honest. Why waste one second with a chick who obviously has a hidden agenda. Kick her sneaky ass to the curb and find someone worth your time. Life is way to short to waste on someone like that.

always trust your gut instinct. Confront her and tell her you don't like that shit and it's over.

hey OP, weren't you the guy she was texting when she was dating me?!

Dump her.

No questions asked.

Get your own puss puss

"Caught my gf pooping...so I broke up with her. She said shes off to pee while were watching a movie, now shes been gone 5 minutes and i knew something was up, i knocked on the door and asked if everything is ok, she said yes she'll be right out...her voice was labored and i became suspicious...so i yelled "IM COMING IN!' she screamed no but there was no stopping this, i smashed through the door and i see her sitting on the toilet seat, i told her to get the fuk up, she didnt so i threw her off, i looked inside the toilet...just as i suspected, a goddam log, bitch u better pray this isnt yours. i looked around and saw no pet in site, I KNOW THIS IS UR POOP U WHORE, she screamed at me that im crazy and that shes calling the cops, all the while toilet paper in her hands. i told her no need to call the cops, im breaking up with u u some kinda poop whore. and that was that. I feel like a new man and off to find a woman who doesnt poop."

Obvious troll is obvious.

Even Santa Claus would say that she is a "HO-HO-HO"!

The Post !!!!

You are the troll and you're too brainwashed to realize it.

Your argument and what you are saying is to ignore the fact that his girlfriend, who is sworn to loyalty, is cheating. You sir are a spreader of immoral filth. Get your head straight.

There are certain, inherent, obvious, and ethical standards when it comes to being loyal. It matters not what your degenerate opinion is. A commitment in a relationship is based solely on exclusivity. Otherwise you do not commit. Period.

The Op's GF is obviously fucking around. There is no question about it and only suckers and born losers make excuses for that type of shit.

^^this^^ AC prolly gets cheated on regularly if he's even had a real girlfriend. Usually 40 year old virgins have an innate "look the other way" policy when it comes to chicks because they are so desperately pathetic they have no choice but to share their girl with 20 other diseased penises.

Op settle for nothing but the best. Without principles we are nothing. Let that sneaky whore go be with someone like this AC and nature will take its course. They'll end up divorcing cause of std's and their offspring will be head-fucked and amount to nothing. End of gene pool. Stupidity kills itself off in the end.

You are the troll and you're too brainwashed to realize it.

Your argument and what you are saying is to ignore the fact that his girlfriend, who is sworn to loyalty, is cheating. You sir are a spreader of immoral filth. Get your head straight.

There are certain, inherent, obvious, and ethical standards when it comes to being loyal. It matters not what your degenerate opinion is. A commitment in a relationship is based solely on exclusivity. Otherwise you do not commit. Period.

The Op's GF is obviously fucking around. There is no question about it and only suckers and born losers make excuses for that type of shit.

^^this^^ AC prolly gets cheated on regularly if he's even had a real girlfriend. Usually 40 year old virgins have an innate "look the other way" policy when it comes to chicks because they are so desperately pathetic they have no choice but to share their girl with 20 other diseased penises.

Op settle for nothing but the best. Without principles we are nothing. Let that sneaky whore go be with someone like this AC and nature will take its course. They'll end up divorcing cause of std's and their offspring will be head-fucked and amount to nothing. End of gene pool. Stupidity kills itself off in the end.

Cut your losses and move on.

Make it more fun for yourself follow her spie on her. Be your own detective real fun! tape it and send it to her. Then you know for sure and you can say to her

I have to disagree..why would he want to stay with a woman that is cheating on him? If not cheating being sneaky and texting some other dude.

I think you need to address this directly with her or text the guy she was talking to.