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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 01/28/2013 11:05 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You admit that you hurt each other. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29430674 The fact that you forgave him, and even possibly that he may have forgiven you, does not alter the fact that the two of you would probably just hurt each other again. Ask yourself if it's worth the risk. We were were much more immature/younger... I started seeing him when I was only around 20 years old! I was just a kid! He is a little older...I feel we have both grown. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 29430674 United States 01/28/2013 11:09 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You admit that you hurt each other. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29430674 The fact that you forgave him, and even possibly that he may have forgiven you, does not alter the fact that the two of you would probably just hurt each other again. Ask yourself if it's worth the risk. We were were much more immature/younger... I started seeing him when I was only around 20 years old! I was just a kid! He is a little older...I feel we have both grown. So why are you asking other's opinions? You're going to do whatever it is that you want to do, so just go ahead and do it. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 32758467 United States 01/28/2013 11:11 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was browsing this new dating site I just joined a few days or nights ago, and saw my ex bf! Quoting: born in May 2179644 I don't know if he saw my profile but I'm too nervous to contact him through this site! We were together for years and it was years ago but we hurt each other a few times(emotionally and mentally). I feel like my guts are spinning because it was such an intense relationship but I forgave him for hurting me but did he forgive me? His name is Lance. I am SO EMOTIONAL over this that I can't intuitively see clearly(if you know what I mean). Did he see my profile yet? Should I contact him? Thank you for taking the time to read this and thank you more if you respond! Love, yes he has seen it, no he will not return, i'm sorry. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26795689 United States 01/28/2013 11:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You admit that you hurt each other. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29430674 The fact that you forgave him, and even possibly that he may have forgiven you, does not alter the fact that the two of you would probably just hurt each other again. Ask yourself if it's worth the risk. We were were much more immature/younger... I started seeing him when I was only around 20 years old! I was just a kid! He is a little older...I feel we have both grown. How do you know for sure if he has grown? You asked if he has forgiven you so it doesn't sound like you have maintained contact/communication with him? Does it make you feel uneasy/anxious to know that he is potentially meeting women on this site? Are you comfortable with the fact that he may even be dating someone else he met online? I think those are important questions to consider given the circumstances. |
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TastyThoughts User ID: 1308649 United States 01/28/2013 11:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | "They cannot see what's-up if They are looking down." (TastyThoughts) "Something is smelly! Something is smelly, like an old barnacle encrusted shoe washing ashore in the middle of summer." (TastyThoughts) "Yes happy Earth day. Now go tell the wicked to stop damaging the Human Species therefore/and the Earth; For, they are discombobulating the entire Universe and upsetting the Most High God." (TastyThoughts) |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 01/28/2013 11:13 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You admit that you hurt each other. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29430674 The fact that you forgave him, and even possibly that he may have forgiven you, does not alter the fact that the two of you would probably just hurt each other again. Ask yourself if it's worth the risk. We were were much more immature/younger... I started seeing him when I was only around 20 years old! I was just a kid! He is a little older...I feel we have both grown. So why are you asking other's opinions? You're going to do whatever it is that you want to do, so just go ahead and do it. I'm dieing to know if he seen my profile and is avoiding me. I thought it couldn't hurt to ask. It's costs money to join the site and email out but viewing profiles is free. Should I join(not expensive but don't want to waste...) |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 01/28/2013 11:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was browsing this new dating site I just joined a few days or nights ago, and saw my ex bf! Quoting: born in May 2179644 I don't know if he saw my profile but I'm too nervous to contact him through this site! We were together for years and it was years ago but we hurt each other a few times(emotionally and mentally). I feel like my guts are spinning because it was such an intense relationship but I forgave him for hurting me but did he forgive me? His name is Lance. I am SO EMOTIONAL over this that I can't intuitively see clearly(if you know what I mean). Did he see my profile yet? Should I contact him? Thank you for taking the time to read this and thank you more if you respond! Love, yes he has seen it, no he will not return, i'm sorry. BTW, he stated he's looking for 'just friends'. Think he gave up with relationships. I feel like you're a troll and not a psychic. What month was he born? Name is LANCE. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 29430674 United States 01/28/2013 11:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You admit that you hurt each other. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29430674 The fact that you forgave him, and even possibly that he may have forgiven you, does not alter the fact that the two of you would probably just hurt each other again. Ask yourself if it's worth the risk. We were were much more immature/younger... I started seeing him when I was only around 20 years old! I was just a kid! He is a little older...I feel we have both grown. So why are you asking other's opinions? You're going to do whatever it is that you want to do, so just go ahead and do it. It doesn't take a psychic to know that you want to contact him. You're the only one that can decide if it's worth it to spent the money if he says he doesn't want to see you again. Personally, I've always found that once something is over, it's over. Starting up the same old thing usually ends the same old way. But of course, it's your decision, and you won't be satisfied unless you try, so go ahead. Surely the fee you have to pay will allow you to contact more than one person? |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 01/28/2013 11:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You admit that you hurt each other. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29430674 The fact that you forgave him, and even possibly that he may have forgiven you, does not alter the fact that the two of you would probably just hurt each other again. Ask yourself if it's worth the risk. We were were much more immature/younger... I started seeing him when I was only around 20 years old! I was just a kid! He is a little older...I feel we have both grown. How do you know for sure if he has grown? You asked if he has forgiven you so it doesn't sound like you have maintained contact/communication with him? Does it make you feel uneasy/anxious to know that he is potentially meeting women on this site? Are you comfortable with the fact that he may even be dating someone else he met online? I think those are important questions to consider given the circumstances. We parted as friends and there was no hard feelings so I know he forgave me. He saw one of my friends at a club and said to say hi to me! On my profile I made it clear I'm not looking for 'casual sex' but I read his profile and he is just looking for friends with benefits. I hope that made more sense. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 29430674 United States 01/28/2013 11:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You admit that you hurt each other. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29430674 The fact that you forgave him, and even possibly that he may have forgiven you, does not alter the fact that the two of you would probably just hurt each other again. Ask yourself if it's worth the risk. We were were much more immature/younger... I started seeing him when I was only around 20 years old! I was just a kid! He is a little older...I feel we have both grown. How do you know for sure if he has grown? You asked if he has forgiven you so it doesn't sound like you have maintained contact/communication with him? Does it make you feel uneasy/anxious to know that he is potentially meeting women on this site? Are you comfortable with the fact that he may even be dating someone else he met online? I think those are important questions to consider given the circumstances. We parted as friends and there was no hard feelings so I know he forgave me. He saw one of my friends at a club and said to say hi to me! On my profile I made it clear I'm not looking for 'casual sex' but I read his profile and he is just looking for friends with benefits. I hope that made more sense. You do know what "friends with benefits" means, don't you? |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 01/28/2013 11:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 2179644 We were were much more immature/younger... I started seeing him when I was only around 20 years old! I was just a kid! He is a little older...I feel we have both grown. How do you know for sure if he has grown? You asked if he has forgiven you so it doesn't sound like you have maintained contact/communication with him? Does it make you feel uneasy/anxious to know that he is potentially meeting women on this site? Are you comfortable with the fact that he may even be dating someone else he met online? I think those are important questions to consider given the circumstances. We parted as friends and there was no hard feelings so I know he forgave me. He saw one of my friends at a club and said to say hi to me! On my profile I made it clear I'm not looking for 'casual sex' but I read his profile and he is just looking for friends with benefits. I hope that made more sense. You do know what "friends with benefits" means, don't you? OK, I wanted to answer this before I log off. Yes, I know. I believe people can rekindle that flame and fall in love again, but I'm thinking positive...What's wrong with that? LOL |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 29430674 United States 01/28/2013 11:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: ANHEDONIC How do you know for sure if he has grown? You asked if he has forgiven you so it doesn't sound like you have maintained contact/communication with him? Does it make you feel uneasy/anxious to know that he is potentially meeting women on this site? Are you comfortable with the fact that he may even be dating someone else he met online? I think those are important questions to consider given the circumstances. We parted as friends and there was no hard feelings so I know he forgave me. He saw one of my friends at a club and said to say hi to me! On my profile I made it clear I'm not looking for 'casual sex' but I read his profile and he is just looking for friends with benefits. I hope that made more sense. You do know what "friends with benefits" means, don't you? OK, I wanted to answer this before I log off. Yes, I know. I believe people can rekindle that flame and fall in love again, but I'm thinking positive...What's wrong with that? LOL Not a thing. But wishing does not alway make things so. |
Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 6860 United States 01/28/2013 11:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let me tell you a lil story... When I was 15 i started dating this bitch... we dated 4 months and broke up.... When I was 17 we dated 4 months and broke up... When I was 19 we had a pretty serious relationship for about 8 months... then we broke up... mind you we always broke up because she had commitment issues... Fast forward to 23 years old... I pull into a gas station and she's next to me at the other pump... she says hello...smiles flirts... and gives me her phone number... So i'm sitting on my couch that night.... and im thinking hey we were young back then... im still in love with her... maybe its different... I call her up and one thing leads to another and we start dating... we date 4 months 6 months something like that... and we broke up... Moral... Exes are Exes dont rekindle that no matter what... there is a reason the flame died! It took my dumb ass long enough to figure it out. dont make my mistake... find you someone who wants you and is good with you... don't start a relationship with a psycho who fears commitment and is cheating on you the whole time... but you were too blinded by their splendor to notice... my advice... move along _______________________ |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 26231634 United States 01/29/2013 12:59 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was browsing this new dating site I just joined a few days or nights ago, and saw my ex bf! Quoting: born in May 2179644 I don't know if he saw my profile but I'm too nervous to contact him through this site! We were together for years and it was years ago but we hurt each other a few times(emotionally and mentally). I feel like my guts are spinning because it was such an intense relationship but I forgave him for hurting me but did he forgive me? His name is Lance. I am SO EMOTIONAL over this that I can't intuitively see clearly(if you know what I mean). Did he see my profile yet? Should I contact him? Thank you for taking the time to read this and thank you more if you respond! Love, yes he has seen it, no he will not return, i'm sorry. BTW, he stated he's looking for 'just friends'. Think he gave up with relationships. I feel like you're a troll and not a psychic. What month was he born? Name is LANCE. september |
trippiness User ID: 31762042 United States 01/29/2013 01:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let me tell you a lil story... Quoting: Dr. Acula When I was 15 i started dating this bitch... we dated 4 months and broke up.... When I was 17 we dated 4 months and broke up... When I was 19 we had a pretty serious relationship for about 8 months... then we broke up... mind you we always broke up because she had commitment issues... Fast forward to 23 years old... I pull into a gas station and she's next to me at the other pump... she says hello...smiles flirts... and gives me her phone number... So i'm sitting on my couch that night.... and im thinking hey we were young back then... im still in love with her... maybe its different... I call her up and one thing leads to another and we start dating... we date 4 months 6 months something like that... and we broke up... Moral... Exes are Exes dont rekindle that no matter what... there is a reason the flame died! It took my dumb ass long enough to figure it out. dont make my mistake... find you someone who wants you and is good with you... don't start a relationship with a psycho who fears commitment and is cheating on you the whole time... but you were too blinded by their splendor to notice... my advice... move along Don't be afraid to let go. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 23014610 United States 01/29/2013 01:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If the answer is no it is no. Why torture yourself? Either way it won't change the eventual outcome. Just pay, go on and ask him. Right now answer me this: What is the worst thing that could happen? You are miserable wishing... it sucks. Fix it and then move forward. You are far too important to suffer like this. |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 2179644 United States 01/29/2013 05:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If the answer is yes it is yes. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 23014610 If the answer is no it is no. Why torture yourself? Either way it won't change the eventual outcome. Just pay, go on and ask him. Right now answer me this: What is the worst thing that could happen? Ok, I will answer. I still love him and I don't want to be disappointed. See, when I first met him, I was only 20 years old he was ALREADY divorced, but he's several years older than me. He had a short marriage, obviously, and I think he had cold feet so he never proposed to me, plus he had two little children with his ex... I know he was in love with me and maybe still is. He is in his 40s now and I think we would be good for each other (if all is forgiven) to grow old together. Why not? If the chemistry is there, when we meet and start fresh... In my opinion, we were BOTH immature and he wasn't sure I was right for him and I wasn't sure he was right for me... He was never a cheater. It's just we thought we found other partners that were more compatible because the grass is always greener on the other side, so he would dump me and come back and I would dump him and go back, over and over, but we were both immature, like I said. Thank you for the kind advice people, Be back another time :) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30366188 Australia 01/29/2013 05:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was browsing this new dating site I just joined a few days or nights ago, and saw my ex bf! Quoting: born in May 2179644 I don't know if he saw my profile but I'm too nervous to contact him through this site! We were together for years and it was years ago but we hurt each other a few times(emotionally and mentally). I feel like my guts are spinning because it was such an intense relationship but I forgave him for hurting me but did he forgive me? His name is Lance. I am SO EMOTIONAL over this that I can't intuitively see clearly(if you know what I mean). Did he see my profile yet? Should I contact him? Thank you for taking the time to read this and thank you more if you respond! Love, Im no psychic. It was a long time ago and you guys were probably not ready for a forever relationship. Just contact him and see how it goes. The worst he can say is no, but at least then you know and you wont think what if. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 30366188 Australia 01/29/2013 05:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Let me tell you a lil story... Quoting: Dr. Acula When I was 15 i started dating this bitch... we dated 4 months and broke up.... When I was 17 we dated 4 months and broke up... When I was 19 we had a pretty serious relationship for about 8 months... then we broke up... mind you we always broke up because she had commitment issues... Fast forward to 23 years old... I pull into a gas station and she's next to me at the other pump... she says hello...smiles flirts... and gives me her phone number... So i'm sitting on my couch that night.... and im thinking hey we were young back then... im still in love with her... maybe its different... I call her up and one thing leads to another and we start dating... we date 4 months 6 months something like that... and we broke up... Moral... Exes are Exes dont rekindle that no matter what... there is a reason the flame died! It took my dumb ass long enough to figure it out. dont make my mistake... find you someone who wants you and is good with you... don't start a relationship with a psycho who fears commitment and is cheating on you the whole time... but you were too blinded by their splendor to notice... my advice... move along That sucks guy but this is not everyones story, some have happy endings. |
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Elfsong User ID: 33245551 United States 01/29/2013 07:52 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I do believe that the young lady that saw her boyfriend on that website is trying to get back the happiness that she thought she had. What she thought she had, was only on her side. The boyfriend was 'playing her' and someone else at the same time. She needs to realize that it is over and she needs to move on. |