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Face Palmer User ID: 33927103 Germany 02/08/2013 04:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | First you only did weed. Then you tried coke once. Now you do it regulary 3 times a month and can't stop. Did you "try" weed first and then did it rather regulary till you did it daily? Then you will do so with coke. Spoiler: This is how drugs work Last Edited by Face Palmer on 02/08/2013 04:41 AM "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
Rockarchy User ID: 33101743 United States 02/08/2013 04:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | First of all, you can't blame her for being worried really. I've known a few people to die on their first time trying coke -- especially one of my buddies back when I went to high school. Despite the productive means for you using coke, it still has the potential to kill you at any point in time. But at the end of the day, it's still your decision -- but it might be best if you try to understand where she's coming from as well. |
Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 934 United States 02/08/2013 04:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lose the coke. It will only destroy your life. Its all fine and cool and awesome with it now... But a year... 2 years... 5... You will be a mess and lost every thing in life you cherished. It goes from rarely to weekly to daily to as often as you can get it. When it doesnt do the trick you will find something else that will... I've lost friends to coke addiction... Sucks man. Have some beers, smoke some weed... Whatever... Just stay off the "hard stuff" Trust me it kills... I've carried 4 coffins in 3 years cos of it. _______________________ |
Face Palmer User ID: 33927103 Germany 02/08/2013 04:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sorry man. "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
iiKlutch (OP) User ID: 30425515 United States 02/08/2013 04:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I only smoked regular because she does. Weed never really appealed me but we live together and she doesn't like being high alone. I know the consequences of cocaine and it's dark side from experience with my mother. I'm very controlled when it comes to it. That is not the issue or a worry. |
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Face Palmer User ID: 33927103 Germany 02/08/2013 04:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I only smoked regular because she does. Weed never really appealed me but we live together and she doesn't like being high alone. I know the consequences of cocaine and it's dark side from experience with my mother. I'm very controlled when it comes to it. That is not the issue or a worry. Quoting: iiKlutch 30425515 You asked for advice. Advice given was: Don't. "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
iiKluTch (OP) User ID: 30425515 United States 02/08/2013 04:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lose the coke. Quoting: Dr. Acula It will only destroy your life. Its all fine and cool and awesome with it now... But a year... 2 years... 5... You will be a mess and lost every thing in life you cherished. It goes from rarely to weekly to daily to as often as you can get it. When it doesnt do the trick you will find something else that will... I've lost friends to coke addiction... Sucks man. Have some beers, smoke some weed... Whatever... Just stay off the "hard stuff" Trust me it kills... I've carried 4 coffins in 3 years cos of it. Wow I'm sorry for you're losses. Hmm well I've always been a curios individual and I like to see what I can think of in certain states. Is there anything else you can recommend to replace it. Weed just doesn't appeal me |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 30425515 United States 02/08/2013 04:52 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I only smoked regular because she does. Weed never really appealed me but we live together and she doesn't like being high alone. I know the consequences of cocaine and it's dark side from experience with my mother. I'm very controlled when it comes to it. That is not the issue or a worry. Quoting: iiKlutch 30425515 You asked for advice. Advice given was: Don't. You're correct and the advice is very much appreciated thank you. |
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Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 934 United States 02/08/2013 05:11 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lose the coke. Quoting: Dr. Acula It will only destroy your life. Its all fine and cool and awesome with it now... But a year... 2 years... 5... You will be a mess and lost every thing in life you cherished. It goes from rarely to weekly to daily to as often as you can get it. When it doesnt do the trick you will find something else that will... I've lost friends to coke addiction... Sucks man. Have some beers, smoke some weed... Whatever... Just stay off the "hard stuff" Trust me it kills... I've carried 4 coffins in 3 years cos of it. Wow I'm sorry for you're losses. Hmm well I've always been a curios individual and I like to see what I can think of in certain states. Is there anything else you can recommend to replace it. Weed just doesn't appeal me My battery on this fucking phone is at 10% piece o shit. So this is my last post for a while... Grrrrrrrrr Find something to really really drive passion into ur life. I paint, spend time with the wife, and play guitar and browse GLP. You will prolly laugh... But i love this place and i got a real passion for it. You might not like this place as much as me... But if you could find something that got ur mind off things... That would be ur key... I dont think using a drug to combat a drug is good for u bro. Damnit 4% hope that makes sense?! Hurrying and typing sucks. I will drop back later on OP _______________________ |
Face Palmer User ID: 1149868 Germany 02/08/2013 05:13 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Apple, eh? "The world will soon wake up to the reality that everyone is broke and can collect nothing from the bankrupt, who are owed unlimited amounts by the insolvent, who are attempting to make late payments on a bank holiday in the wrong country, with an unacceptable currency, against defaulted collateral, of which nobody is sure who holds title." Never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity. The woman who is not pursued sets up the doctrine that pursuit is offensive to her sex, and wants to make it a felony. No genuinely attractive woman has any such desire. - H.L. Mencken, In Defense Of Women |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 33685965 United Kingdom 02/08/2013 05:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ok so since 19 I have been a heavy weed smoke like every other day and my fiancé also smokes so it was never an issue. On my 21st birthday I true cocaine for the first time. My birthday was in October. I have done it 3 times per month since and I do not blow all my money on it. I work 2 jobs and keep all my responsibilities in check. Whenever i am on coke I always use it for creative and positive means such as working on my poetry. At the beginning of the month I started the first day with some coke. My fiancé knows I do it but on this particular day she let it be known she does not like it and resulted in her getting extremely pissed. She says she worries about me dying. I believe she doesn't like it because it is looked upon as a taboo in society. Anyways I agreed to stop although I do not want to because I would never choose something over her. We have been together since 15 and I've been there through the loss of both her parents. I want to tell her that I would still like to continue using rarely for the calm state and things I create while high but I don't want to anger worry or dissapoint her. Should I live my life and tell her to accept it or or sacrifice a rare pleasure? Quoting: IiKluTch 30425515 stick with da weed,you will be fine indeed, if go with the coke,you will end up a joke. |
Philligan in rainbows User ID: 2530194 United States 02/08/2013 05:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Lose the coke. Quoting: Dr. Acula It will only destroy your life. Its all fine and cool and awesome with it now... But a year... 2 years... 5... You will be a mess and lost every thing in life you cherished. It goes from rarely to weekly to daily to as often as you can get it. When it doesnt do the trick you will find something else that will... I've lost friends to coke addiction... Sucks man. Have some beers, smoke some weed... Whatever... Just stay off the "hard stuff" Trust me it kills... I've carried 4 coffins in 3 years cos of it. ^^^read that again and again OP^^^ That says everything Pray for Us Sinners Now and at the Hour of our Death |
Philligan in rainbows User ID: 2530194 United States 02/08/2013 05:45 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Addictions start out just like your describing. It's fun you only do it on weekends or special events social outings etc. Then you start finding excuses to why not do it today, tomorrow and the next. You don't think it can happen to you but it can. Cut your losses now. Stick with the other stuff if you can Pray for Us Sinners Now and at the Hour of our Death |
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Dr. Acula Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 52191 United States 02/08/2013 12:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Addictions start out just like your describing. It's fun you only do it on weekends or special events social outings etc. Quoting: Philligan Then you start finding excuses to why not do it today, tomorrow and the next. You don't think it can happen to you but it can. Cut your losses now. Stick with the other stuff if you can Yup^ while you can walk away from it... please do so OP... Don't do it for us... we would love for you to kick it... But do it for yourself and that girl of yours :) _______________________ |
BRIEF User ID: 381742 United States 02/08/2013 12:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Switch to opiates, go with oxy until you can't afford them and then go to heroin...or maybe give up drugs, because there are reasons why they are illegal...they ruin lives. I never forgive and I never forget I am a licensed firearm holder. I will, under protection of law, use lethal force if attacked. |
phoenixe User ID: 33933790 Germany 02/08/2013 12:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | get off the coke. it is expensive and does not do anything good for you, neither spiritually nor from any healing ingridients, as it has none. stay with the weed, but reduce it to special occasions. and: talk with your gf about that, because it affects you, her, and your relationship. |