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Anonymous Coward User ID: 28611583 United States 02/10/2013 02:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh yeah I look good, jeans, tshirt wide belt hoop earrings boots and army jacket. And "down there" is always kept nice and tidy. Sound pretty bangable, I mean you must be pretty fine if a 25 y.o. wants some. Girl, I have taken good care of myself. No drink or smoking, exercise and eat right and coconut oil lots of coconut oil. I am thin size 4 I look in my 30's So all you younger women out there take good care of yourselves. It pays off Just dont mention GLP, reptillians, or time shifts and you should be fine |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30742855 United States 02/10/2013 02:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Heh, funny to find one with the opposite predicament to be happily nervous and anxious about. I would genuinely like to know how it turns out, OP. I'm 33 and a woman in her 50s that's staying with my best friends has several times now been very politely 'swinging on my spiral nuts' so to say. You ask what good can come from it besides sex. I worry that if I do begin a physical relationship with this woman that I'll develop feelings and the relationship will change in my mind to something that would forever have a bad foundation. If you're open and honest, though, as I intend to be if I make a move then ask yourself what bad could come from it? If he makes it clear he's interested in friendly companionship with no strings of romantic feelings involved, I see no harm to be done as long as both of you are careful and honest with yourselves and each other if things get too heated in the feelings of attachment department. It doesn't read like you were seeking out this ego boost. That tells me it's something you need. We all get a little anxious, worried, scared, etc when something we need is dropped in our laps. From my perspective, this older woman that's shown an interest in me is also an ego boost. The young, mature men of this day and age are well aware of how self-centered and manipulative the vast majority of generation-X and younger women in America today are. It's a big deal to me that one who seems to have her head on straight and her heart in the right place is attracted. Again, I'd genuinely like to hear how your date goes. My guess is that there's more to this man than meets the eye and he realizes that some adult fun that is mutually respecting, free of greed and controlling behavior, and less than likely to turn into an emotional roller-coaster is only to be had with the older women of America. 25-year-olds don't pursue for 3 months if they just want to use a woman to get laid and look upon her as a sex object. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 23766809 United States 02/10/2013 02:31 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31039519 Oh yeah I look good, jeans, tshirt wide belt hoop earrings boots and army jacket. And "down there" is always kept nice and tidy. Sound pretty bangable, I mean you must be pretty fine if a 25 y.o. wants some. Girl, I have taken good care of myself. No drink or smoking, exercise and eat right and coconut oil lots of coconut oil. I am thin size 4 I look in my 30's So all you younger women out there take good care of yourselves. It pays off Just dont mention GLP, reptillians, or time shifts and you should be fine |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 26699484 United States 02/10/2013 02:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Heh, funny to find one with the opposite predicament to be happily nervous and anxious about. Quoting: Deaf Cat in the Blue Hat I would genuinely like to know how it turns out, OP. I'm 33 and a woman in her 50s that's staying with my best friends has several times now been very politely 'swinging on my spiral nuts' so to say. You ask what good can come from it besides sex. I worry that if I do begin a physical relationship with this woman that I'll develop feelings and the relationship will change in my mind to something that would forever have a bad foundation. If you're open and honest, though, as I intend to be if I make a move then ask yourself what bad could come from it? If he makes it clear he's interested in friendly companionship with no strings of romantic feelings involved, I see no harm to be done as long as both of you are careful and honest with yourselves and each other if things get too heated in the feelings of attachment department. It doesn't read like you were seeking out this ego boost. That tells me it's something you need. We all get a little anxious, worried, scared, etc when something we need is dropped in our laps. From my perspective, this older woman that's shown an interest in me is also an ego boost. The young, mature men of this day and age are well aware of how self-centered and manipulative the vast majority of generation-X and younger women in America today are. It's a big deal to me that one who seems to have her head on straight and her heart in the right place is attracted. Again, I'd genuinely like to hear how your date goes. My guess is that there's more to this man than meets the eye and he realizes that some adult fun that is mutually respecting, free of greed and controlling behavior, and less than likely to turn into an emotional roller-coaster is only to be had with the older women of America. 25-year-olds don't pursue for 3 months if they just want to use a woman to get laid and look upon her as a sex object. At 50 and Hot with a banging body,the older the berry the sweeter the juice...the op Cougar is going to school this dude and make him scream like a little bitch ... Women hit their sexual peak between 40 and 50.. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 28611583 United States 02/10/2013 02:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | he just text he is very close. OMG hahaha Quoting: Anonymous Coward 31039519 How can I be a professional yet freak over a date. Well a date with a sexy young thing. [link to cdn.uproxx.com] I hope you can control and hide your excitedness... could come off as craziness |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 28611583 United States 02/10/2013 02:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | is that supposed to be an insult you filthy animal? dont make me laugh No, supposed to be a fact you pure clean holy annointed one. I couldnt make you laugh if i tried... because you are sad. Dont you have a playdate to attend to? a wall to paint on? a bible to read? a diaper to be changed? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 34044999 United States 02/10/2013 02:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am 50 and this man has been bugging me for the past 3 months to go out with him. lol Quoting: GILTF 31039519 Why Americans are so obsessed with dating. Could it be that he just wants to be friend. I remember at work there was a Computer science Engineer lady who was not good at work. Gossip was flying around that she couldn't do the job and that she was on the brink of losing the job. I had some interaction with her in the past and knew that she had difficulty understanding the mechanics of Engineering and that she just needed little help. So I asked her one day having lunch together. During lunch she made a remark "I guess you are never too old to have a date". I smiled and replied friends don't need formalities for meeting. Continuing my conversation I said by the way I am thinking to get you involved more with trouble shooting and I am willing to work with you. What you think of it. She frowned on it and this is where I left off. She was eventually fired from the job. Unless you know what the other person thinking, don't just jump to conclusions. Of course it doesn't mean to be off guard for your safety. |
M.Bonham User ID: 33930245 United States 02/10/2013 02:49 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am 50 and this man has been bugging me for the past 3 months to go out with him. lol This sure is an ego booster. He is a hottie with a killer body. " hi, I wouldn't.You might end up feeling foolish. Most young men assume that an older woman is just an easy target. They assume we're "desperate". And/or they are just "curious". Those are awful reasons to allow someone into your life. I too have a 25 year old son. I can't imagine even going to the movies with a 20-something,much less doing anything else. Tell him you're flattered but "no". This too has happened to me. I am on dating sites...I cannot tell you how many young men in their 20's have tried to start something with me. It's ridiculous. Where I live I had a good-looking man from India trying to talk to me - I asked his age. "26"...I told him my age point-blank then told him to "go have a nice day". The only good thing I can say is that rarely there really is a younger man who really does feel a strong,true attraction to older women. But in order for that to be long-term or meaningful, you know the age difference would have to be a lot less that 50%. I realize that women are often marginalized or treated as "invisible" when we are older - it hurts and adds to loneliness. I'm not bad looking and that happens to me. But I could care less about a 20-something. Best wishes- |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 28611583 United States 02/10/2013 02:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am 50 and this man has been bugging me for the past 3 months to go out with him. lol Quoting: GILTF 31039519 This sure is an ego booster. He is a hottie with a killer body. " hi, I wouldn't.You might end up feeling foolish. Most young men assume that an older woman is just an easy target. They assume we're "desperate". And/or they are just "curious". Those are awful reasons to allow someone into your life. I too have a 25 year old son. I can't imagine even going to the movies with a 20-something,much less doing anything else. Tell him you're flattered but "no". This too has happened to me. I am on dating sites...I cannot tell you how many young men in their 20's have tried to start something with me. It's ridiculous. Where I live I had a good-looking man from India trying to talk to me - I asked his age. "26"...I told him my age point-blank then told him to "go have a nice day". The only good thing I can say is that rarely there really is a younger man who really does feel a strong,true attraction to older women. But in order for that to be long-term or meaningful, you know the age difference would have to be a lot less that 50%. I realize that women are often marginalized or treated as "invisible" when we are older - it hurts and adds to loneliness. I'm not bad looking and that happens to me. But I could care less about a 20-something. Best wishes- Didnt you see that the OP was excited about this opportunity? Can it be possible that a woman can enjoy casual sex and companionship? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30742855 United States 02/10/2013 03:08 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The only good thing I can say is that rarely there really is a younger man who really does feel a strong,true attraction to older women. But in order for that to be long-term or meaningful, you know the age difference would have to be a lot less that 50%. Quoting: M.Bonham If it's so rare, why are you so quick to convince someone to not take an opportunity to find something rare? OP seems very put together, but just unsure because she's trying something new. I doubt she would be drawn into something fake and allow herself to be used or abused. Why are you of the opinion that all relationships ought to be long-term or meaningful? I'm a 33 year old man that's had two sexual partners his entire life. Even I am open to the possibility of a healthy, open, honest relationship that is not meant to be either long-term or meaningful. Matter of fact, I want nothing more than a life-long meaningful relationship to finally have. But perhaps I need to experience that which I need before I am to be given that which I want. I hope, for OP's sake, that she found a man 8 years my junior with the same mindset and she's able to have the time of her life. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 810909 United States 02/10/2013 03:16 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am 50 and this man has been bugging me for the past 3 months to go out with him. lol Quoting: GILTF 31039519 This sure is an ego booster. He is a hottie with a killer body. Have any other women here dated a much younger man? What good can come from it beside good sex? He is younger than my son. He wants to go for coffee in 1 hour. I'm nervous Why do women play word games saying they are going to "date" someone when this is just code for bang someone? You know dam well you have no reasonable life interest with this young man. For christ sake can't women ever be honest? |
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Chef. User ID: 34092958 United States 02/10/2013 03:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am 50 and this man has been bugging me for the past 3 months to go out with him. lol Quoting: GILTF 31039519 This sure is an ego booster. He is a hottie with a killer body. Have any other women here dated a much younger man? What good can come from it beside good sex? He is younger than my son. He wants to go for coffee in 1 hour. I'm nervous Shill Out of the pan into the Fire. |
Anonymous Coward 02/10/2013 03:51 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Obvious troll is obvious... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 22944982 The OP's name is GILTF for fucks sake! Sounds like she just calls 'em like she sees 'em to me... Honest, smart women are attractive. Perhaps this is why men half her age still want to fuck her... I know, it's tough for you to comprehend. Jeez I mean what's with all the hate over this, and people calling me 'wild'? It's 2013, people. This shit can't go on for too much longer. The nation is spiraling into bankruptcy, both monetary, AND moral. And plus there's that huge asteroid coming by in the 2040s that has like TWO really great chances to hit the planet. We're talking ELEville here folks. Harmless, safe, (and probably totally normal) sex between two consenting adults is the total fucking least of our worries. If someone half your age (and legal) wants to have sex with you, and you have no obligations... Why the hell would you EVER not? |
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