Men not marrying. How deep does the problem go?

Talk about having to walk through hell to get to heaven.

Woman are like kids in a candy store in these days. Men are the candy. They stuff their faces with whatever looks good until they are old washed up narcissistic rags that no one wants.

Good point.

In the video she tells how women feel only 20% of guys are actually attractive.

I would argue that maybe 10-20% of women are attractive to me, but I am not deluded. And of that small percentage, very few are attractive when you get to know them.

But constantly being unhappy will not help your kids, or your wife, or you.

So why do you stay?

cause he knows she'll rape his ass in court.

I think men are pressured to marry, so that they appear normal. So a lot of men are doing it to fit in.

But women are under no pressure, and often told to be strong, independent. So they only marry because they feel they no longer need men, but can have a man and treat him like shit if they really want to.

A WOMAN WANTS A MAN WHO IS RELIABLE. i HAVE SAID THIS BEFORE BUT IT SEEMS IT'S NOT GETTING THROUGH. FF HE IS NOT RELIABLE THEN SHE WON'T STAY. If SHE IS NOT RELIABLE AS IN DOING HER PT. THEN HE WILL STRAY. HOW FUCKING HARD IS IT TO FIGURE OUT?

Well last night I saw a big young girl for the first time in a month or so.....last time I saw her she was with a black guy. Last night it's a white guy and she says she's getting married....next year....I'm guessing to the smart white guy..

I read this joke some time ago and it is exactly the women's view of men. Here it goes...

What does men have in common with electronics? Right after you bought one there is a newer and better model coming out.

Tell the truth. When people get married and both work it is like this:

All the man's money goes to support the family. All the women's money goes to just her. Cloths, nice car, lunch in expensive restaurants (many times buying all her co-workers lunch, seeking attention and approval).

Then you have many women who give all their money to their grown kids. But the women's salary is never enough so she will max out her credit cards. 30 thousand dollars on their credit card doesn't even concern them one bit. And most of them time all this is done in secret without ever telling her husband until it gets out of control and the husband has to bail her out for her foolishness. But does she learn a valuable lesson? No, when the man bails her out she goes right back to the same thing, all the man has done is enable her, he is the enabler for her spending addiction.


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I do not know about the relationships from you have had or what generation you are however we saved for a house together have joint accounts and we drive our vehicles until it is no longer feasible to repair. In fact, I have a 1997 vehicle, my husband has a new vehicle because he hit a deer last year and his vehicle was totaled.

Once our vehicles are paid off, we deposit what would have been the payment into an account, which pays for the next vehicle. We took a practical approach to credit cards if they are used then they are paid off when the bill arrives as you get nowhere if you re in debt.

I grow a garden each year and not afraid of getting dirty and can the surplus for winter usage. We made plans when we married and weathered all that life has thrown at us to achieve our goals if you cannot dream together then what is the point of marriage.

And who gets to determine if the man is being "reliable"? I bet your answer won't be 'him'. If he is not reliable, you will move heaven and earth by nagging him into the correct mold. If he doesn't come around to your programming, then you must leave him. What other choice do you have? My gosh, why was I making this so hard, it is all so clear now.

i'd be the first to admit that from the perspective of the stereotype set by society,that im a loser.a standard that in my opinion is batshit crazy,therefore i dont adhere to it but my attributes no longer have any value.as money becomes the only currency of worth,attributes that dont contribute to the accumulation of money,become worthless.if women wonder why they always fall for the asshole,its cause the asshole gets ahead,and all your interested in is the security that money provides.u want a nice guy?.well nice guys finish last.

DO you even know what being responsible really is?
It's not sitting on your ass all day and doing nothing. It's getting out there everyday and earning that measly dollar to keep a roof over your head. It's working to keep your family together and that means BOTH of you! It means doing your part everyday,all day if needed. Don't make promises you can't keep.