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Anonymous Coward User ID: 156480 United States 10/19/2006 02:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had to work late closing at my first resteraunt job when i was 15. My mom was suppose to pick me up but want there and I called he and she sounded so tired. The manager offered me a ride home because he had to go my way anyway. That was a big mistake. He ended up turning down a dirt road to park, and wouldnt take me straight home. That idiot thought he had a right to put his creepy hands on me and started trying to force me back, and even ripped my blouse. Thats when I got out really fast, called him a Ahole and rean in the woods to hide. Finally he left, and when it was clear I walked two miles home at 1am on a very unlit road. Actuall I ran like _ _ _ _ ! I never went back to that job, or told my mother. Now this same crap is happening to my beautiful daughter, and I hate men! |
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Michele User ID: 156477 United States 10/19/2006 02:54 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A good idea for women is take care of yourself,don't get yourself into these situations and respect yourself. as presented the guy was stupid but not criminal. Rape happens and knowing this women have a responsibility to pay heed to their conduct. No matter rape ,real rape,is an issue of aggression and control and me-ism. Why with all the disease and remarkable dissassociative and dysfunctional personalities roaming the world would someone just jump into intercourse so readily anyway? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 190 United States 10/19/2006 02:58 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | whatever. you say you hate men but are actually a filthy whore. ive banged enough of your type in my time to see the difference, and i dont believe you. enough said. it is really easy. if a woman says yes, fuck her in every hole you can get away with. if she says no, leave her the hell alone. here is the kicker. if it seems to be a one night stand, like most easy women, MAKE G DAM SURE THAT SHE NEVER EVER GETS YOUR REAL NAME MUCH LESS A PHONE NUMBER! his mistake was confusing a piece of whore one night stand ass with a woman. her mistake was being a whore and not being proud of it. because of her self hate (see slut posting above) she screwed her own life, and the life of another. moral of the story? NEVER TRUST A WHORE. MALE OR FEMALE! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 156480 United States 10/19/2006 03:22 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | A good idea for women is take care of yourself,don't get yourself into these situations and respect yourself. as presented the guy was stupid but not criminal. Rape happens and knowing this women have a responsibility to pay heed to their conduct. No matter rape ,real rape,is an issue of aggression and control and me-ism. Why with all the disease and remarkable dissassociative and dysfunctional personalities roaming the world would someone just jump into intercourse so readily anyway? Quoting: Michele 156477How can you not get into situations, especially when at work! Your just there to earn a living and these bastards think thay have a right to touch you just because they think all women are loose like the whores they see on porn sites! Those women who do such things are dogs, and so are the filthy men! |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 9482 United States 10/19/2006 03:27 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't see this post or story presented in it trying to downplay real rape at all. Real forced rape is a horrendous crime that should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. I saw the point of this post as more of a warning in how far to the 'pro-victim' side of things we have gone. While what the guy did was perhaps stupid, it was not rape in the sense of attacking her forcefully. The problem is the law rarely sees any difference between the two and if anything, the feminist agenda is to make all forms of 'rape' the same on the prosecution scale. A woman changing her mind the next day after realizing she was drunk and regretted the evening should not result in a rape charge. If the man was drunk (and he may have been legally drunk since three beers would most likely put him over the limit to drive) would he be forgiven for raping someone because he didn't realize what he was doing? Hardly and rightfully so. Women in these situations need to take responsibility for their actions as well instead of branding a man with a felony record and sex criminal stamp the rest of his life. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 156480 United States 10/19/2006 03:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | whatever. you say you hate men but are actually a filthy whore. ive banged enough of your type in my time to see the difference, and i dont believe you. enough said. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 190it is really easy. if a woman says yes, fuck her in every hole you can get away with. if she says no, leave her the hell alone. here is the kicker. if it seems to be a one night stand, like most easy women, MAKE G DAM SURE THAT SHE NEVER EVER GETS YOUR REAL NAME MUCH LESS A PHONE NUMBER! his mistake was confusing a piece of whore one night stand ass with a woman. her mistake was being a whore and not being proud of it. because of her self hate (see slut posting above) she screwed her own life, and the life of another. moral of the story? NEVER TRUST A WHORE. MALE OR FEMALE! It seems like your a woman hater, maybe even a pshyco type. You treat women in a degrading manner, I hope you get aids and reap what you sow you pig! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 154126 United States 10/19/2006 03:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had to work late closing at my first resteraunt job when i was 15. My mom was suppose to pick me up but want there and I called he and she sounded so tired. The manager offered me a ride home because he had to go my way anyway. That was a big mistake. He ended up turning down a dirt road to park, and wouldnt take me straight home. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 156480That idiot thought he had a right to put his creepy hands on me and started trying to force me back, and even ripped my blouse. Thats when I got out really fast, called him a Ahole and rean in the woods to hide. Finally he left, and when it was clear I walked two miles home at 1am on a very unlit road. Actuall I ran like _ _ _ _ ! I never went back to that job, or told my mother. Now this same crap is happening to my beautiful daughter, and I hate men! i agree with the poster that said she was a whore, i bet you played on his dick nerve to get your ride home and when he wanted what you alluded to you freaked out. you probably flirted with himn all night to get him to take you home. i know women like that, flirty like crazy and then talk shit behind mens backs about how big of perverts they are.lead you on all day and when you act like a man youre a pervert quit leading men on and they wont rape you, i mean there are predators out there but shit if you are constantly getting put in these positions you gotta look at your own actions. the way you try to manipulate men is wrong and is the reason for your confrontations. quit trying to make men do things by teasing them sexually and you wont get put in these akward positions. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 9482 United States 10/19/2006 03:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | There is no reason to put up with unwelcome sexual advances in the workplace. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 156480 United States 10/19/2006 03:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I don't see this post or story presented in it trying to downplay real rape at all. Real forced rape is a horrendous crime that should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9482I saw the point of this post as more of a warning in how far to the 'pro-victim' side of things we have gone. While what the guy did was perhaps stupid, it was not rape in the sense of attacking her forcefully. The problem is the law rarely sees any difference between the two and if anything, the feminist agenda is to make all forms of 'rape' the same on the prosecution scale. A woman changing her mind the next day after realizing she was drunk and regretted the evening should not result in a rape charge. If the man was drunk (and he may have been legally drunk since three beers would most likely put him over the limit to drive) would he be forgiven for raping someone because he didn't realize what he was doing? Hardly and rightfully so. Women in these situations need to take responsibility for their actions as well instead of branding a man with a felony record and sex criminal stamp the rest of his life. a woman or girl getting herself drunk has no business claiming rape, especially if she led the guy on..she is reaping what she is sowing. But I was sexually harrassed at work without asking for it, even trying to avoid it, and men are treating all women like filthy whores when most are not. They watch too many sick porn sites that are degrading to the good women , that are the mothers of children with christian families and clean ones who are not like that, but all are put in the whore catogory . |
messenger User ID: 156184 United States 10/19/2006 03:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Don't worry sisters. We're slowly leaving this planet. Women don't want to incarnate here anymore. Many men driven societies don't want us to procreate there either (China, India). The men have a sense of this and are beginning to turn to their brothers for their sexual satisfaction. Some women may stay but those highly evolved female oriented souls are going elsewhere. How is this possible? Because women of certain knowledge have the ability to procreate without men's seed. This is the knowledge taken from you in the garden and it will be given back to you at the appropriate time. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 156480 United States 10/19/2006 03:36 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If any women on here are putting up with strong unwelcome advances in the workplace, why aren't you using the harassment laws to have the activity stopped? A company following these laws is NOT optional. The activity either ceases or the company is liable. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 9482There is no reason to put up with unwelcome sexual advances in the workplace. Id rather just quit, tahn be around the idiots at all. I work from home |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 156480 United States 10/19/2006 03:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I had to work late closing at my first resteraunt job when i was 15. My mom was suppose to pick me up but want there and I called he and she sounded so tired. The manager offered me a ride home because he had to go my way anyway. That was a big mistake. He ended up turning down a dirt road to park, and wouldnt take me straight home. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 154126That idiot thought he had a right to put his creepy hands on me and started trying to force me back, and even ripped my blouse. Thats when I got out really fast, called him a Ahole and rean in the woods to hide. Finally he left, and when it was clear I walked two miles home at 1am on a very unlit road. Actuall I ran like _ _ _ _ ! I never went back to that job, or told my mother. Now this same crap is happening to my beautiful daughter, and I hate men! i agree with the poster that said she was a whore, i bet you played on his dick nerve to get your ride home and when he wanted what you alluded to you freaked out. you probably flirted with himn all night to get him to take you home. i know women like that, flirty like crazy and then talk shit behind mens backs about how big of perverts they are.lead you on all day and when you act like a man youre a pervert quit leading men on and they wont rape you, i mean there are predators out there but shit if you are constantly getting put in these positions you gotta look at your own actions. the way you try to manipulate men is wrong and is the reason for your confrontations. quit trying to make men do things by teasing them sexually and you wont get put in these akward positions. actually I was only 15, my first job, ver shy, a virgin, and I thought I could trust an adult manager for a ride home, I wasnt attracted at all to him, he was married. Nop, I didnt flirt, I barely spoke at all. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 117476 United States 10/19/2006 03:47 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Okay, my two cents. I think it's wrong for a guy to take advantage of a girl that's totally drunk, BUT shouldn't a person take responsibility for themselves and NOT drink if it will lead to an undesirable act? It wasn't undesirable at the time of inebriation. This is how a person learns to take responsibility for themselves. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 156480 United States 10/19/2006 03:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was guilty of being nieve and this was in the late 70's before porn sites. This world has really gone down hill. Maybe women who dont want any attention should wear head covering like the muslims, so that men will know that we arent interested in any of there unwanted attentions. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 154126 United States 10/19/2006 03:50 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I was guilty of being nieve and this was in the late 70's before porn sites. This world has really gone down hill. Maybe women who dont want any attention should wear head covering like the muslims, so that men will know that we arent interested in any of there unwanted attentions. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 156480sorry but guys dont just start groping you, they dont just try to do you in the freezer if you dont make some kind of advances toward them. every male you know isnt a predator, you are a dick tease |
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