What does it say about a person who has no life long friends?

Normal. Very rare to have a lifelong spouse, let alone some stranger.

Says you're an asshole and extremely unlikable. Or you're a nosey controlling bitch.
Just the facts.

Some of us are just Complicated. Unique. We just don't relate well to the rest of humanity. It is what it is. Some people are friends with everyone. Some are friends with no one. Most people are just somewhere in the middle.

I'll bet you have lots of friends.

Most of my friends have screwed me or trashed me in one way or another so I really only have 2 friends, maybe a couple more but most I consider acquaintances. A friend is someone you can call and they'll help you right now. Now I consider myself a friend to lots of people, meaning if they needed me I'd help them no questions asked. People suck, most people but there's still plenty of decent folks too. Finding them takes effort.

In today's world you can't have life long friends without compromising yourself for them completely except in vary rare circumstances.


Most life long friends, if people were honest with themselves, would look back and realize that person has screwed them over more than anyone or they have screwed them over more than anyone and they put up with it.

So they remained life long "friends".

I've never met a friend I could be completely open and honest about the things I found interesting.

Most guys are into sports or politics or hunting or some other crap that I have zero interest in. So in order to be their 'friend', I have to act like I care about that sort of stuff at least a little, when I really don't at all.

Over the years, I've just found it's more pleasant to be completely truthful with myself about the types of people I enjoy being around.

Who cares, nobody needs to leave a mark.

This. Most friendships are based on shallow interactions that result in constant favor requests.

Can I borrow your truck, your trailer, can you help me move a fridge. And so forth.

Lets have a beer and watch a game. Lets gossip a bit to make ourselves feel better, and when you're gone they gossip about you.

Last Edited by ChrisVet on 07/17/2017 12:38 AM

What can I say?

It hasn't been easy been a cunt this long.

I'm an asshole, and fuck you if you aren't willing to get to know me.


Haha, enjoy your selfish and stupid society.

I understand completely OP. I am on my own too. I had friends, different groups through the years. I always had cash, weed and a ride so that helped in the teens too. Then I moved far away. I began learning the truth about this 'place'. The people I met in real life found me strange (I am empath and can feel and sort of 'hear' thoughts at times, not at will- yet I guess). My life choices based on what I know are too hard for them so they shun it, vis a vie- me.

Like for instance, people drink aspartame and that's a poison. Well, no one wants to know. They think I am the bad guy since i am the messenger, yk? So I keep my mouth shut. I tried for many years to find at least one friend since moving out here 13 years ago.

I am female but think like a male in many ways. A therapist long ago told me if I could only read what you said, without gender references I would think you are a man lol... but i am very feminine in looks... anyway- women can't stand me mostly and men generally want to have sex with me.

My husband was supposed to be that best friend. I showed him the movie they live on one of our first eves together. I thought he understood, he said he did... anyway 3 years later and i realize he does not want to know the truth unless it is in his face and he must do something in the now about it. Like he doesn't want to follow all my (troop movements, pedo gate, yellowstone, flat earth, nibiru, time travel, tesla) watching, but if its erupting he would spring into action.
that still leaves me with no one to talk to IRL. I had to move to a different room since he still watches tv and I choose truth instead of the signal. If I bring about the quantum effect he can't stand it- he sees it but it baffles him too much...

Its tough I agree. Especially for me, a high IQ leo. I used to have whole gangs of people staying at my house, partying, back in the day. Playing guitar...

anyway he is too jealous and I get along with men, so no friends for me unless I happen to meet a perfect woman lol... I did make a list that brought him to me, maybe i should make a list of what is good in a female friend.

I have non family social interactions in brief, online and at the checkout stand. I am a hermit. mostly due to the empath part. Crowds or away from my house is less pleasant than at my house lol. my family I grew up with is very far away I have seen them once in the last 10 years for a day.

So we in this thread, let's keep each other company as best we can.

Op, friends come and go. I think it's a lot worse if someone clings to childhood friends, or worse high school friends.


Just my 2 cents

It means humans are fucking idiots, selfish, materialistic assholes and who needs them?

Theres no such thing as friends, just people too scared to be alone.

Wish I could have met someone like you. IF you find your perfect, high IQ female friend, send me her email.

I guess having no life long friends could be considered sad.

However, looking honestly at my personal situation I do have a few life long friends but over the years most of my friends could always count on me but were seldom around when I needed something; sometimes I just needed a ear.

I try to find joy in being a good friend to others but it is tuff sometimes when you see just how selfish some people can be.

It says you are nomadic.

I have no friends either.

Years ago I was married to who I thought was my best friend. She walked out and screwed me over so I lost my only friend. Nowadays I have trust issues because of it.

I've tried making new friends but people don't seem interested anymore. People just don't care about you, only themselves.

You can buy someone's attention for a short while but they're not a friend, just a user.

Pretty much this. Once you remove the partying and access to money and goods all the fake ass friends will disappear as fast as the wind.

That is sadly the truth. You can buy another human's attention for a short while. And yeah they're just a user.

It would tell me either the person is unlikeable and selfish (doesn't give to or care about others) or just socially awkward through no fault of their own.

I've found this to be true of all people. Especially the ones who claim otherwise.

Either they are sociopaths, or their friends turned out to be sociopaths.

I haven't found that to be true, I have amazing, lifelong friends that are really good people.

Welp... Don't go poking around the skeletons in their closets then. Ur rosy views will change.
It's ok either way tho.

I don't demand perfection from my friends, I don't condemn them or judge them...that's the Christian way.

looool

Ya I suspected u were gonna say something like that.

Oh, look. It's glue.