I've been having disturbing dreams recently... need some help. | |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 595359 United States 01/18/2009 12:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I do feel as if I can't have peace of mind. There is always a problem with relative, etc. (someone close to me) and no matter how hard I try, I can't escape the problems that surround me. It's been bothering me a lot. But these dreams just came in out of nowhere. |
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Aztec Cavalry User ID: 585352 Mexico 01/18/2009 12:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | While my dreams have been all right, I've had a lot of stress just walking around, constant worry. Think back to the things most important to you, and review how they all are in place (as they should be), that will calm you down. If you have not done that reflection yet you can start now. It helps a lot and shows you a lot. |
mussen User ID: 383866 Canada 01/18/2009 12:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I do feel as if I can't have peace of mind. There is always a problem with relative, etc. (someone close to me) and no matter how hard I try, I can't escape the problems that surround me. It's been bothering me a lot. But these dreams just came in out of nowhere. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 595359Don't try to escape these people, just get slightly taller than them. Look down at them (without being how condescending this sounds) with affection. What's the worst that could happen? They could totally mess up their lives? Further? Would that necessarily mean that you would be fundamentally changed? The answer is entirely up to you. Perhaps the ash that is falling in your dream is like the sloughing off of dead skin. Like a phoenix from the ashes, you can rise up whole, separate, and compassionate. The answers to how you should interact with this person (a woman?) will come if you let the fire purge you of their problems. Don't build your house out of other people's drama again. Take a deep breath and smile. Fill yourself with amusement at how serious we can be and how complicated we make things when we don't want to change. You are transitioning for the better. I feel that strongly. You are about to take control of your life by not trying to control your environment. You are going to make a choice. Right now. If you have that dream again you'll see what I mean. It can go on and on and you'll be perfectly safe and intact. You can look back at the you cowering inside, not even seeing you, and be struck at how simple everything actually is. It's not about enduring or weathering or helping or not helping. You'll know when you have your answer. You will feel lighter. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 594943 United States 01/18/2009 12:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I do feel as if I can't have peace of mind. There is always a problem with relative, etc. (someone close to me) and no matter how hard I try, I can't escape the problems that surround me. It's been bothering me a lot. But these dreams just came in out of nowhere. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 595359Do your dreams usually come true and do you know the difference between and ordinary dream and a prophetic one? |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 512077 United States 01/18/2009 02:06 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Write your dream out. Quoting: himselfYou can tweak it a bit. Change minor details that are most disturbing as you re-write the dream. Read your revised dream just before going to bed. It's just a dream. Even prophetic dreams can be made less traumatic. THAT IS ONE OF THE MOST COWARDLY THINGS I HAVE EVER HEARD. U MUST BE LIVING A LIE. |
himself User ID: 595928 United States 01/18/2009 08:23 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ...is there any way I can supress the nightmare? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 595359Thanks. Supressing does not work. It just comes back. You have to make changes... Many combat veterans have nightmares. So do survivors of fatal auto accidents and rape victims. Same technique is taught for any recurring nightmares. Write it out. Identify the most traumatic single thing about the dream. Rewrite the dream with that one small change and read it just before you go to bed. eg: Mine was a memory of me laying in the grass holding my intestines in my hands, bleeding and thinking I was dying. I changed that to Me laying in the grass, bleeding and waiting to be taken to a doctor. Took several weeks to make the change. leave out the most traumatic memory or dream event, or change it to be less traumatic. BTW AC512077, "Say"/post any insult you like. I believe in Freedom of speech. What matters in this topic is helping OP with his problem. What I've posted has proven to be useful. Learned it in a VA hospital. From a shrink that specializes in helping us deal with recurring nightmares. |
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devorahg User ID: 593876 United Kingdom 01/18/2009 08:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ...is there any way I can supress the nightmare? Quoting: himselfThanks. Supressing does not work. It just comes back. You have to make changes... Many combat veterans have nightmares. So do survivors of fatal auto accidents and rape victims. Same technique is taught for any recurring nightmares. Write it out. Identify the most traumatic single thing about the dream. Rewrite the dream with that one small change and read it just before you go to bed. eg: Mine was a memory of me laying in the grass holding my intestines in my hands, bleeding and thinking I was dying. I changed that to Me laying in the grass, bleeding and waiting to be taken to a doctor. Took several weeks to make the change. leave out the most traumatic memory or dream event, or change it to be less traumatic. BTW AC512077, "Say"/post any insult you like. I believe in Freedom of speech. What matters in this topic is helping OP with his problem. What I've posted has proven to be useful. Learned it in a VA hospital. From a shrink that specializes in helping us deal with recurring nightmares. If I could I would give you a great big hug! |
Neen User ID: 555797 United States 01/18/2009 08:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If flakes are falling and it's not snow, it's probably nuclear fallout. I believe that happens at the same time of the rapture. (like in the days of Lot, the Bible says, and Lot and his family were pulled out of Sodom and Gomorrah just before God destroyed it.) There are many, many people dreaming of the U.S. being hit by nukes, Russia and China apparently are to blame. I have been talking with a Messianic Jew about understanding the scriptures about the rapture and its timing. you know where the Bible says "of that man no man knows, not the angels in heaven nor the Son, but only the Father"? Miriam explained it to me, the greek word translated "know" actually means to "know by experience, to perceive with your eyes." Therefore, no man knew the day because back when Jesus was talking, it wouldn't happen in anyone's lifetime. Scripture gives many indications that the rapture will happen to springtime, during the barley harvest, in the month of Nisan. Nisan is from late March to April. Miriam clarified it more by explaining that the resurrection of the dead Christians and the changing of believers' mortal bodies to immortal would happen on the same day that Jesus was resurrected, because He is the head of the church, and believers are the body. That made complete sense to me. This is 3 days after passover, on the feast of firstfruits. That translates to sunset in Jerusalem on April 11, because the biblical day goes from sunset to sunset. Jesus was resurrected on "the first day of the week", their Sunday. 4-11. I think this is why people keep seeing 444 and 1111, because this day will not be like any other day in history. Believe in Christ, repent of your sins and ask forgiveness from God, and you can go in the rapture too and escape the horror. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 580695 Australia 01/18/2009 09:17 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If flakes are falling and it's not snow, it's probably nuclear fallout. I believe that happens at the same time of the rapture. (like in the days of Lot, the Bible says, and Lot and his family were pulled out of Sodom and Gomorrah just before God destroyed it.) Quoting: Neen 555797There are many, many people dreaming of the U.S. being hit by nukes, Russia and China apparently are to blame. I have been talking with a Messianic Jew about understanding the scriptures about the rapture and its timing. you know where the Bible says "of that man no man knows, not the angels in heaven nor the Son, but only the Father"? Miriam explained it to me, the greek word translated "know" actually means to "know by experience, to perceive with your eyes." Therefore, no man knew the day because back when Jesus was talking, it wouldn't happen in anyone's lifetime. Scripture gives many indications that the rapture will happen to springtime, during the barley harvest, in the month of Nisan. Nisan is from late March to April. Miriam clarified it more by explaining that the resurrection of the dead Christians and the changing of believers' mortal bodies to immortal would happen on the same day that Jesus was resurrected, because He is the head of the church, and believers are the body. That made complete sense to me. This is 3 days after passover, on the feast of firstfruits. That translates to sunset in Jerusalem on April 11, because the biblical day goes from sunset to sunset. Jesus was resurrected on "the first day of the week", their Sunday. 4-11. I think this is why people keep seeing 444 and 1111, because this day will not be like any other day in history. Believe in Christ, repent of your sins and ask forgiveness from God, and you can go in the rapture too and escape the horror. The bottom line is be ready; most people think Revelation 6 and Christ returning is just a fable. I can see the day when the horror described on the faces in Revelation 6 (non believers) will be not able to be imagined at the 'god they were right' looks |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 580695 Australia 01/18/2009 09:19 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Act 2:16 But this is that which was spoken by the prophet Joel; Act 2:17 And it shall come to pass in the last days, saith God, I will pour out of my Spirit upon all flesh: and your sons and your daughters shall prophesy, and your young men shall see visions, and your old men shall dream dreams: Act 2:18 And on my servants and on my handmaidens I will pour out in those days of my Spirit; and they shall prophesy: 1 month ago |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 580695 Australia 01/18/2009 09:20 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Joel predicted a time in history when God would pour out His Spirit upon humanity. God Is going to give people (young & old, men & women) supernatural dreams and visions before the end of the age. God Is pouring out His Spirit upon people everywhere and He is giving visions to His children of what is coming. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 588334 United States 01/18/2009 09:29 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I had a dream in 2004 where there where red globs of plasma like objects hitting the sky and slidding down. Then the sky shuddered and like a plaster wall, fell down. The scenery was in a valley surrounded by mountains. There was a house with a curvy road by it. It scared the Sh*t out of me. Guess what? I saw that same place the summer of 2008. Does that mean it'll happen? Dunno. What does this have to do with your dream? We all dream, sometimes prophetically. Keep track of this dream. It may manifest years later and you still won't know what it means-lol...but I sense we are getting very close. |
TEXAS UNCENSORED User ID: 595924 United States 01/18/2009 09:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, it sounds like a predictive type dream. 'himself' has good tips if it's psychological. If it's predictive, try programming yourself before sleep to step back as if an observer watching tv, and view the dream that way. Kind of like a reporter, which may remove the fear. You'll get a better idea of what is going in your dream that way. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 1118155 United States 01/27/2011 12:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The dream will leave when you take the message. Your world is being filled up with negative energy and karma is starting to rain down. You must prepare for hard times and realize what is about to happen. Make preparations. this is from your higher self |