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JimTheOwl User ID: 587926 United States 10/20/2009 01:39 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm gay but here's the thing. I hate the whole idea of it. Morally i hate it, the lifestyle i hate it, the idea of it makes me sick and yet i still have these feelings. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 679365I don't hate gay people at all i just hate the lifestyle and yet i'm gay myself. Kind of makes life tough in a way i guess. I have little to no attraction to women and yet the idea of being in a relationship with a man turns my stomach. My family and friends don't care either way but for me personally i'd rather be alone my whole life than have to live the gay lifestyle. I wonder if there are other people that feel this way. I'm a pretty open person and don't care what people think or say about me but i'm at a loss. I would love to get married and have kids someday but then there's this whole gay thing and i just would never do that with another man. oh well i guess. thats life. I'm with the other poster. What is this lifestyle you dislike so much? Is it being forced on you by a stereotype that has been placed on you by other gays or by straight people that don't get it? Perhaps you should explain your feelings on this subject a bit more. Last Edited by Mister Shadow on 10/20/2009 01:39 AM ''Too many good docs are getting out of the business. Too many OB-GYNs aren't able to practice their love with women all across this country.'' —President George W. Bush, Sept. 6, 2004 |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 792028 United States 10/20/2009 01:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | some gay people really bother me, like the gay people who are gay cuz their retarded. but there are some gay people who seem normal and are just gay. maybe you need to find the gay people who are gay and not retarded gay. you dont sound retarded so if you think your gay maybe you know to many gay retards. or maybe your not really gay if it discusts you so much doesnt make sence how you could be gay, maybe you are retarded. |
ajk User ID: 607393 United States 10/20/2009 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Do you believe in God? If you do, pray man, pray for help to deal with these feelings properly, that your mind could change. Last Edited by ajk on 10/20/2009 01:41 AM No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
Sirius One User ID: 789596 United States 10/20/2009 01:41 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Maybe your problem is thinking too hard about how people think of you. Time to get back to loving yourself and feeling confident about yourself, doncha think? I have a nephew who is a closet gay to his family because God forbid should the grandparents know. You know what? He is an unhappy camper even though he holds a high position in politics. He isn't even a nice person. He's snooty. I have gay friends I love, even tho I am straight. This nephew is oceans away from them. So back to loving yourself and others, OP. Last Edited by Blue Topaz on 10/20/2009 01:44 AM Knowledge protects. Ignorance endangers. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 743201 United States 10/20/2009 01:43 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | i'm gonna say something here: being in a relationship, whether hetero or homo, isn't ALL there is to life. Close friends and an intense interest or pursuit can take you a loooong way towards fulfillment. probably farther than most people ever go. close friends (those who are "like family" only better because there's more respect there than most families afford) are the ultimate. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77394 United States 10/20/2009 01:44 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you feel that way, don't have sex with a man or woman for that matter. If it is repugnant to you don't do it. Are you sure you are homosexual? You maybe just a person that is asexual, you don't what sex. There are may people that say the same as you, that isn't crazy just be yourself. |
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lolita User ID: 798297 Italy 10/20/2009 01:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So you feel a biological urge to slide your cock into the shit inside other mens smelly disease ridden backsides huh? Quoting: Anonymous Coward 798294Yeah..id be disgusted with myself too.. and ALL gays are "retarded" for this urge alone. Go kill yourself. Seriously. Most men want to slide their cocks into the shit inside other's female smelly disease ridden backsides... so what's the difference? You're a retard. |
The Monk User ID: 762691 United States 10/20/2009 01:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I'm gay but here's the thing. I hate the whole idea of it. Morally i hate it, the lifestyle i hate it, the idea of it makes me sick and yet i still have these feelings. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 679365I don't hate gay people at all i just hate the lifestyle and yet i'm gay myself. Kind of makes life tough in a way i guess. I have little to no attraction to women and yet the idea of being in a relationship with a man turns my stomach. My family and friends don't care either way but for me personally i'd rather be alone my whole life than have to live the gay lifestyle. I wonder if there are other people that feel this way. I'm a pretty open person and don't care what people think or say about me but i'm at a loss. I would love to get married and have kids someday but then there's this whole gay thing and i just would never do that with another man. oh well i guess. thats life. Ok, here it is... |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 798300 United States 10/20/2009 01:49 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh and the whole "gay culture" bs they drop on you, as if "you are gay, therefore, you must enjoy watching gay oriented shows, speak with a lispth and just be flowery in general, just like those other gay guys do", is an indoctrination into a lifestyle. It's all bs. Ive known gays that drink, and the more drunk they get, the more "pronounced" the affectations become. They learn that from each other and mimic each other. Just because one has "feelings" doesn't mean one is obligated to act on them, that's a cop out. Feelings are just transient, temporary things, don't mean nothin. |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 679365 Canada 10/20/2009 01:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | good luck ,op. heart goes out to you. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 743201i'm gonna say something here: being in a relationship, whether hetero or homo, isn't ALL there is to life. Close friends and an intense interest or pursuit can take you a loooong way towards fulfillment. probably farther than most people ever go. close friends (those who are "like family" only better because there's more respect there than most families afford) are the ultimate. i like this |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 679365 Canada 10/20/2009 01:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | If you feel that way, don't have sex with a man or woman for that matter. If it is repugnant to you don't do it. Are you sure you are homosexual? You maybe just a person that is asexual, you don't what sex. Quoting: daughterThere are may people that say the same as you, that isn't crazy just be yourself. and this :) |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 679365 Canada 10/20/2009 01:50 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | You seem extremely conflicted. Sorry you dislike yourself so much. Get a good therapist and hopefully you will learn to embrace yourself as you are, otherwise you are going to be a miserable Fuck for the remainder of your days. Quoting: Maui Wowee 348082Best of luck. lol this made me laugh |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 798300 United States 10/20/2009 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Thanks for the input. Quoting: Bruce in Frisco 794076If you want my input sweetie just lmk. Oh yeah, advice from the AIDS melting pot. Wonderful. Bruce knows you are conflicted, and he wants you to come over to his house to find out if you are for real or not. What a dick. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 241877 United States 10/20/2009 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | So you feel a biological urge to slide your cock into the shit inside other mens smelly disease ridden backsides huh? Quoting: lolitaYeah..id be disgusted with myself too.. and ALL gays are "retarded" for this urge alone. Go kill yourself. Seriously. Most men want to slide their cocks into the shit inside other's female smelly disease ridden backsides... so what's the difference? You're a retard. You're both sick..... |
Wraithwynd User ID: 717743 United States 10/20/2009 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The "gay lifestyle" is an option only to being homosexual. Lifestyle is something a person adopts. Life is something a person lives. It is your life, you can adopt any lifestyle you want. The "sin" of homosexuality is debatable, plenty of books and theologians who point at the bible and say "these verses are read wrong/ are applied wrong". They still agree on the "sinful" nature of being "alone" in the world. Companionship, love and commitment is not everybody's cup of tea. However sex without these things is equally as empty regardless of your sexual orientation. Your problem may be as simple as you haven't met the man who has caught your whole heart. I assure you one day, when you least expect it the 'right' person will come along and you will want to be with them, live with them, love them with all your heart and will want to 'settle down' or enter into a committed relationship. I have no idea how old you are, I suspect you are young, still have a lot of life to live and you will discover on your own the truths that matter most. Sinkhole list: Thread: Sinkholes Updated 28 Dec 2010 find a sinkhole, add it to this thread, please. "Whoever hates his brother is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life abiding in him." (1 John 3:15, NKJV). |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 679365 Canada 10/20/2009 01:51 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh and the whole "gay culture" bs they drop on you, as if "you are gay, therefore, you must enjoy watching gay oriented shows, speak with a lispth and just be flowery in general, just like those other gay guys do", is an indoctrination into a lifestyle. It's all bs. Ive known gays that drink, and the more drunk they get, the more "pronounced" the affectations become. They learn that from each other and mimic each other. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 798300Just because one has "feelings" doesn't mean one is obligated to act on them, that's a cop out. Feelings are just transient, temporary things, don't mean nothin. yeah, thats true |
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Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 679365 Canada 10/20/2009 01:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The "gay lifestyle" is an option only to being homosexual. Quoting: WraithwyndLifestyle is something a person adopts. Life is something a person lives. It is your life, you can adopt any lifestyle you want. The "sin" of homosexuality is debatable, plenty of books and theologians who point at the bible and say "these verses are read wrong/ are applied wrong". They still agree on the "sinful" nature of being "alone" in the world. Companionship, love and commitment is not everybody's cup of tea. However sex without these things is equally as empty regardless of your sexual orientation. Your problem may be as simple as you haven't met the man who has caught your whole heart. I assure you one day, when you least expect it the 'right' person will come along and you will want to be with them, live with them, love them with all your heart and will want to 'settle down' or enter into a committed relationship. I have no idea how old you are, I suspect you are young, still have a lot of life to live and you will discover on your own the truths that matter most. good advice thanks |
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ajk User ID: 607393 United States 10/20/2009 01:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh and the whole "gay culture" bs they drop on you, as if "you are gay, therefore, you must enjoy watching gay oriented shows, speak with a lispth and just be flowery in general, just like those other gay guys do", is an indoctrination into a lifestyle. It's all bs. Ive known gays that drink, and the more drunk they get, the more "pronounced" the affectations become. They learn that from each other and mimic each other. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 798300Just because one has "feelings" doesn't mean one is obligated to act on them, that's a cop out. Feelings are just transient, temporary things, don't mean nothin. Well said, there is something to be said for self control. We all have different thoughts and feelings, but they all aren't good or beneficial. It's up to us to recognize what is what, and live our lives accordingly through our minds, and not just our bodies. No one is perfect. A babe before walking will first stumble and fall many times but NEVER gives up until he succeeds. Always remember, ultimately, to never follow any person's belief. Your relationship with God is between you and God. If nothing else, remember this: religion = subservience, control and conformity, the same template as EVERY government "Most believers would kill truth if truth threatened their religion." L. K. Washburn "This crime called blasphemy was invented by priests for the purpose of defending doctrines not able to take care of themselves." Robert Ingersoll "If anyone wants to know how God feels, it's a warm light as if the sun is poking through dark clouds and lifting your spirits with pure joy." |
Anonymous Coward (OP) User ID: 679365 Canada 10/20/2009 01:58 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | maybe i am asexual who knows. I often wonder why i have these feelings when everything else i feel is the exact opposite. I was never really bullied at all, my parents are very liberal, & my friends wouldn't care, and yet i battle myself with this. strange, maybe i'll become a monk or something. |