Soul mates

Then in respect to what you accept as fact we are still on a same page. Seeking love requires a deep unexplainable emotion..or tie..pull..allusive yet existing

Yeah its called the women of the world

No I think you have to look and not settle. I don't know for some they find them and others never do.

Ah women. The source of our greatest strengths and weaknesses.

I myself would rather be alone than settle

They definitely help the world go round, but they wouldn't be powerful without the power of a man

And men wouldn't be powerful if they had no woman around to impress. ;)

Absolutely to settle is to give up. I did it, it sucks!

full circle in motion

I used to. Never again. I am not sure if i will be lucky enough to find my soul mate in this lifetime. However i will settle for nothing lower than a 90 percent possibility

I settled because he was good to his mom, but what I didn't see was that he wasn't a protector. He is wimpy and I can't stand that. I stepped out of my zone to date and marry him and he has no balls!

if I were younger I would go to e-harmony or Adult Friend Finder, and not necessarily in that order

My instincts always direct me towards a manly man

LOL

Mine too, however I thought maybe this once I could have a passionate guy, turns out I have more balls then him. Lol!

Yes. A true man embodies both sides of the brain. Which can be deceiving. We must look hard

Agreed, can't say much more. I'll tell you what though even my 10 yr old daughter sees his lack of strength and sometimes it's hard to move forward with this relationship.

you could always try to subliminally teach him how to be masculine...hahaha

Op, just curious - where did your user name come from?

I was doing shots and it got written on my cup.. damn jaegermeister...

Ya I've tried. Ahahahaha! Just deal at this point there's no way out. I told him if I make it to 40 my ass is gone traveling weather you come or not that's his business. He's afraid to leave the country so we shall see.

I used to do shots of that stuff before going into bars so we didn't have to spend too much money at the bar. Then I grew up.

Lucky you!

Perhaps soon it will become more common.

I met mine when I was 17, but he found steroids, so I left him (VERY BAD RAGE). He took his own life and I missed him daily until I met my husband. There are many, many unexplainable things in this life, my husband and my love is one of them. He is my soul mate with zero doubt. I know, without a single shadow of a doubt. Couldn't live without him, wouldn't...
To have what I thought was gone forever is back, but better than I could imagine.
Think I will go give him a hug and kiss just to tell him again :) thank you for this thread :)

I don't agree with the idea that there is only one soul that will fulfill you but I do think that you can find one sould that will fulfill you. There might be others out there but finding one that will is special. I've found mine and won't loose her ever(btw, she has orgasms more than I do) how's that for awesome.

yeah thats where im at about now. life is balancing out

forever awaiting the dawn of the copper sun, the one for whom the birds sing and the flowers grow. To shape us and perfect us, or to whip the spirit to death as it rends the earth to dust, consumed by the march of time never to return....

True.

The guy who I feel like is my soul mate, I learned to not settle. He opened my heart into receiving love. I just wish it was with him. I wish for once, I could get the guy. And of all the guys I have liked, he's one I really wished I had.

Seeing him, I feel my whole body fill with sadness. I stopped talking to him at work, since his gf works there. And I know she knows I like him. When I found out he was taken, I felt like I shouldn't try. If he felt the same, he would of dumped her by now. He still looks at me, and it confuses me. I got so shy when he would chat me up, I wasn't used to the attention either.

It's one of the most irritating experiences in my life. I pray to God for wisdom. I have this itching what if part going against "he is taken" part.


I have tried to like other guys, but nothing compares...nothing. This deep connection I feel when we look at each other. It's intoxicating. I rather just be single than settle. I'll go on dates with other guys, but I feel nothing. I try to move on, but this itching feeling won't let me. It doesn't feel right.

well i hope good things for you both. How long have you been married. There is always a way to communicate honestly and grow together. It is never to late for that, considering there was an initial spark that led to the marriage in the first place.

Beautiful.....I wish my whom wasn't taken.