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Anonymous Coward User ID: 18645917 United States 04/26/2016 09:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while. Quoting: Spoonful of Sugar Thanks for letting me vent. So sorry for your loss...thinking of you. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 5845318 United States 04/26/2016 09:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while. Quoting: Spoonful of Sugar Thanks for letting me vent. It's always a bad day when Mom or Dad dies very sorry :0oollllll: |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 19833765 United States 04/26/2016 09:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My prayers - sincerely, to you Jay / DFW |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 72102617 United States 04/26/2016 09:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while. Quoting: Spoonful of Sugar Thanks for letting me vent. Sorry for your loss. It's going to hurt for a long time, thats nirmal. It wil get better but before that. People will seem heartless in the way they talk about death and just throw the word out the phases of moarning that they talk about are true eventually you'll feel better and draw strength from all this. your love for him will always last, so will his love for you. Be strong and happy.....eventually. Your Dad will always want you ti be happy. |
Tiredgranny User ID: 70382294 United States 04/26/2016 09:26 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while. Quoting: Spoonful of Sugar Thanks for letting me vent. Oh my goodness, bless your heart. I'm so sorry you have lost your Dad. Death is never easy, even when you know death is expected because of a terminal illness. I lost my mom that way and watching her suffer was not easy. Yes her death eased her pain but she was gone. Yes she's in a better place but I'm still here and she is not. I miss her to this day and she died in 2000. It's a void and an emptiness that will remain with you the rest of your life. The pain will always be there. Time will help you live with the loss but you must grieve. Please grieve now. There will be times from now on when you think of him and there will be an ache of grief and missing him. Yes you are glad that he is no longer in pain and in a better place but your grief is for you, your loss. He's not here anymore. You miss him and will continue to miss him. It's ok to grieve and you must to heal. If you need to cry, avoid people, just be alone however you feel you need to grieve just do it. It's important. Look up the stages of grief online. It will help you. Bless you. I see lots of good advice written here by others. Hope this helps a little. Last Edited by Sassy Trumpette on 04/26/2016 09:29 AM [link to qanonmap.github.io (secure)] Thread: q-list of abbreviations Thread: "DOT" Global Consciousness Project [link to www.godlikeproductions.com] “You can please some of the people all of the time, you can please all of the people some of the time, but you can’t please all of the people all of the time”.” Quoted by Lincoln-written by John Lydgate THIS world is not conclusion; A sequel stands beyond,Invisible, as music, But positive, as sound.-Emily Dickinson |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 67511492 United States 04/26/2016 09:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while. Quoting: Spoonful of Sugar Thanks for letting me vent. I am sorry for your loss. Don't let anyone tell you how to grieve or for how long. For everyone it's different and there is no set timeframe for that. Grieving your loss Is important and should not be cut short by others who tell you how you should feel. I am really sorry for your loss. |
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Relativity User ID: 69703057 United States 04/26/2016 09:53 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while. Quoting: Spoonful of Sugar Thanks for letting me vent. “In finding balance between lies and trust there will never be a better source than to speak your truth or make your peace some other way.” ~Sully Erna Many that live deserve death. And some that die deserve life. Can you give it to them? Then do not be too eager to deal out death in judgment. For even the very wise cannot see all ends. -Gandalph "A fool thinks himself to be wise, but a wise man knows himself to be a fool." - William Shakespeare |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71884670 United States 04/26/2016 09:55 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | And it sucks. I believe that he's in a better place, I really do. Everyone I've talked to today has told me to be happy for him, that he's out of pain. But I'm not ready to be happy, I just need to feel like shit for a while. Quoting: Spoonful of Sugar Thanks for letting me vent. Im so sorry for your loss and your dad is in a better place. Praying for peace for you and your family. |
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