Women seem to take it personally if I don't want to get high or have alcohol with them

Like my girlfriend opens up a bottle of wine and asks me if I want some and I politely decline, she'll then ask again, and again and again for at least an hour until I start getting more annoyed and then I say "No fuck off I told you I don't want any". She then gives a look like she's annoyed or it's something of some major importance just because I don't want a drink. Same thing with weed too. Constantly and constantly offering it to me even though she knows I don't smoke anymore because it makes me agitated and gives me panic attacks.

Same thing I experienced with other women too. They drink a bottle of wine or vodka 3 times a week and if you say "Nah i don't want any tonight" they are very persistent like it's the end of the world unless I have a drink with her. My ex and I would go to the pub in the afternoon and get drunk but then when we came home I wanted to sober up and relax but she wanted to carry on drinking and crack open more bottles. She would then keep badgering me to drink with her even though I knew I wasn't interested in drinking to that extent.

I don't smoke anymore because of the panic attacks and I very rarely drink because it makes me feel depressed the next day and I can't even get out of bed yet the girlfriends I have are just relentless for booze in particular!