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Anonymous Coward User ID: 71247037 United Kingdom 10/25/2018 04:07 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I started with a great relationship, there was nothing I wouldn't have done for her,or her kids. When life and pressures started taking its tolls affection was withheld. My connection to her faltered after years of it and I began to stop making that effort out of fear of being rejected over and over. Of course life's pressures didn't stop, they became worse. Life lost all meaning to me and I became resentful and angry. Everyone here tells you to sort yourself out, leave him etc, I would ignore that... You got into a relationship to support each other through good and bad... I suggest you try to point this out to him when he isn't charged up. Of course the pc thing is just kick him to curb and don't stand for it, your an independent woman who don't need no man..... Especially the husband you chose. |
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White Wolf Waking User ID: 76693158 United States 10/25/2018 05:48 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | See a lawyer and start making plans to leave. I'm sorry. It won't get better. ANIMAL FRIEND "All creatures are created from the same paternal heartbeat of God. Not to hurt our humble brethren is our first duty to them, but to stop there is not enough. We have a higher mission--to be of service to them wherever they require it. If you have men who will exclude any of God's creatures from the shelter of compassion and pity, you will have men who will deal likewise with their fellow men." -St. Francis of Assisi "The greatness of a nation and it's moral progress can be judged by the way in which its animals are treated." -Gandhi Thread: Top 10 Opera Auditions (My Music Thread) |
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bcuzzisaidno User ID: 5065459 United States 10/25/2018 09:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would kick his wrinkly, hateful old ass to the curb under those circumstances. Quoting: Lady Jane Smith .... but then I am not known for taking shit. He is sick, and may have cancer and I just keep trying to help. I think he might need some blood pressure medicine and xanax. You, on the other hand, need to kick his ass to the curb for not respecting you, whether he's sick or not. Nobody should have to put up with such the deep lack of respect for their person, lovey. You have to own a house and have your shit together to kick someone to the curb. If anyone's going to the curb, it's her. (but she'll stay anyway.) |
bcuzzisaidno User ID: 5065459 United States 10/25/2018 09:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | As a guy who has been the angry screaming husband, I can tell you what happened to me. Quoting: Blackc4t I started with a great relationship, there was nothing I wouldn't have done for her,or her kids. When life and pressures started taking its tolls affection was withheld. My connection to her faltered after years of it and I began to stop making that effort out of fear of being rejected over and over. Of course life's pressures didn't stop, they became worse. Life lost all meaning to me and I became resentful and angry. Everyone here tells you to sort yourself out, leave him etc, I would ignore that... You got into a relationship to support each other through good and bad... I suggest you try to point this out to him when he isn't charged up. Of course the npc thing is just kick him to curb and don't stand for it, your an independent woman who don't need no man..... Especially the husband you chose. fixed |
godsgreengrass User ID: 48449534 United States 10/25/2018 09:22 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am at my wit’s end, my husband constantly yells and screams, calls me names, when I have never lifted my voice to him. Husband also just takes sex without any emotion or foreplay making me feel like I have been assaulted. I am 17 years younger than him, not that it matters, but I am good looking and a Christian. I feel trapped, and 20 years of marriage has been such a nightmare. I am crying and need friends. Quoting: CrimsonTideGirl i haven't decided today if i want to go get something to eat or get a felony. I'll decide in the car.. |
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Trisherella User ID: 76809166 United States 10/25/2018 09:25 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am at my wit’s end, my husband constantly yells and screams, calls me names, when I have never lifted my voice to him. Husband also just takes sex without any emotion or foreplay making me feel like I have been assaulted. I am 17 years younger than him, not that it matters, but I am good looking and a Christian. I feel trapped, and 20 years of marriage has been such a nightmare. I am crying and need friends. Quoting: CrimsonTideGirl Sorry to hear this. So, he never yelled and screamed when you were dating? It just was a surprise once you got married? You might have to leave him and spend the rest of your life as a single Christian person. Pray for his soul. Trisherella |
nutmeg User ID: 76388104 United States 10/25/2018 10:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Some people just have to rant and remain anonymous. Most people here are kind and understanding. Then there are a few hateful who don't even like themselves, so they call everyone else whores to make their insecure selves feel important. Last Edited by nutmeg on 10/25/2018 10:07 AM |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76764238 United States 10/25/2018 10:15 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He is always wanting me to order online viagra or crazy stuff, but I quit doing it mainly because how he treats me, but also he has high BP, possible cancer, and IBS.. I don’t think he needs fake meds. He calls me crazy bitch and fuck me, and then grabs me and just goes in dry while I cry. Troll! |
jkm1864 User ID: 74712442 United States 10/25/2018 10:18 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The Bible makes references to the zodiac calander especially in the book of Ezekiel when it gives the time line of Christ’s return. I don’t know the verse but when it’s talking about the times it’s talking about the zodiac procession. Pussy Grabber Extraordinaire |
Stand Sure User ID: 8202586 United Kingdom 10/25/2018 10:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | He is always wanting me to order online viagra or crazy stuff, but I quit doing it mainly because how he treats me, but also he has high BP, possible cancer, and IBS.. I don’t think he needs fake meds. He calls me crazy bitch and fuck me, and then grabs me and just goes in dry while I cry. Damn that's bad, cancer or not you can't let him get away with that sounds like you're not even consenting, keep that in mind the fact you're in tears and he still carries on that's fucked up. Benefit of doubt here, assuming you're not just trolling. Last Edited by The Real Mr Anderson Fella on 10/25/2018 10:28 AM Teach a child how to think and not what to think _____________________________________ There’s no greater threat to the Palestinians than Hamas itself |
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Eilonwy User ID: 76884224 United States 10/25/2018 05:18 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My grandmother use to have this saying as she was Quoting: jake putting 2lbs of butter in my grandfathers mashed potatoes I cook to Kill! I like this one: "If I was trying to poison you, the portions would be much larger" “A grower of turnips or shaper of clay, a commot Farmer or a king--every man is a hero if he strives more for others than for himself alone.” Lloyd Alexander, The Castle of Llyr |
ACME_MAN User ID: 76782502 United States 10/25/2018 05:35 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | It may be time to make a play for the plumber. ; ) I am at my wit’s end, my husband constantly yells and screams, calls me names, when I have never lifted my voice to him. Husband also just takes sex without any emotion or foreplay making me feel like I have been assaulted. I am 17 years younger than him, not that it matters, but I am good looking and a Christian. I feel trapped, and 20 years of marriage has been such a nightmare. I am crying and need friends. Quoting: CrimsonTideGirl Dedicated to the brave men who fought and laid down their lives on the beaches of Normandy and the plains of Europe . . . that their sacrifice was not in vain. [link to www.youtube.com (secure)] |
Cynical Realist Senior Forum Moderator User ID: 77052025 United Kingdom 10/25/2018 05:43 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am at my wit’s end, my husband constantly yells and screams, calls me names, when I have never lifted my voice to him. Husband also just takes sex without any emotion or foreplay making me feel like I have been assaulted. I am 17 years younger than him, not that it matters, but I am good looking and a Christian. I feel trapped, and 20 years of marriage has been such a nightmare. I am crying and need friends. Quoting: CrimsonTideGirl Hi Crimson....just stumbled on this thread and im sorry to hear you are ...a victim of abuse....pure and simple. I see you are from Israel and cant help but ask, is there a cultural thing going on here regarding the Man... Of course there is NO excuse for this behaviour. Has he always been like this or has it been sudden or a gradual lead up to this behaviour? 20 years marriage is a long time, and with a 17 year age gap the the strains would have been there despite you saying `it does not matter. The age divide always comes into focus as the years and maturity `creep up`. You say you are crying an need a friend..... Is this because you have been controlled to the point of not being allowed a friend, or does friend to YOU mean something different? IF YOU HAVE A FEVER DO NOT LOWER IT WITH MEDS.... A FEVER IS AN IMMUNE SYSTEM RESPONSE TO A PATHOGEN (VIRUS, BACTERIA ETC..) IT MEANS YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM IS WORKING PROPERLY....DONT USE DRUGS TO LOWER YOUR TEMP. |
Deplorable Lady Jane Smith Forum Administrator 10/25/2018 10:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I would kick his wrinkly, hateful old ass to the curb under those circumstances. Quoting: Lady Jane Smith .... but then I am not known for taking shit. Yeah, you're so badass. Besides, you're a woman, the weaker sex, a man can knock you out in no time. Would you like to give that a shot? Assuming you are even something loosely construed as a "man". Fate whispers to the warrior "You cannot withstand the storm" the warrior whispers back "I am the storm" INTJ-A |