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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77337151 United States 03/14/2019 04:21 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | this is because women become complacent and have gotten out of the household. It is against the order of things. Women don't know how to seduce men or they give up on trying to keep our interest. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 1567170 I was intimate w my wife last week trying to make her feel good, stop that tickle, I hate when you do that... You know what I am done. I know how to please her... and she wants all that negative vibe . I got up and went upstairs and left her there. She says since she had kids not able to have multiple O's . Bull shit!!!! If I am willing to give multiple O you should be glad. If I grab your ass in the kitchen be happy, I still find you attractive, don't say stop pawing at me!!! I told her how would you like if I said you cant deep throat, why do I only get to get off once?? She got the point |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1702028 United States 03/14/2019 04:25 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | She wants a real hunk that's what she had before she nagged her husband into becoming a fat slob. And guess what? He's looking for a hot young piece of ash too. Truth is that BOTH get so bored it becomes toxic. Woman marry "studs" then it takes them about 7 -10 years to turn the football player into a fat beer guzzling Richard Simmons. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76170368 United States 03/14/2019 04:28 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Actually know we live in a society in which women have a deep distrust of men, and in many cases a hatred for them, and yet these feelings are largely unfounded. Quoting: B Flat Its women who pretend to be something their not to get their guy, and are willing to modify their behavior in order to get him.. But after that's done, they have to hope that their man will figure out what they really want. Because their a fraud. Society has always made excuses for women's bad behavior... I watch a lot of true murder and trial shows/documentaries and though there are some real horror stories regarding women, about 90% are men perps. This morbid genre actually seems really popular,I see lots of women comment that they are afraid of men- that if they have a relationship the man will murder them and they hope they can just get to their car in a parking lot without being attacked. The internet has probably messed people up in lots of ways- socially speaking. ^^^I wonder if some of that fear comes from a lot of women not having a father or any other positive male role models around when growing up and they don't really "know men" at all. I grew up with numerous positive male role models, including a Dad, so even with my naturally cynical nature, I have a well balanced view of men. If I didn't have a naturally cynical nature I would probably be too trusting because of only positive childhood experiences. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77457432 United States 03/14/2019 04:32 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Relationships are supposed to be partnerships. Doesn't matter how many times I say it, no one ever listens. Quoting: right_foot You are supposed to take care of each other. If each person put the other one first in a relationship, and went out of their way to make the other happy, there would be a lot more happy relationships. You know pretty quickly in a relationship if that person is a match or not. If that person is selfish, and thinks that their needs, time, and peace are more important than the other partner's, then it will never work. I would never marry someone that couldn't understand those basic principles. Seems like everyone today, on both sides, just wants a servant. No thanks... I'd rather be alone. I agree with you, but I find most women I date want to take more than they give. Hence my lifestyle to stay single and mingle It's everyone on both sides of the fence. If you are a kind, decent person prepare to be fucked hard by everyone. You've got to learn quickly how to keep people at arm's length or they will succubus your soul and then blame you for it. My husband and I started from scratch... I encouraged him of having his own company which I did open myself and have been doing all the paperwork; payrolls, taxes, audits, insurances, etc, and etc...and of top that I did raise four boys by my own, husband never did any chores not even wanted to stop by a gas station to buy milk for my babies cuz "it's a woman's job"... he had never been at a grocery store or shopping mall with me or my boys...his routine was work, friends, or his relatives and home, everyday... I have never left my boys with a babysitter so I could go somewhere. I never went to parties with friends cuz I don't have them...my boys loved to go Canada to visit their grandma (my mother) so I'm so used to drive 8 hours to Toronto and my boys loved it... I was immensely in love, I did love him with all my heart but he was, still, and will be a selfish person...I was very young when I got married and I trusted him and dedicated all my life to our home and business...I taught my boys to love and respect him no matter what, they adore him and I'm so happy of that... I can't stand his selfishness anymore, but I do love more my precious boys... eventually I will leave him, and I'm about to start another company but this time it's gonna be different... so he can put all "his" monies on his hemorrhoids... I do have what he doesn't have, brains and integrity! Yeah, my beautiful right_foot...selfish men just want a servant! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 11376882 United States 03/14/2019 04:33 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But men get really pompous about what they provided her. He makes a bold statement that he works 10 hour days to provide for her. That is not what keeps women around. Simply being a basic provider is not even close to enough. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69659698 Men lay down to rot because they have their basic needs met. He has food, water, tv, bed and good quality sex. He loses his masculinity and just gets lost in a day to day world of work, eat, sex, sleep, repeat. This is AMAZING to a young wife, but after 5 years of this, she starts to want SO MUCH MORE. Women are different than men. Women tend to have their most important years between age 22 and 40. After 40, their kids no longer need her to survive. Her lil pipsqueeks could probably survive on their own. She is dealing with a serious shift in thinking. She needs more purpose in her life. This time of change for her comes EXACTLY when her husband starts his serious testosterone decline and lose of ambition. She is seeking purpose, while he is losing motivation for even the smallest of ambitions like changing light bulbs. She is slowly awakening while he is slowly falling asleep. She gets depressed because she doesn't feel like he is sexy enough for sex. Sex becomes a chore. She doesn't want to just have sex every day and have no direction in life. She wants adventure, she wants to get closer to god, she wants to be with a real man. What is a real man? A real man provides her endless feelings of purpose due to his incredible leadership. He performs amazing innovative maintenance of their lifestyle. He provides her with so much that keeps her intetested and he has so much masculine power that she feels that god has put him in charge of her. When women dirorce a man, their first reaction is to get ahold of some masculinity. This usually comes in the form of a young strong high testosterone hunk. She yearns to find high testosterone. Sadly, after all the flings ar over, divirced wonen tend to repeat the same processes where she finds a good strong single guy and she watches him lose hos ambition and motivation just like her ex husband, so the cycle of divorce repeats again. It's very hard for a woman to find that perfect guy who isn't gonna lay down and rot 10 years into a marriage. Those guys tend to get gobbled up really early in life and part of what inspires him to be so strong, so masculine and so motivated is because he has a gorgeous sweet wife. If ypu want your husband to keep getting better in life, you as a woman have to perform maintence too. You have to inspire him in order for him to inspire you. "Good, Quality Sex"..? If he was getting that, he would NOT be rotting. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77335283 United States 03/14/2019 04:37 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My sister broke up with her first long term boyfriend because all he did was work and lay on the couch, drink beer and eat junk food. He made pretty good money- she worked part time and was in college. When she would ask what kind of things he wanted to do he life, he only talked about his career. She said don't you want to travel and have adventures? He said no. Quoting: Far Away He was charming and took her out a lot before they started living together- a good looking guy. Then after about a year and a half he gained 50 pounds. One time he got a three day weekend and my sister was all excited because she thought they would go somewhere, but all he did was want to lay on the couch and watch sports and movies. He told her- wait until you get to be my age- you will understand. He was 27- she was 21. She said, you mean in six years I am going to fall apart? lol. Men never look at male bodies, including their own unless someone points it out. If a guy is getting fat, a good wife or gf will tell him. What he does after that will determine his future weight. As a guy, I don't care about sports, other than fucking and other intimate activities. I don't want to watch it, I want to do it. That's my adventure. I've traveled looking for sex and sometimes succeeded. There's no other reason to travel. You can watch NatGeo. Traveling is just like work - planning, going, walking, seeing, and deciding. It also has the extra effort of customs, national borders, and paying through the nose. If I get a weekend off, I want to spend it as deep in a hot vagina as possible. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4979348 United States 03/14/2019 04:38 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Women desire their perfict partner to always support and treat them like a princess however most times the male either isent makeing enougth th sitify her or simply loses his job so after two years theres a 90% chance of seperation where the ex wife gets 50% of the mans stuff. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77141943 Also some men cheat but nowdays its far more common in women as proven fact the more money a man earns the more females want to fuck him for his money. The broke folk end up single because they deserve nothing in most female eyes. Excuse me? If the couple is married and divorce, 1/2 is HERS. She is NOT taking 50% of the man's stuff. If he had property/assets coming to the marriage (or if she does), there should be a prenup. Women work these days, too. They cook, they clean, the raise the kids, they do repair work, budgeting, lawn care... Why the heck to you think a woman should work and give all her money to the man and then in a divorce, he should get everything. That's crazy talk there. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77335283 United States 03/14/2019 04:40 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Relationships are supposed to be partnerships. Doesn't matter how many times I say it, no one ever listens. Quoting: right_foot You are supposed to take care of each other. If each person put the other one first in a relationship, and went out of their way to make the other happy, there would be a lot more happy relationships. You know pretty quickly in a relationship if that person is a match or not. If that person is selfish, and thinks that their needs, time, and peace are more important than the other partner's, then it will never work. I would never marry someone that couldn't understand those basic principles. Seems like everyone today, on both sides, just wants a servant. No thanks... I'd rather be alone. I agree with you, but I find most women I date want to take more than they give. Hence my lifestyle to stay single and mingle It's everyone on both sides of the fence. If you are a kind, decent person prepare to be fucked hard by everyone. You've got to learn quickly how to keep people at arm's length or they will succubus your soul and then blame you for it. My husband and I started from scratch... I encouraged him of having his own company which I did open myself and have been doing all the paperwork; payrolls, taxes, audits, insurances, etc, and etc...and of top that I did raise four boys by my own, husband never did any chores not even wanted to stop by a gas station to buy milk for my babies cuz "it's a woman's job"... he had never been at a grocery store or shopping mall with me or my boys...his routine was work, friends, or his relatives and home, everyday... I have never left my boys with a babysitter so I could go somewhere. I never went to parties with friends cuz I don't have them...my boys loved to go Canada to visit their grandma (my mother) so I'm so used to drive 8 hours to Toronto and my boys loved it... I was immensely in love, I did love him with all my heart but he was, still, and will be a selfish person...I was very young when I got married and I trusted him and dedicated all my life to our home and business...I taught my boys to love and respect him no matter what, they adore him and I'm so happy of that... I can't stand his selfishness anymore, but I do love more my precious boys... eventually I will leave him, and I'm about to start another company but this time it's gonna be different... so he can put all "his" monies on his hemorrhoids... I do have what he doesn't have, brains and integrity! No you don't. Integrity is "till death do you part. You took that oath. |
tcs User ID: 77421124 Canada 03/14/2019 04:42 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Men love money because it gives them power in this world and lets them buy stuff they love. WoMen love money because it gives them power in this world and lets them buy stuff they love. The couples that make it are the ones that saw the bait this world offers and swam away from it. The rest went after the love of money and ended up empty and wishing they had done the family thing right and not taken the bait. Money does offer worldly pleasures but it doesn't raise a family to be a tribe that endures long after you're gone. Yes, money is a necessary evil but when you place it before all else, you lose yourself in the pursuit. Last Edited by tcs on 03/14/2019 04:43 PM " Thus saith the Lord; Cursed be the man that trusteth in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and whose heart departeth from the Lord." ~ Jer. 17:5 "From that time Jesus began to preach, and to say, Repent: for the kingdom of heaven is at hand" |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76170368 United States 03/14/2019 04:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My sister broke up with her first long term boyfriend because all he did was work and lay on the couch, drink beer and eat junk food. He made pretty good money- she worked part time and was in college. When she would ask what kind of things he wanted to do he life, he only talked about his career. She said don't you want to travel and have adventures? He said no. Quoting: Far Away He was charming and took her out a lot before they started living together- a good looking guy. Then after about a year and a half he gained 50 pounds. One time he got a three day weekend and my sister was all excited because she thought they would go somewhere, but all he did was want to lay on the couch and watch sports and movies. He told her- wait until you get to be my age- you will understand. He was 27- she was 21. She said, you mean in six years I am going to fall apart? lol. Men never look at male bodies, including their own unless someone points it out. If a guy is getting fat, a good wife or gf will tell him. What he does after that will determine his future weight. As a guy, I don't care about sports, other than fucking and other intimate activities. I don't want to watch it, I want to do it. That's my adventure. I've traveled looking for sex and sometimes succeeded. There's no other reason to travel. You can watch NatGeo. Traveling is just like work - planning, going, walking, seeing, and deciding. It also has the extra effort of customs, national borders, and paying through the nose. If I get a weekend off, I want to spend it as deep in a hot vagina as possible. Well, to each his/her own. My sister is now married for eight years and they are always on the go- even with their kids. She wrote on his FB something like- Happy Birthday to My Greatest Love Who Makes Every Day An Adventure. Everyone should be lucky enough to have what they want. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 77457430 United States 03/14/2019 04:44 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | 99% of men have porn addic.tio.n problems and their brains and penises are all messed up from what they subjected their minds to for decades. Plus, God doesn't favor men who watch porn and then betray their wives. If you're lucky, she won't divorce your dumb ass and she'll forgive you, but many women are deprived of sex because their lustful husbands watched one too many pornos and now they are just creepy and their dick don't work right and she'd rather stay married than go it alone and then date another creep with the same problems. Smart women don't trade the hell they know for the hell they don't. Not to mention, society is falling apart faster each day, time to grow the fuck up and be a team. No one should be divorcing, you're going to need each other. Just spare us. |
Unclelunatic User ID: 35354613 Canada 03/14/2019 04:46 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh plaheeeeeeeease. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77457430 99% of men have porn addic.tio.n problems and their brains and penises are all messed up from what they subjected their minds to for decades. Plus, God doesn't favor men who watch porn and then betray their wives. If you're lucky, she won't divorce your dumb ass and she'll forgive you, but many women are deprived of sex because their lustful husbands watched one too many pornos and now they are just creepy and their dick don't work right and she'd rather stay married than go it alone and then date another creep with the same problems. Smart women don't trade the hell they know for the hell they don't. Not to mention, society is falling apart faster each day, time to grow the fuck up and be a team. No one should be divorcing, you're going to need each other. Just spare us. And women have had their brains ruined by disney |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 76536173 France 03/14/2019 04:48 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But men get really pompous about what they provided her. He makes a bold statement that he works 10 hour days to provide for her. That is not what keeps women around. Simply being a basic provider is not even close to enough. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69659698 Men lay down to rot because they have their basic needs met. He has food, water, tv, bed and good quality sex. He loses his masculinity and just gets lost in a day to day world of work, eat, sex, sleep, repeat. This is AMAZING to a young wife, but after 5 years of this, she starts to want SO MUCH MORE. Women are different than men. Women tend to have their most important years between age 22 and 40. After 40, their kids no longer need her to survive. Her lil pipsqueeks could probably survive on their own. She is dealing with a serious shift in thinking. She needs more purpose in her life. This time of change for her comes EXACTLY when her husband starts his serious testosterone decline and lose of ambition. She is seeking purpose, while he is losing motivation for even the smallest of ambitions like changing light bulbs. She is slowly awakening while he is slowly falling asleep. She gets depressed because she doesn't feel like he is sexy enough for sex. Sex becomes a chore. She doesn't want to just have sex every day and have no direction in life. She wants adventure, she wants to get closer to god, she wants to be with a real man. What is a real man? A real man provides her endless feelings of purpose due to his incredible leadership. He performs amazing innovative maintenance of their lifestyle. He provides her with so much that keeps her intetested and he has so much masculine power that she feels that god has put him in charge of her. When women dirorce a man, their first reaction is to get ahold of some masculinity. This usually comes in the form of a young strong high testosterone hunk. She yearns to find high testosterone. Sadly, after all the flings ar over, divirced wonen tend to repeat the same processes where she finds a good strong single guy and she watches him lose hos ambition and motivation just like her ex husband, so the cycle of divorce repeats again. It's very hard for a woman to find that perfect guy who isn't gonna lay down and rot 10 years into a marriage. Those guys tend to get gobbled up really early in life and part of what inspires him to be so strong, so masculine and so motivated is because he has a gorgeous sweet wife. If ypu want your husband to keep getting better in life, you as a woman have to perform maintence too. You have to inspire him in order for him to inspire you. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77457430 United States 03/14/2019 04:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh plaheeeeeeeease. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77457430 99% of men have porn addic.tio.n problems and their brains and penises are all messed up from what they subjected their minds to for decades. Plus, God doesn't favor men who watch porn and then betray their wives. If you're lucky, she won't divorce your dumb ass and she'll forgive you, but many women are deprived of sex because their lustful husbands watched one too many pornos and now they are just creepy and their dick don't work right and she'd rather stay married than go it alone and then date another creep with the same problems. Smart women don't trade the hell they know for the hell they don't. Not to mention, society is falling apart faster each day, time to grow the fuck up and be a team. No one should be divorcing, you're going to need each other. Just spare us. And women have had their brains ruined by disney True. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4979348 United States 03/14/2019 04:53 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Actually know we live in a society in which women have a deep distrust of men, and in many cases a hatred for them, and yet these feelings are largely unfounded. Quoting: B Flat Its women who pretend to be something their not to get their guy, and are willing to modify their behavior in order to get him.. But after that's done, they have to hope that their man will figure out what they really want. Because their a fraud. Society has always made excuses for women's bad behavior... I watch a lot of true murder and trial shows/documentaries and though there are some real horror stories regarding women, about 90% are men perps. This morbid genre actually seems really popular,I see lots of women comment that they are afraid of men- that if they have a relationship the man will murder them and they hope they can just get to their car in a parking lot without being attacked. The internet has probably messed people up in lots of ways- socially speaking. ^^^I wonder if some of that fear comes from a lot of women not having a father or any other positive male role models around when growing up and they don't really "know men" at all. I grew up with numerous positive male role models, including a Dad, so even with my naturally cynical nature, I have a well balanced view of men. If I didn't have a naturally cynical nature I would probably be too trusting because of only positive childhood experiences. I had a very steady home life growing up, no turmoil at all. However, after what I went through with my long-term husband, it behooves all women to keep track of their husbands whereabouts and not be too trusting. Once you get up to a certain age, it could be worth $1-$2 million or more to them for you to be dead rather than divorced. Just saying, you might never think YOUR husband (or wife) could do such a thing, but when money is involved, many people would do the worst things imaginable to keep their life financially secure at the level they think they deserve. I will never think about being with another man. I can take care of myself very well, thank you very much. So that "fear" - well in my case it's not so much fear as disgust, is well-founded. My (now ex) just didn't figure I would catch on and then get a couple of moves ahead of him. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 4979348 United States 03/14/2019 04:57 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh plaheeeeeeeease. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77457430 99% of men have porn addic.tio.n problems and their brains and penises are all messed up from what they subjected their minds to for decades. Plus, God doesn't favor men who watch porn and then betray their wives. If you're lucky, she won't divorce your dumb ass and she'll forgive you, but many women are deprived of sex because their lustful husbands watched one too many pornos and now they are just creepy and their dick don't work right and she'd rather stay married than go it alone and then date another creep with the same problems. Smart women don't trade the hell they know for the hell they don't. Not to mention, society is falling apart faster each day, time to grow the fuck up and be a team. No one should be divorcing, you're going to need each other. Just spare us. Narcissists are often hooked on porn and have extra-marital affairs. They lie, cheat, manipulate. They often have issues with close relationships, but they are also often charming and can have a lot of casual friends. Everything revolves around them, and they lack a moral compass. With such individuals, the best you can do for yourself is to run - far and fast. Your relationship will end, tomorrow, next week, or in 10 years, but it will end, and it won't be pretty. If a man is really into porn, and especially multiple-partner for sex, he might be a narcissist. If he comes on fast and strong, trying to get a relationship going, beware! |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76170368 United States 03/14/2019 05:00 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Actually know we live in a society in which women have a deep distrust of men, and in many cases a hatred for them, and yet these feelings are largely unfounded. Quoting: B Flat Its women who pretend to be something their not to get their guy, and are willing to modify their behavior in order to get him.. But after that's done, they have to hope that their man will figure out what they really want. Because their a fraud. Society has always made excuses for women's bad behavior... I watch a lot of true murder and trial shows/documentaries and though there are some real horror stories regarding women, about 90% are men perps. This morbid genre actually seems really popular,I see lots of women comment that they are afraid of men- that if they have a relationship the man will murder them and they hope they can just get to their car in a parking lot without being attacked. The internet has probably messed people up in lots of ways- socially speaking. ^^^I wonder if some of that fear comes from a lot of women not having a father or any other positive male role models around when growing up and they don't really "know men" at all. I grew up with numerous positive male role models, including a Dad, so even with my naturally cynical nature, I have a well balanced view of men. If I didn't have a naturally cynical nature I would probably be too trusting because of only positive childhood experiences. I had a very steady home life growing up, no turmoil at all. However, after what I went through with my long-term husband, it behooves all women to keep track of their husbands whereabouts and not be too trusting. Once you get up to a certain age, it could be worth $1-$2 million or more to them for you to be dead rather than divorced. Just saying, you might never think YOUR husband (or wife) could do such a thing, but when money is involved, many people would do the worst things imaginable to keep their life financially secure at the level they think they deserve. I will never think about being with another man. I can take care of myself very well, thank you very much. So that "fear" - well in my case it's not so much fear as disgust, is well-founded. My (now ex) just didn't figure I would catch on and then get a couple of moves ahead of him. How terrifying!! So your husband was planning your death and you found out? To put all your trust in someone and think you know them, then find out they are actually a MONSTER would be beyond words. |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 73589764 United States 03/14/2019 05:01 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | The opposite is just as true, that some men loose interest in their woman when their woman becomes "boring". Quoting: Eilonwy Boredom ain't a reason to break up a marriage. We're not here to entertain our spouses. And lets face it, we all slow down eventually. If you are getting beaten, we can talk about divorce. If you are bored, get a hobby. What if your hobby is banging Thai chicks? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76170368 United States 03/14/2019 05:02 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh plaheeeeeeeease. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77457430 99% of men have porn addic.tio.n problems and their brains and penises are all messed up from what they subjected their minds to for decades. Plus, God doesn't favor men who watch porn and then betray their wives. If you're lucky, she won't divorce your dumb ass and she'll forgive you, but many women are deprived of sex because their lustful husbands watched one too many pornos and now they are just creepy and their dick don't work right and she'd rather stay married than go it alone and then date another creep with the same problems. Smart women don't trade the hell they know for the hell they don't. Not to mention, society is falling apart faster each day, time to grow the fuck up and be a team. No one should be divorcing, you're going to need each other. Just spare us. Narcissists are often hooked on porn and have extra-marital affairs. They lie, cheat, manipulate. They often have issues with close relationships, but they are also often charming and can have a lot of casual friends. Everything revolves around them, and they lack a moral compass. With such individuals, the best you can do for yourself is to run - far and fast. Your relationship will end, tomorrow, next week, or in 10 years, but it will end, and it won't be pretty. If a man is really into porn, and especially multiple-partner for sex, he might be a narcissist. If he comes on fast and strong, trying to get a relationship going, beware! A lot of women were freaked out by the Chris Watts case if you are familiar with that. |
rosicrucian1 User ID: 77392165 Canada 03/14/2019 05:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | One problem I don't think was mentioned yet is that working 9-5 is soul and energy sucking... women believe that when hubby gets home he should be excited and energetic to get back to the family and bouncing around to do all the things she thinks he should be doing at home.. she is right to a point but men don't get from work and career what they used to get and that is a part of the problem. what do you do to make them understand? “the devil is a foe to the blood” Prof. Minor |
Unclelunatic User ID: 35354613 Canada 03/14/2019 05:04 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh plaheeeeeeeease. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77457430 99% of men have porn addic.tio.n problems and their brains and penises are all messed up from what they subjected their minds to for decades. Plus, God doesn't favor men who watch porn and then betray their wives. If you're lucky, she won't divorce your dumb ass and she'll forgive you, but many women are deprived of sex because their lustful husbands watched one too many pornos and now they are just creepy and their dick don't work right and she'd rather stay married than go it alone and then date another creep with the same problems. Smart women don't trade the hell they know for the hell they don't. Not to mention, society is falling apart faster each day, time to grow the fuck up and be a team. No one should be divorcing, you're going to need each other. Just spare us. Narcissists are often hooked on porn and have extra-marital affairs. They lie, cheat, manipulate. They often have issues with close relationships, but they are also often charming and can have a lot of casual friends. Everything revolves around them, and they lack a moral compass. With such individuals, the best you can do for yourself is to run - far and fast. Your relationship will end, tomorrow, next week, or in 10 years, but it will end, and it won't be pretty. If a man is really into porn, and especially multiple-partner for sex, he might be a narcissist. If he comes on fast and strong, trying to get a relationship going, beware! A lot of women were freaked out by the Chris Watts case if you are familiar with that. Chris Watts is not every man He even looked slightly psychotic |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 75974990 United States 03/14/2019 05:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Generally, you can figure out who was at fault when you look at the burden of work after the divorce. Whose load got lighter? Whose load got a lot heavier? Generally, the one with the resultant heavier load falls apart, while the one with the lighter load thrives and comes back to life. Some mates do everything for the joint well-being, While the other does everything for their own well-being (while pretending otherwise.) For example - a man's excuse that he works 40 hours a week... Would he not "work" at all if she left? Would he not work if he was single? How then would he continue to live? Take a realistic look at the load we ALL carry just to live, and notice if there is at least mostly balance.... or not. Lazy users (men or women) are the biggest problem. Such an entitlement mindset these days... yet our very physical existence has "work" as the main condition. (tempered with Balance, of course.) |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 45408168 United States 03/14/2019 05:07 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Learn that marriage is given by God. Quoting: Free Indeed 73 He established it and you as husband and wife should honour His covenant. Put Him first and husbands love your wives as Christ loves His church and died for it. Women respect your husbands and obey them as instructed in the Lord. Problem is the world doesn't recognize God first and foremost and everyone is out for themselves as the greedy little sinners we are. Know Jesus and know peace!! Btw, I'm getting married soon, God brought her to me as he did Eve unto Adam. God bless you all. You met at a nudist camp? |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 76170368 United States 03/14/2019 05:10 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Oh plaheeeeeeeease. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 77457430 99% of men have porn addic.tio.n problems and their brains and penises are all messed up from what they subjected their minds to for decades. Plus, God doesn't favor men who watch porn and then betray their wives. If you're lucky, she won't divorce your dumb ass and she'll forgive you, but many women are deprived of sex because their lustful husbands watched one too many pornos and now they are just creepy and their dick don't work right and she'd rather stay married than go it alone and then date another creep with the same problems. Smart women don't trade the hell they know for the hell they don't. Not to mention, society is falling apart faster each day, time to grow the fuck up and be a team. No one should be divorcing, you're going to need each other. Just spare us. Narcissists are often hooked on porn and have extra-marital affairs. They lie, cheat, manipulate. They often have issues with close relationships, but they are also often charming and can have a lot of casual friends. Everything revolves around them, and they lack a moral compass. With such individuals, the best you can do for yourself is to run - far and fast. Your relationship will end, tomorrow, next week, or in 10 years, but it will end, and it won't be pretty. If a man is really into porn, and especially multiple-partner for sex, he might be a narcissist. If he comes on fast and strong, trying to get a relationship going, beware! A lot of women were freaked out by the Chris Watts case if you are familiar with that. Chris Watts is not every man He even looked slightly psychotic Oh, I know. It's just one of those internet things that put some people in an alternate mind set away from most reality- porn is another thing. Fake political news and so on. |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 77085017 Puerto Rico 03/14/2019 05:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | But men get really pompous about what they provided her. He makes a bold statement that he works 10 hour days to provide for her. That is not what keeps women around. Simply being a basic provider is not even close to enough. Quoting: Anonymous Coward 69659698 Men lay down to rot because they have their basic needs met. He has food, water, tv, bed and good quality sex. He loses his masculinity and just gets lost in a day to day world of work, eat, sex, sleep, repeat. This is AMAZING to a young wife, but after 5 years of this, she starts to want SO MUCH MORE. Women are different than men. Women tend to have their most important years between age 22 and 40. After 40, their kids no longer need her to survive. Her lil pipsqueeks could probably survive on their own. She is dealing with a serious shift in thinking. She needs more purpose in her life. This time of change for her comes EXACTLY when her husband starts his serious testosterone decline and lose of ambition. She is seeking purpose, while he is losing motivation for even the smallest of ambitions like changing light bulbs. She is slowly awakening while he is slowly falling asleep. She gets depressed because she doesn't feel like he is sexy enough for sex. Sex becomes a chore. She doesn't want to just have sex every day and have no direction in life. She wants adventure, she wants to get closer to god, she wants to be with a real man. What is a real man? A real man provides her endless feelings of purpose due to his incredible leadership. He performs amazing innovative maintenance of their lifestyle. He provides her with so much that keeps her intetested and he has so much masculine power that she feels that god has put him in charge of her. When women dirorce a man, their first reaction is to get ahold of some masculinity. This usually comes in the form of a young strong high testosterone hunk. She yearns to find high testosterone. Sadly, after all the flings ar over, divirced wonen tend to repeat the same processes where she finds a good strong single guy and she watches him lose hos ambition and motivation just like her ex husband, so the cycle of divorce repeats again. It's very hard for a woman to find that perfect guy who isn't gonna lay down and rot 10 years into a marriage. Those guys tend to get gobbled up really early in life and part of what inspires him to be so strong, so masculine and so motivated is because he has a gorgeous sweet wife. If ypu want your husband to keep getting better in life, you as a woman have to perform maintence too. You have to inspire him in order for him to inspire you. get a budweiser horse ! some day he will hit bottom ! before he drops dead! |
Unclelunatic User ID: 35354613 Canada 03/14/2019 05:12 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: GA Girl Narcissists are often hooked on porn and have extra-marital affairs. They lie, cheat, manipulate. They often have issues with close relationships, but they are also often charming and can have a lot of casual friends. Everything revolves around them, and they lack a moral compass. With such individuals, the best you can do for yourself is to run - far and fast. Your relationship will end, tomorrow, next week, or in 10 years, but it will end, and it won't be pretty. If a man is really into porn, and especially multiple-partner for sex, he might be a narcissist. If he comes on fast and strong, trying to get a relationship going, beware! A lot of women were freaked out by the Chris Watts case if you are familiar with that. Chris Watts is not every man He even looked slightly psychotic Oh, I know. It's just one of those internet things that put some people in an alternate mind set away from most reality- porn is another thing. Fake political news and so on. Yea, our mental health is being degraded on purpose and very masterfully I must say To control this many people is pretty impressive, or maybe I just give us humans too much credit and everyone is really an idiot |