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My son died yesterday, please say a prayer for his soul...and mine | |
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| AmericanJedi User ID: 1503533 United States10/25/2011 11:03 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | For some reason, I thought of this when I read the OP's post. I'm not making fun. In fact, I've always found this scene a little heartwarming. God be with you and your family. (GLP aka American Jedi) Listen here you beautiful bitch, I'm about to fuck you up with some truth. Kenny Powers If you steal the dreams of others long enough, sooner or later you'll end up in a nightmare. American Jedi Intellectuals solve problems, geniuses prevent them. Albert Einstein Satis Eloquentiae, Sapientiae Parum.... "The last of the old?" "No, the first of the new." |
| 11.11.11 User ID: 3688516 United States10/25/2011 11:05 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Sending healing vibrations of love to you and your family. Your son is in great company. You will see him again. Sooner then you think.(Earth changes) Death does not extinguishing the light; it is putting out the lamp before the new dawn. Sorry for your loss.. Delicate this song to you and your son Spirituality is the opposite of religion, religion is a substitute for spirituality. Spirituality is a direct connection to Creator The Most high. Anyone who inflicts pain on others will suffer themself from that pain. Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I fear no evil. |
| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1107716 United States10/25/2011 11:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way... Quoting: exiled1 My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now. One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings. I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now??? I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow... I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this. I love you buddy  Bro, listen to me. Been there done that. If he was a good man YOU WILL SEE YOUR SON AGAIN! If he is a bit mixed up (good and bad) pray for him! It will get him through the transition. YOU are in control of him still, it's just that you can't see it. Only his Earth body was damaged. He has new one now. I am willing to bet it is the same as before but stronger. You will see it for yourself when the time is right. He was just relocated. There are changes going on in life. Christ and his workers are near. Things are not what they seem to be. FOCUS! Send this message to your other son. Go to a CHRISTIAN church. Tell them what happened. They will explain more. This sucks but not what it seems! Prayers sent for your new understanding. |
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| daughter in NYC User ID: 2376560 United States10/25/2011 11:32 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way... Quoting: exiled1 My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now. One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings. I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now??? I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow... I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this. I love you buddy We lost our son last month killed by a careless cell phone operator speeder. I begged God to take me and leave my child. This is the worst thing we have ever gone through. Prayers sent for you and your family. May the goodness of the Lord touch you and heal your spirit daughter in NYC |
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| oh_yikes User ID: 3972484 United States10/25/2011 11:36 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I am so sorry for your loss. The pain you are feeling must be unimaginable. Prayers to you and your family for strength and the ability to cope during this time. Many positive thoughts have been sent your way as i can see by the size of this thread, and I am hoping that the sheer volume of good vibes sent your way is helping you get through this somehow.  |
| Mooshi Kin User ID: 1527892 United States10/25/2011 11:37 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My heart goes out to you :( No words can express or take away the pain you and your family are going through. You need to try to be strong and focused and give extra support to his brother. Make time to spend quality time with him ..you both will need this to heal. Try to not dwell on the things you may have missed with him and try to think of all the good things you shared. |
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| MartianPrincess User ID: 1347453 United States10/25/2011 11:40 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | My most heartfelt condolences, OP. Words cannot properly express the sorrow I feel for your infinite loss. I am a mother as well and our children are not only precious but irreplaceable- even if we know their soul is eternal, it's their physical state and presence that we will miss the most. Please know that it's ok to allow yourself to FEEL your pain deeply, to cry and grieve for him with the same intensity you love him. I'm very sorry for your feelings of regret but know that no matter what your son loved you and went knowing he was loved. May peace and solace find you when you are good and ready to begin to heal. Last Edited by MartianPrimate on 10/25/2011 11:41 AM Occam's Razor, morans! |
| nzreva User ID: 1063963 United States10/25/2011 11:45 AM  Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | I just don't know what to do. This isn't supposed to happen. Not this way... Quoting: exiled1 My son was killed in a car accident yesterday. It is so painful to type these words, but I know there are good people on here and I really need all the help I can get right now. One month away from his twentieth birthday, didn't even make it out of the teens...damnit it hurts, and I feel so bad for his brother, he has no other siblings. I really thought I was through with the loss, I thought I had no more to lose...never thought this would happen, never even entertained the thought. I really believed I was making a comeback and things were starting to get better. Why this, why now??? I just returned from picking out caskets for him, believe me there is nothing more heart breaking to have to do...I still can not believe this is really happening. Family have been here fortunately but times like this when I am alone, gets pretty rough. One minute I am fine, the next you get knocked over by an overwhelming sense of grief or something...it really is too much to handle, I don't know what to do. I just wish i could go back in time and stop it from happening somehow... I don't know what to say, but please, please just say a prayer for us...I really don't think I am coming back from this one....its hurts so damn bad knowing you will never see him again...He was my fishing buddy and we never made the time to go out this past summer. The missed moments are tearing me up right now, didn't know I could hurt this bad. i am usually tougher than this. I love you buddy So sorry |
| Sickandtired User ID: 1419023 United States10/25/2011 11:46 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Prayers said, there are no words that can comfort you right now, just know that you are not alone. There are others that feel your grief, take it one day at a time. I have been grieving for 9 months now, you will have good days and bad days, just try to remember the good times that you shared with your son. It helps. |
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| Anonymous Coward User ID: 1288791 United States10/25/2011 12:34 PM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | OP, I cannot even imagine. I found out yesterday that another of my friend's sons was killed by his girlfriend's drug dealer. Same age. My sons are nearing that age and both stories bring me to tears. Sending love and peace to you and yours,and hoping that with time, you will find comfort in your memories of happy times with your son and peace in knowing you loved him well. my heart goes out to you.  |
I have no words!