I never had an orgasm with my husband... Is it wrong to fake it?

fake it when u get extremly wet. fake your moan, fake your last scream. it'll make him "come". seek help afterward please.

Lolololol! Omg!

It's like Ice-T used to say: "it ain't like their men can't nut, their dick's too little and they just can't fuck"

You have never been hot for your husband - why did you marry him? Bad basis for a marriage.

Of course this could be a troll thread.

Ask him which would he prefer you do. Case closed.

Oh good lord, here we go again.

Yeah that is why there are billions of asians.

"What is a true Orgasm"?

Many People (Females) do not have a Peak,
many Men ejaculate but never experience "a real Orgasm"!

Sometimes it is a physical Problem and sometimes it is psychological
"and" sometimes a chemical!

Just don't give up to search for it

[link to www.plig.net]

female orgasms are all in the mind. they really are.


dont fake it, s dishonest and really does more harm than good. youre obviously capable of having orgasms so theres nothing wrong with you physically. i think you need to take a good look at your relationship with him because someting is off. you need to get to the bottom of it.

Want the truth?

When a woman orgasms, a pumping action occurs that "vacuums" the sperm into her uterus. Women were given this ability to give them some measure of power over whom they reproduce with. On the ape stage of evolution, they were regularly raped by every male in the group, but they could decide whose child to carry by only orgasming with the preferred male.

In short, you are not having orgasms with him, because your body does not want to carry his child. It really is that simple.

If you do love him and want to stay with him, then you need to deal with this issue. You and your body are not in agreement here, and you need to convince your own body that he is indeed the "alpha" your body is waiting for.

Just "program" your body to think that way by holding the thought of him being all you crave sexually in your mind. Repeat this mind exercise daily, until your body gets the message.

Well you've already stated you masterbate and cum 8 times a day. that right there could be your problem.

That is total bullshit, not the truth. Some women experience orgasms during rape and feel betrayed by their own body due to this. Has NOTHING to do with prefered male.

My thoughts exactly... They are giving her hell because HE CAN'T .

L-Arginine can quadruple the erection time of a man, I would suggest 3-5 grams 1/2 hour before sex.

But it sounds psychological you are not sexually satisfied.

I predict a side tryst with any guy you figure is hung enough to shoot you to the moon.

You just added extra evidence to my cause bro...

I just told you a woman's body has a mind of its own, and that it isn't always in agreement with the woman herself.

Some women experience orgasm during rape, just because their bodies respond to the "alpha" trait of the rapist who takes what he wants without asking. The body effectively says "yes! This is a strong male, I will gladly carry his child!".

The woman herself definitely feels betrayed by her own body from the experience, since she did not not agree to it!

A woman can and should become the master of her own body, just as a man can and should become the master of his.

The correct way for a woman to deal with her body, is to program it to respond to the man she has chosen. This is no different for men either - a man should program his body to respond to his chosen life partner and not let it lead him astray to fertilize everything in sight.

If you take control of your body this way, your life gets more harmonious.

This used to be common knowledge, but humanity has gone downhills lately...

it's not important, somebody decided that is what you should do, you proved it is a fail (the outside command you should do that) the world does as it does and so do you, fuck outside comments and whatever they ORDER you to do to be "perfect". life is not perfect it is what it is, give him a show and cum really hard for him, then left him fuck the hell out of you and let him cum, then throw out the "expectations" some outsider placed on you to "cum with your husband or else you are broken"

who the fuck are they to set some "standard" for us to follow?

my happiness comes in whatever form it comes in, outside some stupid standard some asshole decided I should follow and decide will make me happy - what in the fuck does that asshole know about me? - not a fucking thing.

and yes it is wrong, squat right over his face, spread it wide, and cum all over his tongue for him! - he will like it (men prefer visuals)

let him fuck u in the ass with his tiny cock whilst pulling your hair , i think u need him to treat u like the dirty little fucking slut that u are ..... yes yes indeed that should get u squeeling lika pig .

has he ever stuck his middle finger up your exit hole?

That'll do it.

Good, it shouldn't be about you anyways.

I'm a great lover! How do I know? Every time I make love... I cum.

If he's warming you up right with his tongue and fingers you should be ready to explode. Women usually orgasm way before I do and usually have at least a second one because I tend to last fairly long. I also occasionally pull out and go down again then they have a huge one around the time I get mine if we time it right.

Does he just do foreplay at first, sometimes you got to go back downtown a time or two.

Not lying and neither are they mate. :( sucks for you.

The problem is you masterbate 3-8 times a day and desensitize yourself. If you want to orgasm with him flick the bean less.

You masterbate too much.

Try riding him backwards. Lean forward and hold his lower legs. It gets me every time, plus hubby likes the view;)

I was with my husband for 26 years, and I lied/faked it. There were a few times I tried to tell him the truth early on, but he was just so hurt.

In my case, even when I tried to come clean and work with him to achieve my orgasm, well it just never worked. He was just unteachable. No matter how many times I told him what I needed and tried to show him, he was just a complete klutz...

So if he is able to learn, tell him, and if he is like my ex... don't bother. :)

Very poor advice but my advice none the less.

how would you even know if she was faking it? Women are pros at faking it...