TIPS ON DATING

must be at church this morning.

Go join a pottery class or something. It's easier to get in with people when you're doing something together.

I like meeting people through hobbies (skiing, archery class, etc). Just last week a guy asked me out in the grocery store after he told me how beautiful my eyes were. I was creeped out even though he was nice about it, I felt he was too pushy, and I declined.

I love guys that ski.

Get out there. Go to public events, get a job where you interact with customers, etc.

a hobby , go out amongst the people.

hmmm is that all i have to do.....lol



what would knock your pantyhose off, that's what im looking for.

i am very confident in speaking with the ladies, just not sure what is the best ice breaker....

im sure you ladies have ideas on how you wish a man would court you....

you need to understand something... YOU don't find a woman, SHE finds you. Sure women love attention and we will allow you to court and fuss over us, but we already know what we want subconsciously in a man, so you are only wasting your time looking for 'ideas'.

Every man I've ever fallen head over heels for, I noticed him first and then made my game plan to get him into my life.

Trust me, no woman wants a desperate loser type of guy who trolls GLP for dating ideas.

basic criteria:
- honesty
- trustworthy
- a good job and steady cash flow (yes we ladies cost $ at times)
- a sense of humor
- street smarts and educated
- good looks (will be different for everyone)
- smell good, have good hygiene and healthy teeth
- be good in bed
- no pron addictions... they are relationship killers over time


BTW, most of us can sense a psycho/schizo/nut job types so don't waste your time if you are creepy - just keep to yourself and stay in your basement(s). Most girls don't like creepy guys that play video games all day, post on forums role playing and acting retarded, like scary clowns or really bad horror movies. Its a big turn off.

good luck.

I want to date a 144,000 or a bankster islander.

And live alone in africa.

ah some meat and potatoes i can sink my teeth into
much appreciated.

as for your own ways.

i would assume the men that you have seen in your life that you knew you were going to get, as you put it. game plan.

was already a man that you knew. it was not ever a complete stranger right.
if it was, how on earth did you go about getting him ?

this is what i would like to hear.
pretty much the subtle hints you give to a man to let him know your interested in him.


thanks again for your honesty, and i think most woman, atleast 90% think exactly the way you think.

of course at one time they were all strangers at first... I believe in love at first sight. Chemistry. That instant when your eyes connect and you know in that moment that you will have that person in your arms at a future point in time. I can't explain it, other than that. You just know what you know.

As for the people you may 'fall' in love with over time, sure there are times when you have a man as a friend and he stands by you, treats you with respect and is always there for you, he is honest with you, and when you are done chasing the chemical highs, sometimes you settle down with that special male friend who never treated you badly, ever, and was always a good friend. Those situations are even more rare though, as most men cannot be friends with a woman, they are incapable of being honest or trustworthy since most of them hate women so much, because women have a reputation of being so evil... they just want to take what they can get and move on to the next one.

so yeah, its complicated and chances are you will find someone when you are not looking for someone.


hope this helps.

oh, and when I liked someone, I just told them up front. I never played games. I made myself available and kept the window open for them to respond, if they felt the same way. If they were not interested, I simply moved on and didn't fret over it. of the very few times I've been in love with the 'love at first sight' types, I always found myself in a good relationship with each person. Different chapters of my life filled with love and learning from each of them.

I'm a woman and I need advise as well.

Ok so I meet a guy online, we chat then go out.
He seems really interested even emails when he got home after the date.

We made plans to go to lunch the next day but he cancles because it was his brothers bday.
SO we made plans for the next day ... today.

I get an email and he says I'm soory I am really busy I have to cancel.

I write back friendzone.
He says no
I say You're not into me
He says Oh yes I want to know you


WTF I haven't responded

I did like him and we had a lot in common .... shame

this chick is a fraud; She has never been FUCKED the right way.

And any man who has pursued a woman in a primal, natural, respectful manner knows this; that look in her eye , when you lift her from her "knowing" world. when you "teach" her how good it can be;

this chick thinks she is in control of her own pussy.

oh honey, I am happily married to a wonderful man who fucks me right. I think I know my own pussy.

but if it makes you feel good to think that way, knock yourself out.

And women wonder why men have given up on them. My God.

today's world of email and social media make it very confusing to 'read' people.

Here's the deal, when someone really likes you, they can't be without you (especially in the beginning). Sorry, but face time is what counts. Texting, emailing, facebooking all keep people at arm's length so they can have their cake and eat it too. Not saying you have to be connected at the hip, but of all the times I've been in hot & heavy relationships, you find a way to see that person as much as you want, because it hurts too much not to see them. that's how you know.

oh and let me guess, you are a psycho who didn't get the girl you were after? Loser. Sucks to be you, huh?

*chuckles*

what comes around goes around...

let us not forget... women don't need men.

but you men sure do need us women.

This needs reviewing :)

Oh and OP, since the women haters have shown up on this thread, I am out of here. Good luck. Remember the single most important thing to most women is trust. If you expect to have a deep heart/soul connection it must be based in trust. From there love can grow.


Love is Friendship set on FIRE.

This is something that most men will never understand. Sex better when you are with someone you truly trust. And with trust you will have respect, one of the most important things you can do and give to a man is respect. It is true honor to a man to have his woman respect him. Men get jealous when they see other men that have this, which is why many of them tear down their own. Its a jungle out there, true animal kingdom. The man that conquers the woman he wants is the man that is not afraid to treat her with kindness, love and true honesty.

OP if ur objective is sex then you can try Craig's list. There u can find plenty of women.

I love the term women haters. Mostly used by post mid 30's women who thought they were too good for every man that ever "hit on them".
They think life is a movie and Prince Charming will saddle up and ride up to them, sweep them off their feet and take them to a golden castle.

just walk up to any girl and say "can I finger your butthole". that's it, you're welcome for the tip.

Approach in non threatening atmosphere wherein others are around and with whom you can also strike up a conversation and observe intereactions between people present to see how it goes. After a time when you and they seem comfortable with more exposure socially inquire about family, friends preferred social settings, etc. ShAre interests to see if compatibility might exist.

Check out the aqulity and stability of their friends.

Or perhaps they don't want to be sluts. Most women are not interested in one night stands and most men only want one night stands.

This is why u get so many threads like this one.

Men and women want two different things

actually its people that are behind feminism that promote this.

A real woman knows her place. And she knows how to keep her man happy.

Feminism has ruined many lives, and that is why divorce is so high and people are so miserable in the dating scene.

I love my place in my man's world. And I never forget that he is in charge.

had this feeling once. so i know what you mean.

Step1:give some money
Step2:get naked
Step3:hump hump hump

Can it get more easy?

I know its probably over done but I always pick up an ounce of cocaine and hit the clubs. It's a failsafe method. If you're looking for longterm love then keep her strung out with the doors locked.

If she gets cabin fever just tell her the cops are watching the house.