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Anonymous Coward User ID: 37232923 United Kingdom 04/03/2013 05:57 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hi OP, Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27945631 How are you doing:) It's no big deal. It's called male menopause. Here are some tips for you: One of the crucial times of a human being’s life is the middle age. But because no one can experience it before going through it so they can’t even think in prior what is going to happen in their middle age. In the young age, people are so busy with their tedious work schedules that they live the moment and don’t think much about the future life. But it is unavoidable and everybody has to face it one or the other time. Then how to deal with mid life crisis is a question which needs to be answered before it is too late. When people go through mid life crises, they don’t behave as expected. They don’t even feel consistently. Mood swings and irritation are very common symptoms in this age. But one needs to tackle them in order to live a happy and peaceful life. Here, we are giving some useful tips on how to deal with mid life crisis. This age group definitely needs time, love and affection by their near and dear ones. But how can they manage this situation themselves is what we are focusing. 1. Awareness – You have to be aware that this is a tough time for you and you have to go through it. No matter what happens but you have to control your outburst of emotions in front of everyone. You should be aware of the changes occurring in your health and behavior because of the effects of middle age. 2. Positive Thinking- While finding the answer of how to deal with mid life crisis, you should think in a positive manner and convince yourself that this is not you have ever wished for but this is what you are getting out of life. It is with everybody. And it’s just a phase which will be over soon. 3. Manage- While dealing with mid life crisis, you have to manage all your activities in such a manner that they should not look awkward to anyone else. Don’t try to follow those principles and guidelines which are already there for the middle age people. But instead make your own in which you feel comfortable and follow them all the time. 4. Commitment- Here commitment is not for your lover or your wife. But here you have to commit to your life. Promise yourself that you will live truthfully all the days ahead. This is being proved that people of the middle age often lie only to please other people or to manage their own anxiety. But you should not do this, as it will create complications for you. Try to be simple and live truthfully. 5. Self Examination- You can also indulge yourself in self examination and can ask for help from your spouse or other family members for better and accurate answers. This tip will really help in knowing how to deal with mid life crisis. You will get some amazing answers and can even feel centered in the family. By such small activities, you can have fun with your whole family and live happily together. 6. Dealing With Shadow Side- This is definitely the darker side of your life. And you have to deal with all the positive approaches and feelings. You can’t cheat yourself anymore. This is the time you have to manage your activities well and in a coordinated manner. 7. Look For More Options- If you feel like you are free and idle and don’t have any work to do then make a new start. You can open a brand new store under your guidance and can run it for the rest of your life. If you think this is not your cup of tea then try to indulge in small projects that will etch you some great results. 8. Be Gentle And Polite- You have to be gentle and polite with people around you. Don’t try to take out your frustration on your lover or spouse. This will create bitterness in the relationships. Try to be cool and calm in every negative situation. 9. Patience – Patience is the key of how to deal with mid life crisis. If you have patience then no one can harm you. You will be the king of your own life. Thus, it becomes easy to solve the question how to deal with mid life crisis by following the above mentioned tips. Take care:) Hey Canada. Thanks for posting this. I've apparently been going through some kind of mid life crisis then! Now I understand just why I've felt so down and negative and worthless lately. Do you have any more excellent advice like the above? |
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Marxist User ID: 6965238 New Zealand 04/03/2013 06:09 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | ... Quoting: Anonymous Coward 29225836 What does that have to do with anything? If you have a daughter it means you've gone gay? Until you have daughters there is no way for you to understand. I see pretty girls myself. I look, I turn my head and I crowd out any sexual thoughts I have about seeing them. The key is to not stare. I do have a daughter. I can appreciate a sexy young 20 something without confusing her with my daughter though. It's not a matter of confusing the other girl with my daughter. It's a matter of respect for my daughters. Do you understand? You have some issues there bub. Your sexuality has nothing whatsoever to do with your kids. They are one thing, your kids....your sexuality and who you are is another, your sovereign state as a human being. Workers of the World, Unite. You have nothing to lose but your chains! |
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Anonymous Coward User ID: 30474188 United States 04/03/2013 07:12 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ugh, when I was twenty you guys creeped me out, and now you're creeping out my daughters, the majority of young women like being looked at by young men, but definitely not older men. Quoting: K.Kool there are laws against age discrimination. Anyway i'm an ex dirty old man now in my 60's and if a bunch of skimpily clad young women rubbed themselves on me i would just run away. |
K.Kool User ID: 36535153 Australia 04/03/2013 07:20 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ugh, when I was twenty you guys creeped me out, and now you're creeping out my daughters, the majority of young women like being looked at by young men, but definitely not older men. Quoting: K.Kool there are laws against age discrimination. Anyway i'm an ex dirty old man now in my 60's and if a bunch of skimpily clad young women rubbed themselves on me i would just run away. Some of my friends like to ogle young men, I would just feel like a pedo. |
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indigowiz User ID: 34972892 Australia 04/03/2013 07:24 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ugh, when I was twenty you guys creeped me out, and now you're creeping out my daughters, the majority of young women like being looked at by young men, but definitely not older men. Quoting: K.Kool there are laws against age discrimination. Anyway i'm an ex dirty old man now in my 60's and if a bunch of skimpily clad young women rubbed themselves on me i would just run away. Some of my friends like to ogle young men, I would just feel like a pedo. Lighten Up Honey you've still got it! Iam Alpha and Omega |
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K.Kool User ID: 36535153 Australia 04/03/2013 07:28 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Ugh, when I was twenty you guys creeped me out, and now you're creeping out my daughters, the majority of young women like being looked at by young men, but definitely not older men. Quoting: K.Kool there are laws against age discrimination. Anyway i'm an ex dirty old man now in my 60's and if a bunch of skimpily clad young women rubbed themselves on me i would just run away. Some of my friends like to ogle young men, I would just feel like a pedo. Lighten Up Honey you've still got it! Hahaa, thanks, but I'm keeping myself only for older men Last Edited by #KK# on 04/03/2013 07:29 AM |
Anonymous Coward User ID: 1141627 Netherlands 04/03/2013 07:47 AM Report Abusive Post Report Copyright Violation | Hi OP, Quoting: Anonymous Coward 27945631 How are you doing:) It's no big deal. It's called male menopause. Here are some tips for you: One of the crucial times of a human being’s life is the middle age. But because no one can experience it before going through it so they can’t even think in prior what is going to happen in their middle age. In the young age, people are so busy with their tedious work schedules that they live the moment and don’t think much about the future life. But it is unavoidable and everybody has to face it one or the other time. Then how to deal with mid life crisis is a question which needs to be answered before it is too late. When people go through mid life crises, they don’t behave as expected. They don’t even feel consistently. Mood swings and irritation are very common symptoms in this age. But one needs to tackle them in order to live a happy and peaceful life. Here, we are giving some useful tips on how to deal with mid life crisis. This age group definitely needs time, love and affection by their near and dear ones. But how can they manage this situation themselves is what we are focusing. 1. Awareness – You have to be aware that this is a tough time for you and you have to go through it. No matter what happens but you have to control your outburst of emotions in front of everyone. You should be aware of the changes occurring in your health and behavior because of the effects of middle age. 2. Positive Thinking- While finding the answer of how to deal with mid life crisis, you should think in a positive manner and convince yourself that this is not you have ever wished for but this is what you are getting out of life. It is with everybody. And it’s just a phase which will be over soon. 3. Manage- While dealing with mid life crisis, you have to manage all your activities in such a manner that they should not look awkward to anyone else. Don’t try to follow those principles and guidelines which are already there for the middle age people. But instead make your own in which you feel comfortable and follow them all the time. 4. Commitment- Here commitment is not for your lover or your wife. But here you have to commit to your life. Promise yourself that you will live truthfully all the days ahead. This is being proved that people of the middle age often lie only to please other people or to manage their own anxiety. But you should not do this, as it will create complications for you. Try to be simple and live truthfully. 5. Self Examination- You can also indulge yourself in self examination and can ask for help from your spouse or other family members for better and accurate answers. This tip will really help in knowing how to deal with mid life crisis. You will get some amazing answers and can even feel centered in the family. By such small activities, you can have fun with your whole family and live happily together. 6. Dealing With Shadow Side- This is definitely the darker side of your life. And you have to deal with all the positive approaches and feelings. You can’t cheat yourself anymore. This is the time you have to manage your activities well and in a coordinated manner. 7. Look For More Options- If you feel like you are free and idle and don’t have any work to do then make a new start. You can open a brand new store under your guidance and can run it for the rest of your life. If you think this is not your cup of tea then try to indulge in small projects that will etch you some great results. 8. Be Gentle And Polite- You have to be gentle and polite with people around you. Don’t try to take out your frustration on your lover or spouse. This will create bitterness in the relationships. Try to be cool and calm in every negative situation. 9. Patience – Patience is the key of how to deal with mid life crisis. If you have patience then no one can harm you. You will be the king of your own life. Thus, it becomes easy to solve the question how to deal with mid life crisis by following the above mentioned tips. Take care:) This is an absolute prescription to destroy you life. What a selfish pile of new age dung. Remember, you can age with dignity and class. We can never turn the clock back. You take care too:) We can never turn the clock back? Who the fuck is we? People have done so, people are doing it. You are going to die no doubt, as will most of you but that doesn't mean everyone else is stupid enough to die. Dying is a choice. The choice is in not looking for the solution to bypass it. You already made the choice, you didn't come here to make the choice you already made it. You are here trying to understand your stupid choice which you will never understand. Haha I love typing this shit to stupid people. |
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