You have the strength!!!

Still pondering. See you later. Knus.

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Wow.That was beautifully written and very inspiring as well.I`m going to copy this and put it somewhere where i can read it often.Thanks.

yes.

Thank you my friend.

See you later... Knus og kærlighed

Happy that there was something in it for you my friend
You are very welcome

Lots of love to you

Thank YOU my friend
Heart to heart

this came on a day that things maxed out in the nightmare dept. just when i said i can't take no more and my mind feels like it's just gonna fall apart.
but somehow i woke up with new determination and strength and
then i came here and saw your poem and it seemed like a good omen. appreciate it.

Happy you did see it
Bc sometimes we just find ourselves there
Where nothing really makes sense and we can't take anymore
Then we just need to be reminded
On how strong and amazing we really are
There in behind our feeling of worthlessness and selfblame
And embrace our true power
And be it

Thanks for sharing your beautiful heart
Lots of love and power to you

It takes a lot of work and experience and the will to see people through the heart, to see through this destructive behaviour against one another.
It´s sad, some people don´t recognize, what they´re doing to themselves, but it´s in the habits..

When all we should do at this moment in time, is hear the inner (re)bell.

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Awesome your sight is clear

It sure does...
But when we get to there, we realize that we are all indeed one...
Not just as a theory that sounds nice and sweet, harmonic...
But something self experienced, through all the struggle, pain, blood and tears... Through all the bullcrap and empty words, we dig into right that what makes it real...
Which makes it so real that we can't help ourselves sharing and sharing it, for all to understand that, no matter the price and no matter what we are called...
Bc we know it is true and we know that there is no way around this, for no one, and we keep insisting...
Out of our open hearts...

Thanks for your kind words...
Lots of love to you, my friend

141, can you write a poem for me please? It's about how you move beyond hurt, anger, and doubt.

the person I love has played a small deception with me recently, and today I am hurting so much that I think my heart is going to die.

what can you say to a person who is called to believe when a level of trust has been broken? There has been no intimacy with another person, but too much close talking and too often has caused a doubt in my heart.

how does one move beyond feelings of distrust and doubt? In life, do we give another chance or do we walk away?

You always talk about love in many ways. I wonder what you would say about this type of situation. I think it can extend to many situations beyond that of a love relationship, can't it? If you write something, please call it: Trust and Deception

If not, I will keep reading because I see some helpful thoughts in all these writings!

Hey my friend...
I'll do what I can to help you...
I know that situation very well...
Was in this marriage and had never loved anyone as deeply as her, we were married for 7 years, didn't had any kids together, but our love was deep and we were friends and could talk about everything, even we also had our differencies...
In 2008 I found out that there was some kind of intimacy between her and another man, I couldn't all put my finger on it, but I knew and I could feel it every time where she connected with him, bc I am very sensitive and when I love someone I love them deep like that...
Deep like everything melts together...
Time passed, and it was some hard days, I struggled for our marriage, bc the love was still there... So deep...
And in the good times we would get even closer to eachother, and in the bad times I would only have thoughts of leaving it all... Finished, broken....
It was at the same time, late 2010 that I began to wake up, spiritually, something of a ride in itself, and the other on top of it...
Well, our marriage ended in 2011... Where I took the decision to leave, even the love was still so deep, and it still is, but there was no trust left...
Leaving also lead into a whole bunch of experiences, not all of them amazing, some very ugly.. But each and everyone I could learn from and grow deeper....
And too I have seen this pattern repeating itself, that those I love this deeply somehow deceive my trust...
There may be many reasons for that, I can only love and trust fully, am not in the controlling business, and that I know scares some, that deep love where you are 'allowed' just to be yourself, together with another person...
However, it has given me a lot of experience and love, which I share at the best of my ability...
Wasn't kidding when I wrote that sometimes pain is our guide to what is real...
So in order to be real, there is only one way and that is through it...
I can't chose for you, it is an important choice...
So my advice for you is to get clarity...
Listen to this person, talk with your friends... But most of all, listen to yourself, listen to that what makes sense at the innermost... And act from there
Easy to say, hard to do, I know that...
Still I know you can...
I hope any of this has been any help, and I will see if a poem pops up, they usually come by themselves...
And feel free to share deeper, also at my email, [email protected]...
I know these things hurt like hell, and can really cut you the deepest...

Of all my heart, lots of love to you

Beautiful, my friend

Thanks for all the love and light you share

I wasn't even going to click on this and when I did, I said, "Oh darn! Another long poem!".

So glad I read it. Fabulous! Great job!!!!

I love you my friend
Thanks for stopping by, always a joy to see you

Haha sorry about that, my friend
Happy it was worth the read, and that there was something in it for your amazing heart...

Lots of love to you


Love all those 8´s in your number :o)

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Your insight is amazing. Together we are stronger and shine even more. Elsker dig.




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Elsker dig!!!

:cub hug:

If you have the desire to come to America and need a place to live for awhile.....

And write.....

One of the most beautiful places in America awaits you......

There will soon be many empty rooms...

Bring your loved one....

All that you will be asked to do is water the flora...

Not a small job in a place where rain does not fall when needed most....

You will have the house to yourselves.....



Love to you my Friend!

Would actually love that
I don't need much of life
A place to sleep and some food
And of course an internet connection (as long as we have that lol)
Don't mind working hard either, am actually a great physiotherapist and healer
Am not here to collect anything, just to share as long as I'm here

And for now I have nothing that keeps me anywhere, my love is in Canada, but are working through some stuff, and I am just waiting... as if the Father wants me to be ready for something...
Most of my friends, that relate to me, I know through the internet
People here are mostly just busy being busy, so nothing keeps me here...
So that might not be a bad idea, find that many in the US are more open than here...
And it's boring always to communicate through screens, when I actually love to talk and listen to others...
So truly sounds interesting, my friend

Lots of love to you


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Hi, I am actually signing in to post so you guys can see who I "am" here. I only recently registered...having the feeling I may need to share and be known to others with the many things going on in my life.

I want to thank you for sharing that, 141, it is indeed helpful. It's very difficult to contemplate that transitions may possibly have to happen, but I do have to listen to that inner self. I'm trying hard to hear! :)

I want to wake up, and maybe this is part of the process. So very painful though. I'm no whimp, but I am hoping for some respite from the very big turbulence I've had to endure in the past several years. I've asked for help from "above" --whatever that is :) I'm simply asking for some peace, to feel joy again, and I'm asking for it so I can better do my job which involves working with children. I want them to have the best of me and sometimes I fear they are getting half because I'm struggling with so much.

There is so much more I could do if I could just have some peace and stabilization in my life. It is not just for me, though the pain of it all (and believe me, it's much more than this issue with the man in my life)is a bit much to handle and I hope for some relief.

I hope I wake up. I hope things get better. Thanks for spreading these ideas. It helps!

Beautiful words from a great soul
Clear insight and very much needed especially after last night. Hope you and your love are soon together as one.

Know that feeling well, to be struggling and not feeling that you can give that what you usually can...
And having no understanding of what is happening...
Like drowning on the inside...
Know for sure you're no whimp, it takes true courage to share like you do, my friend...
I wish I could say to you that it'll soon be better, but I won't lie, and the truth is I don't know...
I know this world is so filled with games and confusion, so much ego and weird stuff, so that we are all affected one way or the other...
I also know that growth often comes with the price of pain and struggle that we have to go through, that our wounded bleeding hearts have the choice to go deeper to understand better...
Of all my heart it hurts me to see so many innocent hearts being worn out, being hurt deeply, dragged into games they do not understand...
And it is no game, it is so real, and many goes down never to come back, brokenhearted...
That's why it is so important to share, to really take that what is hard and to share it, so that we see life from eachothers heart, that helps us understand the brother and sister walking next to us and helps us understand ourselves...
Also for you love... It is so easy to be drawn into something, bc of flatter, insecurity or whatever, to find oneself suddenly in a place where you do not have your heart in it...
It is about sharing and letting go, to forgive ourselves and eachother, to find that true path, together...
Not that you need to stay together, but find that love, find that true tune that was between you and still is, always will be, and let that be the foundation for whatever path you chose...
Our lives are so vulnerable, from one moment to the next we may be gone, so this moment we have to chose love, no matter the pain and the brokenness...
Chose love for our own sake, for those next to us and for this world...
At some point, it will be better, it all will, in this world... And of my heart, that is a promise...

Yes I hope the same, and have faith that the best will shine through, that truth and love will dawn, for us all, in this world...
And even if we are not to be together, still I chose love, not bc it is easy or free, but bc it is what I need, what we all need, whether we know it or not... What this world needs...
And whatever the price may be, let us from the bottom of our hearts chose that love, and share that love...

Lots of love to you, my friend
And thanks for your kind words
May you and your loved ones be blessed

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